Now it seems that everyone is surrounded by older single women, not to mention 9 1 year. Many post-80s women are still single, otherwise the business of matchmaking agencies would not be so hot in recent years.
On the one hand, many bachelors complain that they can't get a wife. On the other hand, many older women are unmarried.
One of my colleagues, born in 1989, graduated from a 985 university majoring in finance. Now he is a financial supervisor with an income of 20W+. The most important thing is that he is still single.
Sometimes, I will joke for a long time that I want to introduce someone to her, and she once jokingly replied: OK!
But when she really asked her to meet, she always refused, saying it was a joke.
Later, after a lot of talking, I realized that she was actually looking for someone and longed for a family of her own, with love, care and children of her own.
Especially sometimes colleagues take their children to the office,
But I asked her why she didn't look for it, and she was like this.
After graduating from graduate school, there are fewer people with the same education to choose from.
Boys who graduated from undergraduate courses, regardless of whether they attach importance to it or not, first of all, the family does not agree. Parents all hope that their carefully trained baby daughter can find someone with a degree equal to or even higher than her, otherwise she always feels unworthy of her daughter.
Moreover, girls with high academic qualifications generally have high requirements and pursuits. Of course, they hope that their other half will have the same values.
These requirements have turned many boys away.
Nowadays, many older single women, many of whom are high-income people, have their own careers, houses and cars, so they have been satisfied materially and naturally have higher requirements for their feelings.
The vast majority of bachelors, just because they don't have a good job, high income, no car and no house, have been single.
There is a natural contradiction between the two, and it is almost impossible to match them.
Men with cars, houses and tickets are generally married, and even if they are not married, they will choose younger girls.
In this way, it is really difficult for older single women to find a partner.
Girls who do finance, especially in the top 500 companies, earn a high income, which symbolizes high-intensity work.
This colleague basically worked overtime until the evening 10 before going home. I have to attend all kinds of line training and executive meetings on weekends, leaving little time for myself to socialize.
If you can't expand your circle, you won't be able to reach more people, let alone find a person.
So not finding a partner has a lot to do with your career. If it is human resources, there should be more choices in public relations or marketing.
Family background and education level have a great influence on a person's values.
Just like an architect telling farmers about the artistic effect of architecture, one is completed, the other is completed, and then there is no more.
More likely, the farmers have gone far before the architect finished.
It is difficult for two people with different values to get together, and even if they live together, they will not be happy.
Women who are pursuing are unwilling to live a make-do life, even if they are lonely all the time, they are unwilling to take a step.
In today's society, there are so many older single men, why not allow older single women?
Equality between men and women is not only reflected in personality, education, occupation, but also in marriage.
A single girl will eventually have to wait for your prince charming, and the wedding can't be decided.
Excellent people are always worth waiting for!
The answer to your question is clear, there must be, and there is no dispute.
9 1 of women have turned 29 in vain and will soon turn 30, which is not a good thing for single women, but really older women.
Nowadays, there are too many left-over older women. They generally live in cities, are self-sufficient and have good living conditions, but they are left behind because they are too demanding of their other half. There are basically no older women left in rural areas, because they were taken away by others before they were old, and rural areas and cities are polarized.
It is difficult for older women to get rid of orders if they don't lower their demands on their partners. Men who are capable and qualified will not consider older women. Under the same conditions, they will definitely choose younger women, and the conditions are generally disdainful. This is easy to continue, so older women can only lower the conditions and requirements if they want to take off the bill.
I'm just 29 this year. Like the landlord, I was born on 9 1. In second-tier cities, there is a house, a car and no deposit. If you don't mind, you can consider me, and others who are interested can leave a message to communicate. Getting married is very important and can't be delayed any longer.
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God, I finally saw a serious problem. I am a female, 9 1 year old, unmarried. I seem to be 29 years old this year. A very ordinary girl, but I don't know why she doesn't take the ordinary road and why, like most people, she chooses to get married at the age of 25 and have children at the age of 26. It's so late to get married. Let's wait.
I have been in love many times and kissed many times. I felt very lost when I was lovelorn before. Later, I found out that those people simply don't deserve their own care and meticulous care.
I have been disappointed too many times. I no longer believe in love. I don't want to change myself for one person. After a long running-in period, I am still at ease.
However, I still long for a warm embrace. Am I ambivalent? . .
Yes, there is. I have a female colleague who is still single and a virgin. I didn't believe it at first, but I didn't believe it until my best friend told me that she was gay.
From the first day I met her, I heard that she had never had a boyfriend. She likes to wear neutral clothes and is not beautiful. According to several of her fellow villagers and old classmates, she has never been in love since she was in her twenties. There are also two or three boys who have never seen a girl to pursue her, but they are all rejected by her one by one. She told us that she didn't feel that way about them. I've been single ever since. She lived with her best friend for five years. At first, we didn't know what kind of relationship they were. She also denied it when she told us, saying that they were very good friends. They go to work together every day, and they don't look so ambiguous, so I think it should be a normal girlfriend relationship. Until one day, her best friend cheated on a man, and their relationship was very stiff, so they broke up. Her best friend just told us that the relationship between them for so many years is actually that kind. She also admitted to us that she was the same sex after breaking up. She later lamented: I am now a senior three, and it is time for her (my best friend) to find a man to marry. I don't know what to do in the future. Girls will marry eventually. I wonder if anyone will marry me?
After resigning and returning to my hometown for two or three years, I occasionally chatted with my former colleagues and her and knew that she was not married. Maybe she still can't let go of her feelings with her best friend, or maybe she hasn't found a suitable boyfriend yet. If it were you, would you be willing to marry a girl of 9 1 year, a girl who has never had a boyfriend, or a virgin?
I was just washed by my friend this morning, saying that I would be less picky when I was older … Then the dead duck replied with a stiff mouth that she didn't want to get married. Yeah, I really don't want to get married. People who are almost thirty years old have lived for so many years, what can't live? I can be alone when my period comes, I can eat and sleep alone, and I can do everything alone, but only when I am haunted by nightmares, struggling in my dreams, calling for help in my dreams, trying to open my eyes, and when I need someone ... I don't want to be alone ... Sometimes I feel very fragile, sometimes I feel very strong, and finally I don't know who to show my strength to. Man, I don't know how to get what I want.
Thank you for your question.
As a newly married woman in 1989, it is very convincing to answer this question.
9 1 Are there any unmarried single women? My answer is definitely yes.
Because I have several single female friends in' 89 and' 89.
They all went to good universities, graduate students and even doctoral students. After graduation, they all engaged in good jobs and made small achievements in their careers. After fully realizing financial freedom, they also helped their parents improve their living environment.
At the same time, they are constantly striving to enrich themselves and plan their own lives. There are many suitors around them, but for one reason or another, they all choose to be single actively or passively.
Maybe one day, they will all enter the marriage hall, but I believe that the choices they make are all decisions made from their own hearts with confidence.
Of course, some friends enjoy their life very much, and they like the feeling of doing what they want freely. Life is also very comfortable.
Finally, I hope that you, who are single and unmarried, will not be bothered by your age, fall in love or get married, and finally get what you want.
Obviously, there must be. Not to mention unmarried in 9 1 year, there should be quite a few unmarried people in 8 1 year. Marriage has nothing to do with age, only with "choice". Your own choice.
With the progress of society, women's responsibilities and rights in society are getting stronger and stronger. More women in China, self-awareness began to awaken.
First of all, physiological needs, 9 1 year, nominal age of 29, flower season, marriageable age. However, most urban women in this age group are also on the rise in their careers. Working alone, life is full of spare time. In marriage, because the traditional concept has not been completely solved, many families still stubbornly believe that housework should be undertaken by women, at least for the most part. In the busy city life, many women still bear the same job responsibilities as men, and it is understandable to shrink back at the thought of all kinds of marriage life.
Second, economic demand. Most urban women in this age group are economically independent and have their own circle of friends and life track. Marriage is usually not needed to solve the problem of food and clothing. Maybe you can still have spare money for fitness, making friends, traveling and subsidizing spiritual life.
Third, spiritual needs. With the rapid development of the Internet, more and more spiritual communication desires can be realized through the Internet. This makes more emotional needs compensated by the network.
Finally, the need for social relations. With the great material satisfaction, society is becoming more and more inclusive. Although older single men and women, they will still meet the attention of the older generation of family members such as urging marriage. But among peers, single/marriage/divorce has gradually become an individual's own choice and is respected by the public.
Under this premise, for many women, marriage has changed from "just need" to "icing on the cake". From a biological point of view, usually non-rigid needs will not be solved at the first time, but will be cautious and slow, and will not be anxious and impatient. So in recent years, more and more urban women have joined the ranks of older singles.
In the final analysis, being single, getting married and divorcing have nothing to do with age, and they are all personal choices in different periods. There are no advantages or disadvantages, only needs. If you meet the right person at that moment, you will be prepared physically and psychologically, and you will join hands for life. Of course, getting married is gratifying. But if not, I want to stay single. As long as it is love, not a declaration of marriage and singles, it should also be respected.
We should thank this era. It gives most women the right and time to "choose". Let women take their time and ask themselves what kind of choice they really want. Follow your heart, the most important thing.
I am also 9 1 year-old, female 168, single, currently working in Urumqi and living in Xi' an for many years. I think a glimpse of feelings is the beauty of life, but a long stream of water is the truest happiness. Buddha said, looking back 500 years ago, I got a sum in this life. So what kind of practice is it to meet that person among thousands of people? I hope we can all meet our own prince charming. Come on [yi tooth].
My husband's niece, born in 1992, is 27 years old and an older woman. Never been in love, height 155CM, weight 140 kg. No house, no car, no job, no savings. Every day is eating, sleeping and playing mobile phone. I have been lazy for a long time, doing nothing at home, let alone going out to find a job and stand on my own feet. Her parents can't stand it. They kicked her out of the house a few months ago and left her to fend for herself. She has nowhere to go and lives in my house with her luggage. Although she is reluctant, she can't say anything.
After staying for a few days, I found that I was really lazy and very surprised! I lie in bed every day. When I am hungry, I get up and look for food. She doesn't brush her teeth, wash her face or take a shower. She is untidy all day. It's summer now, and she hasn't bathed for several days. She always smells disgusting. As soon as she passed by or spoke, the disgusting smell came to her face. This is not like a woman about to enter the third year. She lives like a tramp. Although there are many bachelors now, does anyone dare to marry such a woman? Is there any redemption for such self-indulgence?