Psychological changes are needed in the world, and wives must talk about methods to achieve the effect of persuasion and avoid hurting the feelings of husband and wife.

It is natural for a wife to persuade her husband to give up smoking, but she cares about her husband's health with good intentions.

But some wives sometimes act too eager, which will make their husbands feel that "you don't accept me". For example, sometimes.

The husband has realized that he should quit smoking, but he will instinctively resist his wife's solemn, serious and commanding tone and replace it.

Continue smoking on purpose. Experts suggest that if you want to persuade your husband to quit smoking successfully, try the following coup-

1, gentle help

When "the wife advised her husband to give up smoking, but he didn't listen at all", 32% of the wives thought that "it may be that they are useless."

For the method, 17% of the wives think that "he doesn't love me." Smoking is addictive, abstinence requires perseverance, and wife comes first.

First, you should accept your husband and express your willingness to spend time together to solve problems, so that your husband's psychological resistance will be much smaller.

In the survey, 10% of wives "give up smoking by force and quarrel after smoking", but complain rudely about "you"

Can you stop smoking, or I'll suffocate! ",easy to hurt a man, the wife should gently express their health to her husband.

Care is the best policy. Besides, wives usually expect their husbands to change quickly, but it takes a long time to be mentally prepared to quit smoking. many people

Smoking for many years cannot be changed instantly. So don't expect your husband to smoke two packs of cigarettes yesterday, but today.

Not cigarettes.

Step 2 create happiness

People who can't quit smoking are not dependent on cigarettes, but mental factors, so wives should do it psychologically.

Tour guide. To eliminate the behavior that people who are nervous and anxious are more likely to smoke, the wife should relieve her husband's mental stress and talk to him.

Do something meaningful together, divert their attention and do more happy and relaxing things. Constantly encourage and reward.

Encourage husbands not only to change their behavior, but also to gradually accept smoking less and quitting smoking psychologically. Might as well make way.