What is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation refers to the sexual disharmony disorder caused by premature ejaculation before the penis enters the vagina, or when the penis enters the vagina for a short time, and when the female has not reached orgasm, the incidence rate is high in adult males.
In recent two years, the number of young patients with premature ejaculation has increased, mostly between 17-23 years old, which is mainly related to the early age of first sexual experience. Because of young age, immature psychological quality, little sexual knowledge and extreme impulsiveness, premature ejaculation is likely to occur in the first few sexual contacts. In addition, premature ejaculation may also be affected by excessive masturbation, too long foreskin, too little sexual life and prostatitis. Patients often worry about their illness, but experts point out that as long as there is no organic disease, it can be completely cured through formal treatment without being too nervous.
Causes of premature ejaculation
1, have sexual experience since childhood.
Premature ejaculation is either due to lack of self-confidence and nervousness, or excessive excitement and uncontrollable rhythm. Most of them are caused by unstable psychological quality, not sexual dysfunction. With the increase of sexual life times and the gradual enrichment of sexual experience, the problem of premature ejaculation will generally improve and disappear gradually.
2, excessive masturbation
Masturbation can help to expel secretions from the prostate, thus avoiding aseptic prostatitis. However, if you masturbate many times in a short period of time, it will cause harm to the prostate and affect the quality of sexual life in the future. It is better to grasp a degree, 1 masturbate once every two weeks, which is more appropriate.
3. The foreskin is too long
If the foreskin is too long, as long as it does not affect the normal function, it generally does not need treatment. However, if premature ejaculation occurs, it is advisable to remove the foreskin through surgery, especially for boys who have just come into contact with sexual life for a short time and have fewer sexual lives, which can effectively treat premature ejaculation.
4. prostatitis
In addition to irregular life, often staying up late, smoking, drinking, eating spicy food and sitting in front of the computer for a long time, resulting in extreme fatigue and long-term congestion of the prostate, abnormal sexual life, frequent sexual life or unclean sexual life will also make prostatitis go hand in hand. Inflammation in the middle and late stage is easy to stimulate perineum, and premature ejaculation will occur if the patient can't control it.
Performance of premature ejaculation
1, habitual premature ejaculation: refers to people who have been having premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse after adulthood. This kind of human physiological function is normal, and the penis erection is strong. Symptoms include strong sexual desire, strong penile erection and impatient sexual intercourse, which are more common in young adults.
2. Senile premature ejaculation: it is caused by sexual dysfunction; The ejaculation time that gradually appears after middle age or the elderly is advanced, often accompanied by decreased sexual desire and impotence of penis erection.
3. Occasional premature ejaculation: It mostly occurs when people are physically and mentally exhausted and their mood fluctuates. Premature ejaculation, which does not occur originally, occurs after some mental or physical stress, often accompanied by erectile dysfunction.
Diagnosis of premature ejaculation
The diagnosis of premature ejaculation is mainly based on the patient's statement of medical history, and detailed medical history inquiry is the fundamental focus of the diagnosis and treatment of premature ejaculation. The contents of the inquiry should include the frequency and duration of premature ejaculation, the intensity of sexual stimulation when premature ejaculation occurs, the specific external environment and even the specific sexual partners who are prone to premature ejaculation, and the influence of premature ejaculation on sexual behavior. In addition, the patient's general health status is also the content that needs to be asked to know whether there are other diseases that are easy to cause or lead to premature ejaculation, such as coronary heart disease.
The diagnosis of premature ejaculation is generally accompanied by a simple external genital examination. If the patient has erectile dysfunction besides premature ejaculation, necessary auxiliary examinations should be carried out according to the organic erectile dysfunction, such as sex hormone examination, neuroelectromyography examination, penile vascular examination, etc., in order to find the exact cause of erectile dysfunction and carry out targeted treatment.
What about premature ejaculation?
1, increase ejaculation frequency.
For example, the first sexual life may ejaculate quickly, but it is not so easy to ejaculate the second time, which takes advantage of the reason of male refractory period.
2. In the way of sexual life, take the sexual intercourse posture of female upper and male lower.
When feeling out of control, the woman immediately lifts her body away from the man, suspends sexual behavior to reduce excitement, and then resumes after a rest of 15-30 seconds. Or when you feel out of control, pause, then divert your attention and change your posture.
3. Local treatment of penis
Such as the use of condoms and circumcision (exposing the glans and rubbing it frequently to reduce its sensitivity). 2% lidocaine gel is commonly used in local treatment, and it is applied to the penis head 10 minutes before sexual intercourse to relieve the penis sensation and prolong the ejaculation latency.
4. Drug therapy
Drugs specially used to treat premature ejaculation take effect slowly, and it usually takes two weeks to feel the prolonged ejaculation time. After the drug takes effect, it can also be taken as needed 3-4 hours before sexual intercourse. The adverse reactions of these drugs are nausea, dizziness and erectile dysfunction.
5, surgical treatment
The surgical method of premature ejaculation is rarely used, mainly to selectively cut off the sensory nerve of the penis head to reduce the sensitivity of the penis head. In fact, the effect of this treatment is still uncertain, and there are many postoperative complications, which are very harmful.
The harm of premature ejaculation
1, listless, affecting work. Premature ejaculation can lead to long-term listlessness, fatigue, restless sleep, palpitations, etc., thus interfering with work and life.
2, lose confidence and aggravate the condition. Premature ejaculation will make men feel that they can't do it, and then gradually produce psychological barriers, gradually lose confidence in themselves, and make the condition worse, thus forming a vicious circle and affecting sexual function.
3. Affect the relationship between husband and wife. In the long run, the husband and wife's sex is not satisfied, that is, ejaculation is weak, which directly affects their sexual life and then hurts their feelings.
4. The hidden danger of family breakdown. In sexual life, the wife always does not feel sexual pleasure. If she is not satisfied for a long time, she will gradually lose interest in sex life until she is cold, which will eventually lead to family breakdown.
How to prevent premature ejaculation
1, stop-re-stimulation method
Long-term masturbation can lead to premature ejaculation, and vice versa. In the process of sexual life, take the female position, stop stimulation when men feel ejaculation, and then stimulate when ejaculation reflex disappears, so as to control ejaculation through repeated training.
2. Extrusion method
When the patient feels close to ejaculation, stop the stimulation, and the woman squeezes the penis frenum with her thumb for 3 -4 seconds. After half a minute, the ejaculation reflex disappears, and she can continue to practice sexual intercourse or squeezing, 4 -5 times a day, which can improve the ejaculation threshold and achieve the purpose of treating premature ejaculation.
3. Distraction method
In the process of sexual life, when ejaculation is about to happen, stop acting and purposefully think about something unrelated to sexual intercourse, so as to reduce sexual excitement and delay ejaculation.
Step 4 pull down the scrotum
When men are sexually excited, the scrotum is tight, that is, the testicles are obviously raised near the root of the penis. In order to reduce sexual excitement and achieve the purpose of delaying ejaculation, they can take the initiative to pull the scrotum down, or they can grab the testis and pull it down, which will delay ejaculation.
Step 5 Use condoms
Most people will reduce the sensitivity of penis through condoms, but not everyone can reduce the excitement through condoms. At present, some condoms are added with anesthetic solution or drug cream, which has obvious effect of delaying ejaculation.
6, pubic coccyx muscle training
The specific method is to take the initiative to stop halfway when urinating, and then continue to urinate. This method of interrupting urination is to use pubic coccyx muscle. You can also take the initiative to stand on tiptoe like ballet, while tightening your legs, hips and urination muscles. You can jump more than ten times at a time and exercise three to five times a day, which will gradually improve your ability to control ejaculation.
What is good for premature ejaculation?
1, stewed pigeon with astragalus and medlar
Materials: Radix Astragali, Fructus Lycii each 30g, squab 1.
Practice: First, the young pigeons are slaughtered, unhairing, eviscerating, washed, put into a stew pot with Astragalus and Lycium barbarum, add appropriate amount of water, and stew the cooked food in water. Usually stew for 3 days 1 time, and 3-5 times is 1.
Efficacy: invigorating qi and spleen, nourishing yin and tonifying kidney, suitable for premature ejaculation with deficiency of both spleen and kidney.
2. Fried pork loin with yellow flowers
Ingredients: 500g pork tenderloin, 50g day lily, ginger, onion, garlic, vegetable oil, salt, sugar and starch.
Practice: pork tenderloin is cut into pieces, fascia glands are removed, washed and cut into pieces; Daylily blisters Kamikiri section; Heat vegetable oil in a wok, first add onion, ginger, garlic and other ingredients to stir fry, then add pork tenderloin to stir fry until the color changes, add day lily, salt and sugar to stir fry, and then thicken the powder to make the soup clear. Eat in one meal or separately.
Efficacy: Bushen Jianpi, Gujing. It is suitable for lumbago due to kidney deficiency, tinnitus, premature ejaculation and impotence.
3. Steamed chicken rice with coconut and glutinous rice
Ingredients: coconut meat, glutinous rice, chicken.
Practice: cut coconut meat into small pieces, add appropriate amount of glutinous rice and chicken, put it in a covered tile and steam it. When eating, once a day 1 time.
Efficacy: spleen and heart, essence. Suitable for premature ejaculation, impotence, weakness of limbs and loss of appetite.
4. Yam Poria Bag
Ingredients: Chinese yam powder100g, Poria cocos powder100g, flour 200g, sugar 300g, lard, moss and HongLing.
Practice: Put yam powder and Poria powder into a large bowl, soak them in cold water into paste, steam them on fire for 30 minutes, take out the mixed flour to make soft noodles, then make steamed buns with white sugar, lard and green shredded pork, and steam them. 65438+ 0 meals a day, when eating early.
Efficacy: strengthen the spleen and nourish the heart, and converge the essence. Suitable for eating less, quenching thirst, enuresis, nocturnal emission and premature ejaculation.
Does premature ejaculation affect fertility?
Premature ejaculation may have an effect on fertility. Because premature ejaculation is one of male ejaculation disorders, it is a common male sexual dysfunction. If male premature ejaculation is serious, and the penis ejaculates before entering the vagina when the husband and wife are in the same room, then the sperm will not enter the female uterus, which will affect normal fertilization and easily lead to infertility. In addition, if male premature ejaculation is caused by diseases, such as prostatitis and other inflammation, it will have an impact on male sperm quality, thus affecting male reproductive function.
Although premature ejaculation may have an impact on fertility, it can be cured if treated in time. If you find symptoms of premature ejaculation, you should go to the hospital in time for examination and targeted treatment. General treatment methods include drug therapy, surgery and psychotherapy. Through timely treatment, normal ejaculation can be resumed without affecting fertility.