This person is a female colleague in our unit. She was transferred from the army to our bureau with her husband. Her husband stayed at the station and she was assigned to our company.
This female colleague was transferred from the laboratory of a military hospital. She belongs to a cadre in the camp. She is particularly beautiful and elegant, and people love beauty very much. Maybe I'm tired of wearing military uniform for a long time in the army. When you get to the place, you can wear clothes at will, so you wear fashionable clothes and wear light makeup every day.
Because he is from a military hospital and has a certain economic foundation, he pays great attention to health and fitness. I have handled some gold cards in some gyms for a long time, and I am a VIP customer of the gym. From the appearance, the fitness effect is obvious. Looking at the uneven figure, the muscles are tight and the skin is full of healthy luster.
At that time, what she and her colleagues discussed in the office was more about what health care products to eat, what beauty products to make have the best beauty effect, and what projects the gym can do to reduce fat and keep fit. I often see what vitamin C tablets, semi-finished Ejiao and melatonin are on her desk.
Sometimes, some old Chinese doctors will be asked to take some health care and nourishing soup to recuperate their bodies.
As long as I hear about any fitness classes, several people will go to lectures as soon as they ask for leave.
Because her major is not right, she has been engaged in administrative work in the office of the unit, which is relatively leisure and gives her a lot of time to pay attention to fitness and health.
It is said that she spends several times as much time on fitness as others every day.
Go out to the park at 6 o'clock every morning to play Tai Ji Chuan and practice fencing, rain or shine. Every time I shoot down a set of Tai Ji Chuan and practice a set of fencing, I sweat all over. Then I go home, take a shower, have breakfast and go to work.
Fortunately, she lives in the dormitory compound, and the office building where she works and the building where she lives are only the front and back buildings, so she has enough time to arrange daily fitness activities.
Usually after lunch, she will go to the gym on the second floor of our unit to play table tennis for a while, and at night she will go to the gym to run on the treadmill with several colleagues.
It can be said that every morning, noon and evening, she has a fitness exercise schedule. Fortunately, her husband is very supportive of her fitness exercise, and almost all housework and child care are undertaken by her husband. Her husband is also the husband of others in the mouth of female colleagues in our unit and a model husband of leaders.
Colleagues said that she was so concerned about her health because her mother fell ill and died very early.
There are three female colleagues, brothers and sisters. She is the oldest in the family. She is the only child in the family, and the next two are younger brothers. Mother fell ill and died when they were very young. She took care of almost everything of the two younger brothers, including her marriage and family. In the eyes of the two younger brothers, the elder sister is like a mother.
Therefore, she pays special attention to health.
One is for their extended family,
Second, for my small family, after all, my daughter is still too young.
Third, subconsciously, she is also afraid that her mother's illness will be passed on to her.
So she makes herself strong with a positive attitude towards life and can't get sick for her relatives. After several years of unremitting exercise, from the outside, she is really healthy.
Third, but fate is often so cruel.
Five years after she moved to our company, when she was almost forty years old, her body became thinner one year, and her plump figure became slimmer. At that time, women were all thin. Who doesn't want to be slimmer? She was complacent herself, and her figure finally became slim.
Just as we were all admiring her slim figure and the variety of Ana, a routine physical examination at work found a lump in her left breast. The doctor told her to do a B-ultrasound quickly and found that the situation was not very good. Then she had a breast biopsy and was finally diagnosed as "advanced breast cancer". It turned out that her recent weight loss was due to the cancer demon consuming her body.
Supposedly, she studied medicine and should have found something, but every time she came to her period before, her breasts would swell and hurt, ignoring the possibility of this disease. By the time she found it, it was already in the middle and late stages.
Later she told us that her mother died of cancer when she was in her thirties. Because she knows that the genetic ratio of cancer is too high, she is also very scared. She has always been afraid that her mother's illness will be passed on to herself, so she will actively exercise and want to resist this possible fate.
However, in the end, fate was still so cruel that it came. Long-term fitness has been unable to resist the invasion of cancer. In her thirties, she is still patronized by cancer demons, and her spirit is almost broken.
After discovering cancer, she was hospitalized for surgery soon.
After discovering cancer, the husband actively contacted the hospital and soon had an operation. It is said that in order to cure the disease completely, the doctor removed all her breasts and cleaned the axillary lymph nodes during the operation. For her who loves beauty, the scar left by the incision on her chest should be very ferocious, and she has been depressed for a long time after the operation.
I have to say that her husband is a very good man. He took good care of her after the operation. He stayed with her in the hospital every day during chemotherapy. After more than half a year of chemotherapy and rest, she gradually recovered under the meticulous care of her husband, was able to go to work normally and returned to normal in all aspects of her body.
Five years after breast cancer surgery, a lump was found in the ovary.
After recovering from breast cancer surgery, she still paid so much attention to health and fitness, actively struggled with the disease, and joined the city's anti-cancer association. Every year, she will have several examinations according to the doctor's requirements. With her active efforts, her body recovered well. Later, gradually, we all forgot her cancer, thinking that she was a healthy and normal person and still loved beauty so much.
In the fifth year of cancer, she suddenly found a lump in her ovary during a physical examination. At that time, the whole family was scared to death. When her husband found out, he was so scared that he cried behind her. Later, the operation was arranged soon. We went to see her after the operation, only to know that there was a cyst on the ovary, which was a benign tumor. Her husband saw us crying happily, and the whole family was relieved. Both husband and wife are relieved.
In order to avoid other complications, the doctor removed her uterus, ovaries and other female appendages during the operation, and even cleaned the surrounding lymph nodes.
After that, people around her, including her family, may think that she has fully recovered, just like a normal person.
6. The possibility of getting cancer is like carrying a time bomb. Even if you pay attention to fitness, you still don't know when it will explode.
Because of her good health, she feels no different from a healthy person. She is not satisfied with doing odd jobs in the office every day, she is better. She has repeatedly asked for some sales jobs.
Later, the company saw her as a healthy person, so it promoted her to be the head of the retail department, and assumed the sales target like other middle-level people. Maybe this arrangement accelerated her relapse.
A social-oriented retail sector is under great pressure. As soon as it opens every day, it has to deal with people from all walks of life, including industry and commerce, sanitation, police stations and urban management. , but also bear the pressure of the unit's sales indicators. It submits the daily sales report every day to cope with all kinds of inspections, and the whole person is as busy as a top.
Since she took over as the manager of the retail department, she has no time to exercise and keep healthy. Her whole body and mind are devoted to her work, and she is strong and always wants to do her work perfectly.
If she is a normal person, these may be nothing, but the leaders in the unit, including herself, ignore that she is a patient with a 78-year history of cancer. This neglect caused great harm and eventually killed her.
In her second year in the retail department, her legs always hurt, and sometimes she just put on some plaster. Because she was too busy at work, she didn't care too much. Later, it hurt too much. She took time to go to the hospital for a look. After an X-ray examination, she found that Fortune didn't patronize her this time. The cancer really metastasized, to the leg bone. Leg pain is the cause of bone cancer.
It has been ten years since she first discovered cancer.
It can be said that she is the lucky one among cancer patients and has a long survival time. It is precisely because of this that she neglected her own body.
She was not so lucky in this transfer. Because it has metastasized to the bone, and it is advanced, there is no way to do surgery, so we can only treat it conservatively. In other words, it's basically waiting for death.
When we went to the hospital to see her, she was well aware of her illness. She looks extremely nervous, pale and preoccupied, and has a sense of disaster, that is, the panic before people die, which makes people feel sorry for her.
In order to prolong her life, the hospital has to take an imported anti-cancer injection every day, which is expensive and costs thousands of dollars, and she can't get medical insurance. She advised her husband not to fight, but he said that as long as the family is complete, as long as you are here, you will be separated if you are not at home. In any case, selling iron must be cured.
It was really hard for the company to see her go home later. I donated money for her and gave her some money from the trade union, which probably raised tens of thousands of dollars, but this kind of medicine for cancer patients is just a drop in the bucket.
After suffering in the hospital for half a year, one day she suddenly received a phone call from her husband and asked if we could go and see her. Several of our female colleagues knew that she might be ill, so they went to the hospital to see her together. At this time, her face was swollen and unrecognizable because of hormones. Looking heartbreaking, several female colleagues shed tears at that time. At that moment, she was still somewhat conscious, and she could vaguely recognize us and call out our names.
Faced with this situation, we all know that the light of her life is going out. We are just secretly sad, and no one can say anything comforting. Out of the door, several female colleagues cried at the door, for the cruelty of fate and the helplessness of people at this time.
The night we met her, when her husband was scrubbing her in front of her bed, she suddenly had a seizure. Her husband quickly put his hand into her mouth for fear that she might bite off her tongue. Finally, she almost bit off her husband's finger. If the nurse hadn't put the tongue depressor in his mouth in time, her husband's finger would have been broken. By then, her husband may not be able to take care of it. She died in her husband's arms that night.
Conclusion:
My colleague was in his forties when he died. It was ten years before her first operation. Ten years is a long time for a cancer patient.
I remember when she was in her thirties and just had surgery, the attending doctor jokingly told her that it was no problem to live to fifty. At that time, she said simply, I still want to live to seventy or eighty, and fifty is too short. Who knows she hasn't lived past fifty.
Before she got sick, she had been actively exercising and paying special attention to health care, but when cancer came to her door, it was useless.
Now it seems that the descendants of cancer patients are more likely to pass on in the family. People with this gene may be useless even if they pay more attention to fitness. What should come will always come.
It has been reported that if the mother is a breast cancer patient, the chances of her sisters and daughters suffering from breast cancer are three times that of the average person, which can be said to be impossible to prevent. It's a pity that she also gave birth to a daughter, who may be the most concerned about when she died.