0 1, Dink's husband and wife are honest for 23 years: Dink is very cool, free and relaxed.
Sister Li and her husband are a couple? Definitely? From the beginning of love, the two decided to get married without children, but to be a couple? Dink? Lovers. Although the old people on both sides kept urging and nagging, it didn't affect the couple at all? Dink? The determination.
Sister Li said that when she was in her thirties, she was under great psychological pressure. After 40, it was easy, and the family accepted it? Dink? Reality. Without children, Sister Li and her husband have more time for fitness, reading and traveling.
Compared with their peers with children, they have more freedom in time: overtime and business trips are not a problem; Don't have to accompany your child to do homework after work; You can attend friends' parties at any time, and you have a high degree of freedom of action.
Relaxation and freedom are the enviable labels of the Dink family. Sister Li is often envied by friends with dolls, and one of them even changed her signature to? 0 & gt2 & gt 1? Many people don't understand. Li Jie knew at a glance that she missed Dink. It is better to have two children than one.
Sister Li is almost 50 years old now and has a very good relationship with her husband. Since they got married, they have supported and encouraged each other all the way. Nowadays, the most important thing for this couple is health. They insist on going to bed early and getting up early every day, taking exercise and paying attention to healthy diet.
They have several pairs of Dink friends and often go out to travel or get together. If one of us leaves first, the remaining one has at least a bunch of friends. Li Jiexiao said.
For Li Jie and his wife, choose? Dink? Never regretted it, but? Have fun, Dink. Have fun? .
02. Dink's love 10 years: bittersweet, 4/kloc-0 years old chose to have children.
Actor Xie Lan, with gentle and beautiful appearance, has played many classic roles in film and television dramas. In order not to affect the acting career, Xie Lan and her husband have never had children since they got married, which is a veritable phenomenon in the circle? The dinks? .
Just as the couple happily spent the 10 anniversary hand in hand, Xie Lan watched friends around her have children, and friends often saw people basking in the sun, saying that children knew they were distressed when they were seven or eight years old and could help with cooking. I'll help you with the food while you eat. Looking at other people's children, Xie Lan suddenly envied him and began to think about having children.
Knowing that his wife wants children, her husband is also very supportive and does not hesitate to cooperate with her to get pregnant. When Xie Lan was 4 1 year old, she gave birth to a healthy and lovely son as an older woman. Looking at his lovely son, Xie Lan suddenly felt that life was complete.
End? Dink? Xie Lan said? Dink, let the couple have more time to realize themselves, but they can't enjoy the happiness under their knees; To say that Dink's feelings should be bittersweet; The older you get, the more you want children? .
03、? Dink? Regret Pie Kang Hui: If I can start over, I must have a baby.
The love between CCTV host Kang Hui and his wife is enviable, and they have been in love for many years. In the early years, the couple chose not to have children for their careers and for better self-realization. Although my parents urged me countless times, they all postponed it on the grounds of busy work. It was delayed until the parents left, and they failed to give birth to a child.
At that time, the choice of not having children was very wise, which was a decompression for busy couples. But in an interview, Kang Hui felt guilty and said frankly: The most sorry thing for my parents in my life is to give them a grandson. If I can have another chance, I will resolutely let my parents have grandchildren and leave no regrets for my parents or myself? .
Kang Hui has many regrets and regrets? Dink? All families have children. In the early years, because of work, economy, energy and other reasons, they didn't have children. Everything was stable in middle age. What happened? Can't have children? Children can only regret it when they are born.
What risks will Dink face if he persists?
My uncle and aunt have been married for more than 20 years and have never had children. At first, they were still very loving. But two years ago, my uncle, who was almost 50 years old, suddenly wanted children, and what about my aunt, who was also almost 50 years old? Can't have children? . After frequent quarrels, the two chose to divorce.
Dink, it sounds avant-garde and chic, but there are many hidden dangers behind it, especially when you are old, it is more prone to various problems.
(1), is the relationship between husband and wife bright? Red light?
Children are not only the inheritance of a family's blood, but also the bond to maintain the feelings of husband and wife and the sublimation of marriage. After having children, both husband and wife have the same goal and will pour all their love into the children.
Even if couples quarrel occasionally, it is easier to tolerate each other when they have children. Are there any couples with children, one less? Responsibility? Getting married is relatively easy? Disintegration
It is worth noting that the golden reproductive period of women (25-35 years old) is very short. If you want to have a baby, don't miss it? Golden growth period? .
(2) the problem of providing for the aged.
As the saying goes:? Raising children for old age? , for? Dink? For families, providing for the aged is a problem. Although you can hire a nanny and go to a nursing home if you have money, you are taking care of people without children after all.
Is it a lot? Dink? Couples, knowing that there is no one to rely on when they are old, will work harder to make money when they are young and save money early to prepare for their later years.
(3) Other people's strange eyes
In China? Dink? Is it unconventional? Operation is not recognized and understood by everyone. Therefore, most Dink couples have to face the incomprehension of their families and the strange eyes of outsiders, causing serious psychological pressure.
In short, to be a dink, you must think twice before you act. If you don't have children, you can tolerate loneliness and loneliness in your later years. After all, once you go back on your word, you will never come back. Without fertility, all your wishes will eventually become empty.