People who are good at talking don't lose their temper, control their emotions and communicate calmly when they have disputes with others.
People who can talk are good at using sense of humor. Bo Huang, the best actress, was interviewed when the heroine Yan Ni starred in Bullfighting. Yan Ni said, "All the male stars I have worked with before are handsome guys. I played husband and wife with you, and I know I'm going to be an ugly star.
The implication is that Bo Huang is ugly. Bo Huang immediately said: Then I will play with you, and I will become a handsome boy. The right humor not only skillfully resolved the embarrassment, but also expressed the praise for Yan Ni.
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To improve communication, it is necessary to find out what the listener wants to hear, realize it through identification, praise and demand, and express it in a way that the other party is interested in, such as humor, enthusiasm, affinity and friendliness.
At the same time, in the appropriate opportunities and places, according to demand, change places. When listening, listen in the way the other person likes, actively explore what the speaker wants to say, put yourself in the other person's shoes, don't interrupt, respond positively and encourage expression; Control your emotions, respond and feedback in time, finally confirm your understanding, and clarify your objections after listening.
Baidu Encyclopedia-Communication Skills