From your description, we can see that you have some problems. Of course, the reason why you are like this today may be related to your environment in "Born in a Family". Maybe your parents did a lot of things for you when you were young. They didn't teach you a sense of responsibility. I don't know your ability to take care of yourself. Are you willing to do the trivial housework in life? Your parents may have done a lot of things for you. You have no habit of being responsible. You are willing to rely on others to do anything. I used to rely on your parents, but now I rely on your lover. But you need to understand that your parents will get old and one day you can't rely on them; Your lover is sometimes very tired, and one day you may be unreliable.

It is often said in life that it is better to ask for yourself than to ask for others. Now you need to start learning skills such as housework, bill management and family finance. You and your lover should support each other and move forward together, instead of letting your lover carry you. One day he won't catch you. Then what should you do?

You have realized your own problems, and you need to overcome yourself. Counselor's suggestion: Set a goal for yourself. At first, the goal can be lower, as specific as possible, broken down into daily ones, and then written down and posted in your room. Urge yourself to finish. If you persist in finishing your goal in 7 days, you can reward yourself with a red star. When you have saved five red stars, you can reward yourself with a small red flag. When you have saved five little red flags, you can let your husband fulfill one of your wishes, such as taking you out for a trip or buying you a favorite item. Slowly, you will form good habits. Wish you success!