An ancient poem praising romantic love, I said, "I was born before you were born, and I was old when you were born."
You were born before I was born, and I was old when I was born. You hate that I was born late, and I hate that you were born early. You were born before I was born, and I was old when I was born. Hate is not born at the same time. Hello every day. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old. I am far away from you, and you are far away from me. I was born before you were born, but you were born when I was old. Become a butterfly, look for flowers every night and live in the grass.
I wasn't born when you were born. You were old when I was born. We are too old to get married, so when we meet, you regret that I was born too late, and I regret that you were born too early. I wasn't born when you were born. You were old when I was born. Unfortunately, they were not born at the same time, and the age difference is not big. I can walk hand in hand with you every day. I wasn't born when you were born. You were old when I was born. I look at you from afar, and you are far away. I wasn't born when you were born. You were old when I was born. I hope I can't become a beautiful butterfly in one day and rest on flowers and plants every night.
This poem is an inscription on the porcelain of Tongguan kiln in Tang Dynasty. The author may have created it by the Potter himself, or it may have been a popular alley ballad at that time. 1974- 1978 was unearthed at Tongguan kiln site in Changsha, Hunan. See Chen's Supplement to Complete Tang Poems, Volume 56, Five-character Poems by Anonymous, 1642, Zhonghua Book Company, 1992+00. This poem laments the helplessness and bitterness of two lovers who can't be together for a long time. I think the helplessness in the poem may be due to the age gap and distance. This poem is similar to the farthest distance circulated on the Internet. The farthest distance is as follows:
The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but when I stand in front of you, you don't know that I love you. The furthest distance in the world is not when I stand in front of you. You don't know I love you, but when you are stubborn, you can't say I love you. The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I love you, but that I miss you deeply, but I can only bury it in my heart. The furthest distance in the world is not that I can't say I miss you, but that I love each other but can't be together. The furthest distance in the world is not loving each other but not being together, but pretending not to care when you know that true love is invincible. The furthest distance in the world is not that you can't resist the smell, but that you pretend you don't care and dig an insurmountable ditch between you and the person who loves you with an indifferent heart. The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between trees, but the branches that grow from the same root, but cannot depend on each other in the wind. The furthest distance in the world is not that the branches can't depend on each other, but that the stars face each other without intersecting tracks. The furthest distance in the world is not the tracks between stars, but even if the tracks meet, there is no place to find them in an instant. The furthest distance in the world is not that you can't find it in an instant, but that you can't meet it without meeting it. The farthest distance in the world is the distance between fish and birds, one in the sky and the other in the depths of the sea.
Second, the "operator" Li Chi Ngai
I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches. I miss you every day, but I can't see you, so I drink Yangtze River water. The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward for a long time, and I don't know when it will stop, and neither will their lovesickness and parting hatred. I only hope that your heart is the same as mine, and you will not live up to this mutual yearning.
I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches. I miss you every day, I can't see you, but I drink the same river. The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward, and I don't know when it will stop, and I don't know when acacia will stop. I hope your heart, like mine, will live up to this lovesickness.
Ci originated from the Yangtze River. The first two sentences "I" and "Jun" are opposites, one lives at the river head and the other at the river end. Seeing the spatial distance between the two sides also implies a kind of lovesickness. Overlapping and overlapping sentence patterns strengthen the emotional breath of chanting, as if you can feel the protagonist's affectionate thoughts and sighs, which is particularly prominent in the broad background of Wan Li, a woman image.
The first two sentences directly derive three or four sentences. Wan Li is far away at the end of the river, which leads to the backbone of the whole word "I miss you every day"; Living on the banks of the Yangtze River leads to "* * * drinking Yangtze River water". If you look at each sentence in isolation, it is not excellent, but when you sing it together, you will feel that there is a deep feeling and wonderful truth outside of pen and ink. This is a turning point in two sentences, implicit but not published. The literal meaning is simple and straightforward: I miss you every day, but I can't see you, but I drink from a river. After careful tasting, it seems that although you can't see it, you can still drink the water of the Yangtze River. This "* * * drink" seems to be a little comforting to lovesickness. The poet only told the facts of "not seeing" and "drinking" in an understatement, hiding the connotation of the turning relationship between them, making people guess the taste of the song, which made the feelings of the words particularly profound.
"When will the water stop? When will this hatred end? " The change of head is still closely connected with the Yangtze River water, and "be there or be there" is a further expression of not hating. The water of the Yangtze River flows eastward, and I don't know when it will stop, and I don't know when acacia will stop. Using the tone of "when should we stop" and "when should we stop" shows that on the one hand, we hope that we can hate ourselves subjectively, and on the other hand, we hate ourselves objectively. The river never flows, and my hatred for acacia isolation is endless. This word, relying on the power of hate, turned the directness and enthusiasm of folk songs into profound and graceful songs, and the repetition of words and mistakes into simplicity and implication.
Writing here, the poet excavated a new meaning: "I only hope that your heart is the same as mine, and I won't miss home." No hatred, but deep love. "My heart" is an inexhaustible river. Naturally, I hope that "your heart is like my heart" and you will live up to your homesickness. Although the gap between the river head and the river end can't be bridged, two loving hearts are connected by one vein.
The whole poem takes the river as the lyric clue. Long Yangtze River water, from then on, unilateral lovesickness has become the expectation of both sides, and no other hatred has become eternal love and expectation. In this way, on both sides of the barrier, the heart will be permanently moistened and comforted. From "when has this hatred ever happened" to "I won't miss you", the distance between the river head and the river end has become a condition for emotional sublimation.
Li Chi Ngai's "Bu Operator" has won the charm of folk songs, such as bright and beautiful words, overlapping and circulating, and at the same time, it has the unique new ideas of literati words. We live by the Yangtze River and drink its water together, but we can't meet each other because we are separated. This feeling is like water flowing forever, and this hatred will never end. I can only wish you that your heart will always be the same as mine, and don't bear each other's homesickness. The language is ordinary, but the feelings are deep and sincere. The idea is very unique, won the charm of folk songs, and is good at love words.
At the end of this word, it is written about eternal friendship in isolation, giving people the feeling that rivers and flowing water will flow forever. The whole poem takes the Yangtze River water as a lyric clue. The long Yangtze River water is not only a natural barrier on both sides of Wan Li, but also a natural carrier to connect with each other and send affection to distant places. It is not only the trigger and symbol of long lovesickness and endless hatred, but also the witness of eternal friendship and expectation between the two sides. With the development of ci poetry, its functions are constantly changing, which can be described as inexhaustible.
Third, The Book of Songs, High Wind and Drumming
Drums are dull and soldiers actively use them. Cao Tuguocheng, I travel south alone. From Sun Zizhong, Chen Pinghe and Song Dynasty. No, I'm going home. I'm worried. Where do you live? Lost his horse? For it? Under the forest. Life and death are generous, and Zi Cheng says. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. I am rich, but I am still alive. Sorry, but I believe it.
Drums are dull, and soldiers actively practice swords and guns; The capital and a grass built a wall, and I joined the army and ran to the south alone. Follow General Sun Zizhong to pacify Chen and Song in other countries; I can't go home for a long time, and my heart is broken. Where do you stop and camp? Lost his horse in panic; Where to find it? Where to find it? Grass lies under the forest in the wilderness. Where will you go, we have made a vow of eternal love: "Holding your hand in this life will always be beautiful, and we will never be separated from you!" Sigh today, we can't meet. I sigh all over the world, and I can't keep my oath and return home.
This is a famous love poem, in which "life and death are broad, and zi cheng says;" Hold your hand and grow old with your son "has been told by the world so far, and it has almost become an idiom or idiom." "This poem tells the story of a man who went to the battlefield and missed his sweetheart day and night: thinking of their oath of" holding your hand and growing old with your son "two months ago, and thinking of where you will go now, how can you not be sad?
"Life and death are generous, Zicheng said. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. " It is an ancient and firm promise, and it is also a romantic and beautiful legend. Holding hands with Qianshan suddenly shortened, holding hands with resentment and hatred dissipated, holding hands with tearful eyes, holding hands with acacia, unable to sleep. When holding hands, you know both cold and warm; When you hold hands, you forget sadness and happiness. Helplessness is the sadness after holding hands, but helplessness is the sadness when breaking up. Hold hands because of love. The truer the love, the purer the heart; The deeper you love, the simpler your feelings are. When holding hands, don't be crazy and selfish. Hold your hand and grow old with your son? Hold your hand, forget life and death!
Hold your hand and grow old with your son. This should be a feeling of standing side by side and staring at the sunrise and sunset; It should be a feeling of changing weather, a feeling of witnessing years and feelings.
Hold your hand and grow old with your son. When you cry, someone will accompany you to be sad, listen to you, smooth your messy hair and gaunt face, and tell you that tomorrow is still sunny; When you smile brightly, the whole world shines with you. He stands quietly and smiles at you as brightly as the sun.
Hold your hand and grow old with your son. This should be a picture of two people holding up a sky together. Like two independent trees, you hold up a sky, branches and leaves bloom under the blue sky, and roots support each other underground. Whether it is wind, frost, rain and snow, holding your hand, every moment is so beautiful, every moment is a touching love poem, and every moment is worth remembering all the time.
Fourth, "thank you"
Evil! I want to know you and live a long life. There is no mausoleum in the mountains, the river is exhausted, there is Lei Zhen in winter, and there is rain and snow in summer. Only when heaven and earth are in harmony can we dare to be with you!
Oh, my god I am eager to know you and cherish you, and my heart will never fade. Unless the towering mountains smooth the peaks, unless the raging rivers dry up. Unless thunder is rolling in the cold winter, unless it snows heavily in the hot summer, and unless heaven and earth intersect, I dare to abandon my affection for you until all this happens!
Wu Rui, the king of Changsha, has a very talented concubine named Mao Ping. On the birthday of her death, Wu Rui and Shi Mao Ping went boating in Xiangjiang River. Looking at the green hills and the clear water, I feel that after so many years of fighting, Shi Mao and Wu Rui have fallen into an unspeakable sad state, and the husband and wife have gathered and dispersed. Shi Mao said impromptu to her husband, "Evil! I want to know you and live a long life. There are no graves in the mountains, rivers and mountains are exhausted, there is Lei Zhen in winter, and there is rain and snow in summer. Heaven and earth are United and dare to break with you. " Wu Rui thought of death after listening and said, "Rui should go to the rooftop to see the splendor of Tianmen."
This is a love song in the rap of Han Yuefu folk songs. It is an infatuated woman's affectionate confession to her lover. It is very ingenious in art. After the hero in the poem takes the oath of calling for heaven, he bluntly wants to "know your long life" and change ink from the perspective of "not dying with your husband", which is more affectionate than sticking tiles. The hero imagines three groups of peculiar natural variations as the conditions for "leaving the monarch": "There are no graves in the mountains and rivers are inexhaustible"-the mountains and rivers disappear; "Thunderstorm in winter, rain and snow in summer"-the four seasons are reversed; "Harmony between Heaven and Earth"-Returning to the chaotic world again. These ideas are more absurd than one, more bizarre than one, and impossible to happen. This emphasizes the hero's immortal love, thus fundamentally ruling out the possibility of "parting with you". This unique lyric way accurately expresses the unique absolute psychology of people in love. Affection and whimsy are indeed "the miracle of short chapters."
This ancient poem has a great influence on later generations. Bodhisattva Man, written by Dunhuang Quzi Ci God, is obviously inspired by it in both ideological content and artistic expression: "I wish everything before my pillow, and I want to wait for the green hills to rot." Fish scales float on the water until the Yellow River turns completely orange. In the daytime, when Beidou returns to the south, he can't rest, and he can't see the sun until the third night. "Not only the pursuit of loyal and single-minded love and happiness is the same, but also the constant use of various impossibilities to explain an impossible artistic conception is exactly the same.
V. "Farewell"
You walk, walk, walk all the time, thus separating your life from mine. Since then, you and I have traveled thousands of miles, I am in heaven, and you are in heaven. It's a long way to Xiu Yuan, and it will be safe. North Malaysia is still attached to the north wind, south birds fly north, and nest in the south branch. The longer they are apart, the wider they become and the thinner they become. Wandering clouds cover the sun, and wanderers are reluctant to return in foreign countries. Just because I want you to age me, another year will soon end. There are many other things to say, just wish you take care of yourself and don't be hungry and cold.
You walk and walk and keep walking, which separates you from me. From then on, you and I are thousands of miles apart, I am at the end of the day, and you are at the end of the day. The road is so difficult and so far. Do you know when it is time to meet? North Manan is still connected to the north wind, and southern birds fly north to nest in the south branch. The longer we are apart from each other, the wider our clothes are and the thinner we are. The wandering clouds covered the sun, and the wanderers from other places didn't want to return it. Just because I miss you, I am old, and another year is coming to an end. There are many things I won't say. I only wish you take care and don't be hungry and cold.
Walking Again is the first of Nineteen Ancient Poems, which is about the sadness of missing a woman and not hating her. At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, being an official was very popular. In order to seek a way out and gain fame and fortune, scholars had to leave their homes and run around. At that time, the politics was extremely dark, the society was extremely chaotic, and the intellectuals with humble origins, even if they were knowledgeable, were difficult to display. In this case, the pain of being away from relatives is more prominent. Therefore, in Nineteen Ancient Poems, the works with the theme of husband and wife parting and missing each other accounted for a large proportion, which reflected the social situation at that time, especially the ideological repression of the lower intellectuals.
A woman misses her husband who is away from home. She lamented the pain of parting, the distance, and the difficulty of meeting each other, and compared her unforgettable lovesickness with her husband's gone forever, but she was still forgiving herself and only hoped that people who traveled far away would take care. The whole poem is good at lyricism, with profound charm, simple and natural language, refined and vivid, and its style is close to folk songs. This article can be divided into two parts: the first six sentences are the first part and the last ten sentences are the second part.
The first part, tracing back to the beginning of parting, focuses on the difficulty of meeting in the distance. The first two sentences, "Do what you want to do, sacrifice your life for righteousness", are the outlines of the whole poem, which always leads to the following.
The second part focuses on the suffering of homesickness. Huma and Moonbird mean that birds and beasts still know how to be attached to their hometown, let alone people. Comparing birds and animals with people is a good way to guess the psychology of vagrants. Time flies, the wanderer goes farther and farther, and the homesick woman's lovesickness is getting deeper and deeper. Clothes are getting slower and slower vividly reveals the feeling of thinking about women. She is getting thinner and older, which is in sharp contrast to "wandering regardless of rebellion". "Clouds cover the sun, and the wanderer ignores it" means that he suspects that the wanderer is unlucky from the bad side, but he doesn't want to say it directly, but expresses his thoughts euphemistically through metaphor. The last two sentences are forced comfort. This kind of mood is actually difficult to "give up" and "Tao". If you are in a bad mood, it is difficult to "add meals". The suffering of lovesickness is originally an abstract psychological state, but the author vividly depicts the sad mood through appropriate metaphors such as people, birds, floating clouds and daytime, and meticulous descriptions such as leisurely and old people.
Six, "Que Qiao Xian" Qin Guan
The thin clouds in the sky are changing, the meteors in the sky convey the sadness of acacia, and the endless galaxy I quietly crossed tonight. When you meet, you will win, but there are countless people in the world. Tender as water, like a dream, you can go home from the bridge! It's been a long time, and it's still there, day and night
The colorful clouds are beautiful, and the meteors spread the sorrows of cows and women. Even though the Milky Way is wide, the cowherd and weaver girl on the magpie bridge like to meet each other. Reunion in the golden wind on the first frost day is better than many secular feelings in the world. Don't say that this is like running water, and don't regret that the good times are like dreams. Don't be sad for the Cowherd and Weaver Girl's Tanabata, and don't be sad for people who hate water when they grow up. As long as it's a real relationship for a long time, there is no need to get along with this life day and night.
This is the preface of Qixi. The first sentence shows the unique lyrical atmosphere of Qixi. "Qiao" and "Hate" point out the theme of "begging for Qiao" and the tragic characteristics of the story of "Cowherd and Weaver Girl", which are sophisticated and beautiful. Praise faithful love with the story of Cowherd and Weaver Girl. The conclusion sentence "If two kinds of feelings last for a long time, sooner or later" is the most profound. These two sentences not only refer to the characteristics of the love mode of the cowherd and the weaver girl, but also express the author's love view, which is a highly concise famous saying. Therefore, this word has aesthetic value and artistic taste across times and countries.
This word combines scenery, lyricism and discussion. It tells the fairy tale of love between Penny and Weaver Girl, endowing the fairy couple with rich human feelings and eulogizing sincere, delicate, pure and loyal love. Between the lines, the binary stars in the sky are clearly written, and the lovers on earth are secretly written; His lyricism, written with music and Syaraku, was deeply touching.
At the beginning of the word, it says "Yunmiao". Soft and colorful clouds change into many beautiful and ingenious patterns, showing how exquisite the Weaver Girl's craftsmanship is. However, such a beautiful person can't live a beautiful life with his beloved. "Flying stars spread hate". Those shining stars seem to convey their sadness and hatred. They fly in the sky.
As for the Milky Way, "Nineteen Ancient Poems" says: "The rivers are shallow. How much is the difference? " When Ying Ying sleeps, her pulse is silent. ""Ying Ying monohydrate, close at hand, it seems that even each other's expressions and voices are in sight. Here, Qin Guan wrote: "Yin and Han secretly crossed the river", and the word "strip" was used to accommodate the vastness of the Milky Way, and the cows and girls were far apart. This change has deepened feelings and highlighted the suffering of lovesickness. It's not easy to meet two people who love each other in a place far from the Milky Way! The word "secret crossing" not only points out the meaning of Tanabata, but also closely follows the word "hate". They lingered all night and met all the way.
Next, the poet put the pen and ink aside and talked about it emotionally: "When the golden wind meets the dew, it will surely win countless people!" A pair of long-lost lovers met in the blue sky and the shore of the Milky Way. This beautiful moment is worth meeting thousands of times in the world. The poet enthusiastically praised an ideal holy and eternal love. "Golden Wind and Jade Dew" uses Li Shangyin's poem "Seven Nights of Wei Xin": "I am afraid of the separation of the fairy family, so I teach it to make a good time. From Robbie's silver Jiang Lai, there can be a golden wind and jade dew. " It is used to describe the seasonal scenery of Tanabata, and it has another meaning. With pure ice as the background, the poet sets off this precious encounter and shows the nobleness and otherness of this love.
"Tender as water", the affection when two kinds of feelings meet, just like the long silent running water, is so gentle and lingering. Nature is "tender as water" and "water like running water" to take care of "Yin Hanyuan". When the ceremony suddenly passed like a dream, it was heartbreaking to see each other and part! "Courtesy is like a dream", in addition to the short meeting time, it also describes the complex mood of lovers when they meet. "forbear to go home from the magpie bridge" and turn away. The magpie bridge that just met has become the lover's way home in a blink of an eye. I didn't say I couldn't bear to leave, I said how I could bear to see the magpie bridge return home. The meaning of tactfulness includes infinite feelings of parting and infinite bitter tears.
Looking back on the ceremony tryst, I was suspicious of truth and falsehood, like a dream, and when I bid farewell to the magpie bridge, my love had reached the extreme. At this point, the pen suddenly turned around in the air and burst into a high-pitched voice: "If two feelings last for a long time, how can it be sooner or later!" Qin Guan's two sentences tell the true meaning of love: love should stand the test of long-term separation, and as long as it can really love each other, even if it is far apart all the year round, it is much more valuable than the low-level interest that accompanies day and night. These two sentences with strong feelings echo the discussion in the last film, making the upper and lower films have the same structure, and narrative and discussion alternate, thus forming the continuous ups and downs of the whole story. This correct view of love, this noble spiritual realm, far exceeds similar works in ancient times, which is commendable.
The discussion of this word is free and smooth, easy to understand, but graceful and meaningful, with endless aftertaste. The author combines the finishing touch with the prose syntax with beautiful images and deep emotions, and eulogizes the beautiful love between people with ups and downs, which has achieved excellent artistic effects. The last two sentences of this word are eternal songs of love.
Further reading
1, don't hold the handrail on the bus, just hug your waist, kiss you secretly and rub it on your face. Seeing this, I remembered that I had done it before. When he got off the bus, he laughed very hard. I asked what was going on. He said that an aunt sat next to us with a little boy in her arms, and I held him all the way. The little boy kept staring at us, and the aunt tried to blindfold the child.
Every time we meet for the first time after saying goodbye, we should have a solid hug. If I am in public, I want you to kiss my face. If no one is around, I want you to kiss my mouth.
Lying on your lap watching TV, let you bring me food.
4. Formulate management regulations for two people, stipulating that it is ok to get angry in the cold war, but it is not allowed to exceed 25 seconds.
5. Encourage you to write novels and be the first reader. Help you find inspiration.
6. Say something that only two people understand with the dialogue in TV series.
7. Tell you when you want to hug, you must be satisfied.
8. Give each other a cute nickname and suddenly call it out in front of outsiders.
9, secretly buy back what you want to buy but are not willing to give up.
10, always using the same style and different colors of toothbrushes, towels and cups, only covering a quilt.
1 1. Every time you travel alone, you bring gifts to each other, even if it is a leaf or a stone.
12, when you are sick, sit on the bed with you, lean your head on my chest, watch TV together, feed you medicine and accompany you for injections.
13. Two people surf the Internet in one room and chat with you through QQ.
14. Wipe your hair and dry it when you are happy.
15, live abroad for a period of time.
16, using the same bank password. And memorize each other's QQ, MSN and email password, but leave some private space for each other.
17, set aside a little money every month to be a luxury fund. If anyone has any extravagant hopes, two people discuss using this money to complete it.
18, stand in front of the mirror and brush your teeth together.
19. No matter who you argue with, two people are always on one side. It is inevitable to quarrel only when there is no one else.
20. If you want to keep a pet, go to the street to find stray cats and dogs to adopt and take care of them.
2 1, I will tell you good news or bad news first.
22. Drive to a distant place together, ask passers-by hand, and take pictures of all the beautiful scenery along the way.
23. Wash your hair and massage your shoulders.
24. When you are free, you can make your own household items and hang your own pictures on the wall.
25. Always sit next to you when you drive out, touch your hand when you are in gear, and let you kiss at the red light.
26. Buy a small table that can be put on the bed. When we don't want to get up, we can surf the Internet, eat and play chess in bed.
27. Swear to eat all the delicious food in the world together.
28. Make you western food, whether you like it or not, eat it at least once.
29. Help you buy all socks, underwear, ties and shirts to ensure comfort, fit and beauty.
Help you pack your box when you are on a business trip.
3 1, praise you in front of outsiders.
32. Every time you cook, I eat cheerfully, and then I ask to wash the dishes. Of course, if I cook, you should behave yourself.
Eat hot pot at home in winter.
34. Let's swim, exercise and play ball together, and save money to buy two membership cards of the health club.
35. I want a big room with sunshine, bookcase, computer, wool carpet and hot tea.
36. Being a person who can also give you advice at work and discussing it calmly will often make you sit up and take notice.
37. I won't bother you when you are working, help you make tea and deliver snacks.
No matter how late you come back from overtime, I will wait for you to sleep together.
39, often take a big photo and paste it all over the place.
40. If the elderly are willing, they will receive the elderly from both sides during the Chinese New Year.
4 1. If the other party goes out to play with friends and can't go together, then wait for the other party to come back without complaining.
42. The room is full of photos of two people.
43. There are always fresh fruits at home. Wash them and put them on the table. You can pick it up at any time.
44. When I get off work, I suddenly appear at the door of the unit, always thinking of giving you a surprise.
45. Wherever you go, you will always think of each other's parents, brothers and sisters and bring them gifts. When buying presents for parents, they said it was their idea.
46. Choose the colors of sheets and curtains together, and every piece of furniture in the house. Go to the scene to supervise in person when decorating.
47. Set off firecrackers to cover your ears in the New Year.
48. Find a tree, carve each other's names and circle a big heart.
49. Walking hand in hand in the snow without footprints, covering each other's hands with white air.
50. Buy a set of professional camping equipment and use it at least once.
5 1. Remind each other to eat vitamins and drink milk every night.
52. While sitting on the sofa watching TV together, I folded the washed clothes while eating, and then forced you to say that I folded them neatly.
I'll kiss you when I wake up at night, and then I'll sleep.
I won't miss every book fair. Book fairs never feel bad about spending money, including a lamb kebab for 5 yuan each.
55. Discuss everything with each other, but respect each other's choices and support them unconditionally.
56. Spend every birthday together. Try to stay with your parents. If not, at least call them.
Every time I say goodbye, I pray that my parents are safe and healthy, and then I pray that I can love them forever.
58, there is a small board hanging behind the door, leaving messages to each other every day. Say I love you or I'm sorry.
59. Never say thank you.
60. Get along well with each other's friends. They often date each other, or go out together, and spend weekends together with their children.
6 1, take the initiative to consider the other person's family and say what the other person wants to say but hesitates.
62. Take all the responsibilities of the other party and fulfill all the wishes for the other party in case of accidents.
63, often practice calligraphy, can write each other's names very well, and even imitate each other's signatures (no malice).
64. Look for different ways to travel, such as cycling, boating, horseback riding and even hot air balloon.
65. Try every newly opened museum, playground and memorial hall.
66. Listen to you carefully and don't be smart.
67. If you come home drunk, please believe that if I am a little unhappy, it is all because of my love, but I will still take care of you patiently.
No matter how busy and tired you are, you should also see that the room is clean, tidy and fresh, and there is enough food when someone visits.
69. Take care of your health and plan your living habits, so that you can live healthier and healthier.
70. Change the layout of the room from time to time, as well as your own image and some of our habits, so that you will never get bored and feel fresh every day.
7 1. When friends come to see you, take the initiative to go out with good friends and give you a call before coming back. If they are still here, I will go back to my parents' house and cook for you.
72. Make good use of every 7-day long vacation and annual leave to accompany each other to complete their dreams.
73. Buy a pair of lovers' clothes every season, and the clothes of two people should be matched every time they go out.
74. Keep a pot of flowers, remind each other to water and bask in the sun.
75. I have long hair if you like my long hair, short hair if you like my short hair, perm if you like me, and brown if you like my brown.
76. Practice some duet songs, which is the envy of everyone in KTV.
77. Remember all the things you like and dislike. Let's get rid of picky eaters and feed each other something that you didn't like but is nutritious.
78. Never mind who gives in first after a quarrel.
79. Take an umbrella only when it rains.
80. Stick this list on the wall and put a tick behind each list. On the road of love, don't leave any regrets.