Friends circle: As the name implies, the circle surrounded by friends is called friends circle, from QQ space, Renren to Weibo, to WeChat friends circle and then to Momo! The advanced point is to brush Facebook, Instagram and so on!
The way people make friends is constantly changing, but it can be roughly divided into open social circles and closed social circles. The content of the circle is nothing more than eating, drinking, falling in love, spitting and sharing some hot spots. There are flag that are often set for fitness learning, and of course there are many self-portraits that are inconsistent with pictures and texts. Words hit the nail on the head to express your bad mood, and then with a smiling picture, let me guess if you are in a good mood. Of course, there are some valuable things to share, and at the same time, I can supplement my unique thinking.
It is absolutely right to have emotions, and so is freedom of speech, so there are people who swear at will on the Internet, follow the crowd on the Internet, and so on, especially online celebrities. As soon as the star class starts in Weibo, there are a bunch of people here who will be hilarious, swearing, supporting all stations and bowing to all kinds of rude words and expressions that they don't understand! So I seldom use Weibo. I'm afraid that one day I'll be scolded for saying something wrong. I'm just kidding! Weibo: For me, the crowd is chaotic and I don't follow the trend. It doesn't matter that I'm behind the times. I don't care. Let people solve their own problems.
I used to post it in the space every day and then sync it to the WeChat circle of friends, even in Weibo. Most people obviously overlap QQ and WeChat, but only a few acquaintances know Weibo. It means that people who watch my news have to watch the same content three times. I post it once a day, sometimes it's all kinds of whimsy about life, sometimes it's self-pity, sometimes it's pretending to be crazy. It was interesting for me to go back and have a look, but I didn't do anything serious all day. No wonder I lived like that before!
Later, I fell out of love and was in no mood. I don't brush other people's Weibo every day to read the comments below. Is it because of lovelorn, too heartbreaking pain? No, but it suddenly occurred to me that I was a junior that year. My major is a mess. I haven't taken several exams, my grades are not good or bad, I haven't done several part-time jobs, I haven't participated in several student activities, and I have read several books. There are still two years left. Do you have to wait until graduation to go home for the elderly? How can I bear to think that my parents have worked hard to make money, and their faces are getting grayer and paler every day? So I picked up the book again, began to think, and began to plan my life. I stopped playing around with my friends and uninstalled all social software. At first, it was painful. I've always wanted to send a status to remind others, or I'm curious if anyone likes or comments after sending it. Is that photo not in the right angle? Wondering what to do if someone wants to talk to me?
After struggling for a week, I got used to it. Finally, I stopped taking my mobile phone to the library to look up words. I borrowed a dictionary and said that I practiced listening. I also bought an old MP3 player specially, so I have no reason to talk about it on my mobile phone.
From then until now, I have no room to say. There is no circle of friends, only a few diaries. I even forgot to bring my mobile phone many times. I began to study hard, practice calligraphy, write my resume carefully and find an internship or part-time job. If there is something urgent, I will occasionally log in with my computer to refresh the news. Nowadays, many people need to publish business information or obtain business information through their circle of friends. This can be said to be a means of propaganda. Some feelings are for others to see, but I know my own feelings. You need to know me. You can know me from my words, and I'm afraid those feelings will mislead you.
There are many trivial things on my mind. For example, the most effective communication is direct greeting or telephone contact. Some people say that there is no friend without a circle of friends. I want to say that I have friends, not many, but really not many. We don't need to chat often, we don't need to meet often, and an occasional greeting is enough!
What have I been doing these years without making friends?
In the past few years, I have been in poor health, often dizzy and weak, and always sleepy. I sleep as soon as I have time. The so-called running legs are thick, which makes me afraid to run. Later, I was really bored, so I ran a few laps with the mentality of giving it a try, sweating like a pig, had a good sleep, and finally fell in love with running and embarked on the road of fitness. It turns out that the legs are not thick and the knees are not beautiful. This incident taught me a truth: don't listen to hearsay unless you experience it yourself! In fact, no one has asked me how much training I have to complete every day and how much weight I have to add or subtract. But I will keep an average of 40 minutes of aerobic exercise every day. After fitness, the waistline will become smaller and the legs will become tighter. Unlike others, my muscles will become thicker and full of endless strength. Besides aerobic exercise, I also run two or three 6-8 kilometers a week. But the weather is getting colder and colder, and the interest in sports will be greatly reduced. What if the running wind is too harsh?
Students who are too warm to exercise at home can follow the APP course. If you are a little lazy, you can jump rope and climb stairs every day! Don't think about it, just jump down, the simplest but most effective way to lose weight and shape. Believe me, I can persist in winter, and the road to fitness will become smoother and more passionate!
Dinner is often arranged in the evening, but it is often difficult to control food intake and calories. I can't move at all after eating, and then I feel guilty the next day. Instead of this, it is better to reduce the frequency of eating. Some meals are ineffective activities, but everyone eats separately and goes home after eating. Don't go out to eat and drink with friends. Friends may not lose weight or exercise, and naturally they can't live without eating. You will naturally eat and play with them, and then many of your exercise rules will be disrupted, but getting together occasionally can enhance your feelings.
In the past three years, I spent an average of 1 1,000 yuan on books every year. I bought several books on psychology before my sophomore year, which I chose to buy when I was doing activities. Opening new books is happier than opening new clothes. I spend more time thinking and studying. I don't often ask my friends to go shopping to buy clothes and eat hot pot. I spend more money on books. After buying it, I will definitely read it and sketch. I don't go out often on weekends anymore. Most importantly, in the past three years, I stopped eating on time and often ate bread and snacks. I started eating three meals a day and sleeping three times.
Among the books I have read, there are my favorite novels, The Count of Monte Cristo, anna karenine and Moby Dick. Although they are a bit long, short stories are not interesting. I like to watch one at a time, but it's shocking after reading it.
The Count of Monte Cristo by Dumas, a famous French writer, is nothing more than about revenge. The power of revenge is so powerful that people can wait for so many years, but does he finally get the pleasure of revenge? It's not true? If the woman you love marries someone else, but she is wronged and imprisoned, everything changes when you come out! And revenge, will you devote your life to it? Or just put it down? Although this is a bit exaggerated, it is the truest portrayal of human nature. It's like your life is hurt. Will you hurt it? In addition to the ups and downs of the interlocking plot of the novel, people can't stop. What this book brings me is people's hearts and happiness! Will you be happier if you get hurt and forget, or will you be happier if you get revenge?
Lev tolstoy, Russia —— anna karenine is nothing more than an affair, a kind of hatred that dare to love but dare not love, fear of divorce, and fear that her son will look down on her in the future. Later, after a big fight, Anna finally ended her young life with the train track. Such a tragedy is inevitably regrettable, and there are many such people in real life! Such people are ultimately unhappy! She wanted it but couldn't get it. On the one hand, she defends her husband and her reputation. In fact, it's a bit like Alicia in the American TV series "A Good Wife". For the sake of her children and her husband, she dared not divorce and loved Will, but in the end Will died. She found that she couldn't love any more until she met Jason. But when her husband was in crisis, she chose to support him and stand on the side of the family, but he couldn't go back. In fact, her two children always just want her to be happy! But she thinks that not getting divorced is the best choice for children and families! But she only forgot her own happiness! The man I like actually died in the fifth season, haha! )
Moby Dick, written by American writer herman melville, describes the story of Captain Ahab chasing and killing Moby Dick, and he ends up with Moby Dick. Between the life of the crew and the battle with Mobidick, Ahab selfishly chose the latter, even ridiculously thinking that Mobidick bit him to fight against him, and launched a life-and-death contest with Mobidick. Although he was brave, he was also selfish, which eventually led to the tragedy of the whole ship falling into the sea. In fact, Captain Ahab in this book is a bit like the old man in Hemingway's The Old Man and the Sea. Both of them are fighting with fish at sea, and both of them are tragedies in the end. A person is crazy, selfish and willful, a person is pious, natural and awe of innocence, and feels lost after fishing. In fact, both books reveal the relationship between man and nature invisibly through stories. What shall we do? This is also a question worthy of our consideration today!
There are also some books that can be recommended, for example, The Golden Pagoda Principle mainly talks about how to use the pyramid structure to think, express and solve problems. Li Xiaolai's Taking Time as a Friend is not about time management, but more about time cognition, thinking, attitude and how to manage yourself. It's like telling a story. Very interesting! Manager in One Minute mainly talks about the uniqueness of management and how to manage it effectively in one minute!
I'm taking care of goldfish! Or watch goldfish and change water for them every day! Or you will die! This is beside the point. It's no big deal, just add some vitality to your life!
In the past three years, I have developed a very important habit: I must read a few high-quality WeChat official account tweets every morning and evening, just a few, not too many, so I just look around and see how others interpret hot spots, which makes people think! Just because I don't have a circle of friends doesn't mean I'm isolated. I am silently paying attention to the world and moving towards the front I want. So you see, in fact, friends circle is not the only way to bring you the world. What you brush is nothing more than satisfying your curiosity and playing boring time!
Don't be the one who says he is busy and turns around and gets upset!
There are many things in this world that are much more interesting than playing mobile phones in a circle of friends! Stay away from mobile phones and friends, learn more knowledge and professional skills, and exercise is your future!
Young people have a lot of time, but we shouldn't waste it on brushing Weibo and friends!
PS: Tell you quietly, I don't brush my circle of friends. In fact, I spend time writing! Ha ha ha ha! I'm just kidding you!