But my heart can't be calm. ...

In recent years, various media have frequently reported that girls are injured and victimized, as if the world is always more hostile to girls!

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Only three months after "2 1 year-old flight attendant Li was killed by Didi Shunfeng", a second girl Zhao was killed by similar means!

The same young girl, the same malicious murder. ...

On August 24th 17: 35, Yueqing police received an alarm from the masses that their daughter Zhao was hitchhiking to Yongjia, Hongqiao Town on August 24th 13. /kloc-around 0/4, Zhao lost contact after sending a "help" message to a friend.

On August 25th, the 27-year-old suspect, Zhong, was arrested by the police in Liushi Town, and confessed the criminal process of raping and killing the victim Zhao. After the suspect Zhong identified the crime scene, the police finally found the body of the victim Zhao on a hillside in Yueqing.

Although the case of "Didi taxi girl was raped, killed and dumped" has been solved, the suspect Zhong has been arrested and brought to justice, and has been punished by the law!

But Zhao, a young girl who is only 20 years old, will never come back.

According to family members and their classmates, Zhao graduated from college and worked in preschool education. Very filial, very kind, is the class flower in the class. Ye Zhao loves dressing up, is optimistic and cheerful, and is a girl with great affinity. Zhao Pingping likes fitness. On the day of the accident, she went to her roommate's birthday party and specially wore a pair of new sneakers.

But such a beautiful and energetic girl just took a taxi and wanted to go to a friend's party. There is nothing wrong with her, but she was targeted by the bad guys for no reason, and finally failed to escape from the evil hands.

Wang Dawei, a famous safety education expert and professor of criminology at Chinese People's Public Security University, once said:

"What kind of children do bad people like to choose? Generally, they are vulnerable children, and they are shocked when they encounter problems. "

Therefore, we must cultivate children's calm psychological quality, and we must always be vigilant when we are not around our parents!

As a girl's parents, we must tell her:

There are not only beautiful flowers, but also fierce wolves in this world!

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On the morning of August 23, 20 18, the "Shanghai case of killing a wife and hiding a corpse" was publicly pronounced in the first instance. Defendant Zhu Xiaodong was convicted of intentional homicide, sentenced to death and deprived of political rights for life.

201618. Zhu Xiaodong quarreled with his wife Yang li Ping at home, and then Zhu Xiaodong strangled Yang li Ping with both hands, causing her to die of mechanical suffocation. Later, Zhu Xiaodong hid his wife's body in the freezer. In the following three months, Zhu Xiaodong pretended to be Yang li Ping and kept in touch with his dead wife's family and friends through WeChat, creating the illusion that his dead wife was still alive.

Until 17 February, 1, Yang li Ping's father, Yang Ganlian's 60th birthday, Yang li Ping, who had promised to go home for dinner on WeChat, did not appear as an only child.

On the same day, Zhu Xiaodong, accompanied by his parents, turned himself in to the public security organ, and Yang Ganlian's family knew that his daughter had been killed.

At this time, it has been 105 days since the incident.

The law is just, but justice is late after all! Anyway, even if a life is worth a life, the only daughter of the old parents will not come back!

Parents no longer have the opportunity to enjoy their children's kneeling and filial piety before going to bed.

Losing an only child is absolutely nothing more painful in my life! Compensation, apology and death penalty are all powerless in the face of losing an only child!

Girl, whether it is love or marriage, please keep your eyes open and take a closer look at whether this trust is human or not!

I only hope you can find a lover, avoid scum and get happiness!

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20 17 Ma, a 26-year-old woman from Yulin, Shaanxi Province, committed suicide by jumping off a building in despair because her family refused to have a caesarean section.

The doctor diagnosed: "After the examination, it was found that the fetal head was too large and the risk of dystocia was relatively high." And explain the situation to the parturient and their families, and suggest cesarean section.

The parturient also asked the medical staff to have a caesarean section because of the unbearable pain. During this period, she walked out of the delivery center and home twice, complaining of bad pain, kneeling down and begging for caesarean section. However, her family has been reluctant to insist on using oxytocin to induce uterine contraction for vaginal delivery.

And her husband has signed the informed consent form: "The situation is known, and vaginal delivery is required to forgive the accident." "Understand the situation, ask for abortion in the palace and understand the accident."

Finally, my mother had a nervous breakdown and committed suicide by jumping off a building, killing two people!

After the tragedy, the hospital and family members held their own words. Right or wrong for the time being! If a pregnant woman's despair doesn't lead to a nervous breakdown, how can she bear to die with her soon-to-be-born child?

How many women have been spoiled from their parents' home to their in-laws' home, as if they were fertility tools!

How many women have children at that moment, just to see if the man they marry is a man or a ghost!

For the husband's family, a man can find another wife, but for the mother's family, what can be done to make up for the loss of his beloved daughter?

When you are in love, you think you will meet someone who will grow old together; When I got married and had children, I knew that my luck was uncertain.

This tragedy reminds me of a popular passage on the Internet a long time ago, one of which is: "When my daughter is born, she can be born if she wants to, and she can cut it if she wants!" I have a knife in one hand and money in the other. If the hospital wants money, give it. If my husband dares to stop, he will cut it! "

Although it reads like a joke, it is true when you think about it.

In most cases, when a woman gives birth to a child, it is usually her parents who are worried about the woman's safety, while her in-laws are probably busy taking care of the newborn child.

So, girl, you should always remember that you are an independent person and everything about you is up to you.

Any authorization should be treated with caution, and the person entrusted must be someone who treats you like life!

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Steve Biddulph, an Australian best-selling parenting expert, wrote in the book Raising Girls:

The living space of girls is becoming more and more complicated and full of crisis. Their present and future are destined to be richer and more difficult than ours. Parents should cultivate a strong and independent girl.

Yes, raising a daughter is more worrying than raising a son.

As a woman, no matter under the influence of physiological factors, psychological factors or traditional ideas, we have to admit that most of the time we are in a relatively weak position.

So, don't just tell your daughter how beautiful and colorful the world is.

You must let your daughter know that the world has a dark side that people can't imagine. The society is sinister and people have ulterior motives. Don't trust anyone easily;

When your daughter begins to realize the uniqueness of her body structure, you must have sex education. Don't be shy! Let her know that no one can touch private parts. If it happens, you must tell your parents in time or ask people around you for help.

You should let your daughter learn to refuse, but also learn to refuse wisely and refuse all unreasonable demands.

You must let your daughter learn to refuse violence! In the face of bullying, dare to say "stop". Once it happens, you must ask the teacher for help in time and tell your parents! If children don't know how to refuse violence from an early age, then if they encounter domestic violence after marriage, the consequences will be unimaginable.

You must let your daughter learn Kung Fu, Taekwondo, boxing and so on. As long as the child's physique allows. At least in case of danger, she can fight back.

In a word, we can't protect our daughter all our lives, so we must teach our daughter how to face the society, how to survive and how to protect herself through life.

Raising a woman knows that the world is dangerous! Daughter, the most important thing in life is to protect yourself!