Dong Qing studied, did housework and worked during holidays under the guidance of his parents since childhood. In Dong Qing's view, it is this kind of education that makes her learn to enrich herself with books and learn to "persist" when life is rough.

My parents think that children should not be spoiled. Every winter and summer vacation after graduating from high school, I go out to work. One summer vacation, I went to work in a hotel. On the first day, I was asked to clean ten rooms in the morning. The back of my shirt was all wet and my face was all sweaty, so I cleaned two rooms in one morning. My father came to see me and asked me how my first job was going. As soon as I saw him, I cried and said I didn't want to do it. Father said, it doesn't matter if you can't finish eating. The key is to keep doing it. This "persistence" became the biggest spiritual motivation in my later life experience.

Two: to participate in the work, several owners change hands, and the gap is huge.

My first job was to apply for Zhejiang TV Station, with Dong Qing as the host and producer. A year later, Dong Qing went to Shanghai TV Station, and stood out from seven or eight hundred people, becoming one of the two lucky ones.

However, when he first arrived at Shanghai TV Station, Dong Qing was extremely lost. Nobody cares about her at all, and there is no program to do, because she is a newcomer. At the end of the spring festival party in Shanghai, the newcomer is responsible for contacting the venue. Before and after running, "Teacher Jiang Kun has dinner!" "It's time for you to get ready to play!" The bright stage does not belong to her. In those boring days, Dong Qing chose to study and find a quiet world. She was successfully admitted to the TV major of Shanghai Theatre Academy and finished her undergraduate course.

The real turning point was in 1998, when she was invited to host a new program "Meet Saturday", which was accepted by the audience with a pure hosting style and immediately became a household name. The male guest even openly said that we were on the show for Dong Qing!

1998, the nationwide Shanghai Satellite TV was established, and Dong Qing changed hands for the third time, losing its hot position and trying to find a bigger stage. Who knows that TV ratings are in a mess, and attendance at work is called? Dong Qing sat in front of a dusty desk, feeling like a dream in the past ... At that time, she was particularly bored, rarely went out, and didn't even watch TV. She just watched a dream of red mansions and Tang and Song poems at home. These classical literature can help you calm down your impetuousness and force yourself to think clearly.

Dong Qing didn't want to be idle, so she applied for the postgraduate majoring in classical literature in East China Normal University and got the admission notice at 1999. Next, the reform of Shanghai Satellite TV was successful, and everything got better. Dong Qing was entrusted with an important task and hosted many programs, especially the "Shanghai-Sydney Two-way Concert" in 2000. Her style is atmospheric and she knows English well, so she won the "Golden Microphone" award for the host of the fifth national radio and television program in one fell swoop.

This is also a good day, famous for leisure. On weekends, Dong Qing goes to the beauty salon in the morning, goes for a ride in the afternoon and works out at night. When she got home, she made a glass of milk and lay on the soft sofa, but she sighed for no reason. She has seen the French phoenix tree in this city for seven years. How many seven years can there be in life? Can she go to another city to see another growth?

It's a little "seven-year itch" for Shanghai. CCTV Western Channel started broadcasting, and Charm 12 sent an invitation to Dong Qing. One of the judges of "Golden Microphone" wants Dong Qing to join us.

"I hesitate. You have connections and environment, and you still want to leave? I have no car, no house and no friends in Beijing. I don't even know where to get a haircut or buy clothes. The western channel is also a non-mainstream channel ... maybe the older people get, the less courageous they are, hehe. From Shanghai to Beijing, I am afraid of losing what I have. "

At first, Dong Qing flew from Shanghai to Beijing for seven days every month, and then came back after recording the program. After half a year, people are very tired. She decided to give up Shanghai temporarily and specialize in Beijing. Her friend advised her to be stubborn: "I bought a new vase, and the old vase must be in the trash can." You know, I always like the new and hate the old. "

The luggage is simple, big house and car. She stayed in Shanghai and went straight to Beijing in 2002.

She can only rent a house first, although she has always been very picky about home improvement. Open the box of clothes, and the old luxury and petty bourgeoisie will come to you. She held one to her chest and looked at the broken wardrobe for a long time, but she still pressed the clothes back to the bottom of the box. The next day, she had the curtains replaced with three layers of cloth, gauze and shading cloth. They are dancing in the sunshine of an empty house, which is a bit like home.

Living here is still seven days a month. Every time Dong Qing walks out of the TV station, he always wanders for half an hour. If she is afraid of leisure, where can she go? I want to drive. The car is in the garage in Shanghai. I had to hire a taxi to feel the worldly excitement in the crowded traffic; Or find a cinema or coffee shop to kill time. Go home at night, push open the door, there is light floating dust, and there are four boxes side by side.

She really wants to turn around and leave with the box, leaving a suffocating sense of wandering in this strange room! But, "What do I want now? Isn't it work, passion and satisfaction? Resolutely do not return! " She fought back her tears.

This vicious, Dong Qing took the Pinghu bright moon's face. The director of the program hosted by her is very relieved: she is well-read and well-prepared, and it is easy to read on the stage; She knows how to match clothes and accessories and is willing to travel all over Beijing for a pair of shoes. CCTV stylist praised her for being photogenic. After taking the stage, she twisted her eyebrows seriously. She recited a line for a long time, and as soon as she came on stage, she stretched herself and smiled without a trace of sadness, as if those sleepless and lonely nights never existed.

III. Undertaking the 11th National TV Grand Prix for Young Singers.

In July of that year, Dong Qing was entrusted with the heavy responsibility of hosting the 11th National Young Singers TV Grand Prix, and accepted an unprecedented challenge: from 9th to 29th, there were 30 performances by professional and non-professional groups, with nearly three hours of live broadcast every night. Dong Qing rehearses at four o'clock every afternoon, and the live broadcast ends at ten o'clock. She changed her clothes and entered the conference center the next day to check the test questions with the teacher. It was three o'clock in the morning when I got home, and Dong Qing had to yawn and recite his lines until the last night star gradually disappeared ... The law of life was disrupted, so far Dong Qing "can't always go to bed early".

A little bitter, but she enjoys it. After a game, I feel particularly fulfilled.

On February 3rd165438, Dong Qing hosted a special program on New Year's Day, from 10: 30 to 0: 30 in the evening. At last, the program was about to enter the countdown, but the director anxiously indicated to her: there are still three minutes from zero! Oh, my god, this is a live broadcast, and there are countless pairs of eyes inside and outside the station! 180 seconds? Say what? Dong Qing's heart beat like a war drum, but he didn't move the slightest look and whispered to the audience. I don't remember anything about "old". Her words were vivid and made the audience laugh. Really have nothing to say. Dong Qing gracefully turned to the electronic screen and said, "Let's wait quietly and wait for the arrival of 2005."

If the countdown doesn't appear by this time, she will cry. "16 second", she was saved. When she walked off the stage, the director held her hand tightly as if welcoming a hero. How enjoyable it is to do a good job, no happiness can be compared!

"In life, I don't belong to people who love to laugh. I love to laugh on the stage, and many people also like my smile and feel very sincere. Strange, I am willing to leave this best and most beautiful me to the audience. This is not hypocrisy. Standing on the stage, I am very happy. Enjoy the feeling of work very much. Sometimes I feel unhappy, but I forget when I walk on the stage. "

Four: Still afraid after becoming famous.

Dong Qing saw a movie with the theme of "fear", and his heart was full of sadness. People have different fears at every stage, but they just don't know it. At the age of 6, she was afraid that her strict father would force her to wash the dishes; 17 years old, she is afraid of missing someone crazy; At the age of 27, she is afraid of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and she is afraid of "sailing against the current, not advancing or retreating"; Today, she is elegant and dignified on the stage, but in the middle of the night, she will still wake up inexplicably, afraid that the familiar stage will eventually disappear, afraid that she will pursue the ultimate crazily-

"When so many people know you, you think you have succeeded. However, it is not easy to draw a conclusion now. Self-knowledge is a gradual process, and now I know myself more and more: what I can do, what I want, and what I am willing to pay for it. Probably after I arrived in Beijing, I realized myself very strongly in 2002. If you really can't, go back! But the idea flashed by. I think more about how to do better! I like the ultimate feeling. And the ultimate is a bottomless pit. "

Five: strive to the extreme

Dong Qing will never forget a live New Year concert in Shanghai. Without warning, she suddenly stuttered and repeated the sentence twice. Nothing serious. Nobody cares, but she can't let go of this "low-level mistake." After the live broadcast, she will fly to Singapore to record the program at 2 pm, but she is not in the mood and feels very uncomfortable. Last year's "National Young Singer TV Grand Prix", she prepared nervously every day, striving for perfection, or accidentally misread a player's performance. After the live broadcast, the leader said, pay attention in the future. She suddenly collapsed. At the meeting, in front of her colleagues, she began to cry. ...

Once, Dong Qing chatted with Leon Wang, the producer of Art Life, and the other party asked with concern, "Why don't you look so good?" Dong Qing forced a smile: "I have been insomnia recently." Leon Wang was silent and said slowly, "I used to be like this. Just come over. "

Women like them all pursue the ultimate and work extremely hard for fear of disappointing others and themselves.

Six: Scorpio Dong Qing's inner monologue

"A good host should retire by himself. The audience is unwilling to go for fear of missing it. The audience has made up their minds. I should be at my best now, with experience and energy. I am eager to go a little longer, at least five years, ten years! "

Only by knowing fear can we cherish life more and appreciate every kind of beauty, even the subtle beauty. Dong Qing described ordinary happiness like this: reading Sanlian Life Weekly and Bookstore, talking about a warm and harmless love, sowing seeds and planting a pot of flowers. ...

Or, dig out her favorite disc, Spring in Cowboy Class, Red, White and Blue, Paradise Cinema-she once watched a disc at home for 24 hours, laughing and crying alone, and really fell asleep.

"I love life very much and love all the beautiful things. Very sensitive. It's hard to keep this sensitivity to beautiful things. Slow people can be good hosts. "

Dong Qing told reporters: "I like Mo Bosang's saying that life can't be as good as you think, but it can't be as bad as you think. I think people's fragility and strength are beyond imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears in one sentence, and sometimes I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way. "

"So fond of the new and tired of the old, why didn't you think about changing careers?"

"Scorpio is very emotional and cherishes work and lover. Tired is a constant life without passion. "

"So the expectation of love has changed?"

"No, what could be happier than work? For women, it is nothing more than love. When I was seventeen or eighteen, my heart would fly with joy because of one person. I sang for a week. It's hard to have such impulse and devotion now. Of course, I will still like it and feel happy. Sometimes it's sweet to think of a word or a look. But not the same as first love. I think my real maturity is to find that love is not the whole of life. It will never destroy me again. "