Five psychological manifestations of men's infidelity, many women are always in a weak position in extramarital affairs. Many men are actually afraid of divorce after the original match is discovered, so they will try their best to hide their extramarital affairs. Let's take a look at five manifestations of psychological man's infidelity.
Five manifestations of psychological men's infidelity 1 Start to stay out at night frequently.
In fact, this is easy to understand: if a man doesn't have much entertainment at ordinary times, it is obviously abnormal to suddenly start to stay overnight frequently; Or a man who is usually busy and has a lot of entertainment, tell him when to end the informative progress, and pay attention to it. Under normal circumstances, men who love you will worry about you.
At the same time, I am also afraid that you are worried about him, so it is human nature to ask for leave in time to report peace. On the contrary, if a man stays out for the night and doesn't want to tell you any information about him, his attitude is blunt and indifferent, and his reply message is short, then it can be preliminarily judged that he has a certain probability of cheating.
A change is sudden, and the power of action is sudden and powerful.
Everyone has their own areas that they are not good at. It takes a lot of energy and perseverance to overcome and create things that are contrary to your own thinking. If one day, we find something that he has never touched, and start to do it purposefully, and we are full of motivation and enjoy it, it must be a strong motivation to drive him. There was once a lady.
Although his men usually pay great attention to health, they just don't exercise much. Suddenly, the man began to exercise every day without warning and didn't get up for more than an hour and a half. As we all know, a person who has not taken physical exercise for a long time needs a gradual adaptation process, otherwise it will be bad for his health. Obviously, this has violated his ideas and habits in daily life.
Later, the lady learned through many inquiries that her man met a girl at a social gathering and they got along well. In order to change some of my images, I suddenly started to exercise. Therefore, we should pay attention to it on weekdays, and we must be vigilant once we find similar behavior patterns.
I'm confused about the hot and cold.
Things are rare, and people will cherish them in any way when they can't get what they want and get less. Afraid of losing, afraid of looking for trouble to get back. One day, there will be more choices, wider reference range and more and more serious. In feelings, the phenomenon of hot and cold can be used as a barometer of men's attitude towards themselves.
Most people don't choose men with many women around them, because there are many choices, which are too fancy and easy to compare. I believe everyone will have this experience: when focusing on one thing, any external news will become a distracting factor and it is easy to get upset. Imagine a man talking eagerly with another woman. They may be in an elegant restaurant.
During this period, you sent him a lot of messages, disturbed him, disturbed his mood, replied a few words at random, and there was no news, or even turned off his phone. When it was all over, the mood of "dating" gradually faded, and I felt a little guilty and even uneasy. I'm apologizing, making up lies to prevaricate the past, using our trust to get along well, and then I'm still like this. This is really common in real life.
I didn't like many people or things at first.
There is nothing perfect in this world, and there is no absolute superiority or inferiority. On different occasions, they can be transformed into each other and are relative. Two people happen to be together, love each other and appreciate each other, and all the advantages and disadvantages can be well tolerated to a great extent. As we spend more and more time together.
After familiarity, the passion fades, and the original problems are exposed one by one, and you will feel that both of them have changed. At this time, another lady appeared, and it was easy to make a contrast. With fresh contrast, it is easy to find fault with some things instinctively. Once this happens more and more, the man is suspected of cheating.
The capital flow has increased, and many problems are no longer taboo.
Love is the highest form of intimate relationship between the opposite sex, and it is a unique high-level emotion of human beings. Even so, it must be based on some values. Even the intrinsic value needs to be manifested externally in the early stage of communication, and the simplest and most direct is the capital flow. People prefer to associate with people who can bring them progress and benefits.
So the definition of money plays an obvious role in cheating. At the same time, he mentioned more frankly what he had avoided before and dared not put it on the table, so it can be preliminarily judged that he was cheating. After all, I didn't answer because I was worried, but now that I have another woman, my heart is even more unscrupulous.
Five psychological manifestations of men's infidelity 2 What are the signs of men's infidelity?
His cell phone is always busy.
There must be something wrong with the mobile phone after a man cheats. His mobile phone always seems to have endless things to deal with. Even if you take him to the party, you will find that he has been playing with his mobile phone at the party, either sending messages or making phone calls. Although he came to your party, he was absent-minded. He is not as busy as his mobile phone. This busyness can easily make people feel that his heart is not at the party at all.
He began to pay more attention to his clothes than before.
He began to pay more attention to his clothes and spent more time looking in the mirror than before. Sometimes he will even ask you that the dress looks better because men also know how to "please others". He will start to pay attention to hygiene, often take a shower and wash his hair at home, and look in the mirror again and again before going out in the morning. The reason for doing this is that he makes himself look like a lover. He wants to be young, passionate and energetic in each other's hearts.
Not only does he talk to you less, but he also has less contact with his parents.
People's energy and time are limited. A man is cheating, and his spare time is distributed among the objects of the affair. He can't spend more time with his family, so he will have less contact with you and your family. Because he spends all his spare time cheating on his partner, he and his parents haven't even called for two months, and there seems to be nothing to say with others.
He has more social activities and things outside than before.
When a man has an affair, his mind must be outside his family. So he will have more social activities and things outside than before.
He will go out a lot and has no time to talk nonsense with you. As long as he hears you, he will get bored. And every time I come home, I will be late. As long as I get home, I will be quiet. He does this because his heart is not here with you.
He is indifferent to his wife.
The man cheated, and he left all his feelings outside. So when I get home, I always like to fall asleep after washing. He is indifferent to his wife, and even doesn't want to touch her for a month or two, because now he has no sexual demand for his wife. As a wife, you can at least judge whether he is cheating or not, and whether he still has you in his heart. No matter how critical he is, his body won't lie.
Five psychological manifestations of men's infidelity 3. Some psychological states of men's infidelity;
1, a highly narcissistic state of mind
The representative of narcissistic men is the protagonist of recent gossip news.
Narcissistic men always think that they are better and nobler and should be completely above women. They feel that they can charm all women, have great charm and have great influence on their own strength. Even if you do something wrong, you should get everyone's forgiveness and even care about comfort.
Narcissistic men are generally selfish, conceited and arrogant, but in fact they are inferior at heart, so they want to constantly emphasize their value and ability to others through some ways and behaviors, for example, attracting different women, but this behavior shows their low value.
2. Insecurity caused by family background.
Many men are seriously insecure because of their family background, and it is difficult to change even if they enter marriage, because the insecurity brought by their family background is deeply rooted and difficult to change.
After entering marriage, it is easy to doubt the other half, and the understanding of marriage is one-sided or even biased, and it is difficult to trust others and stubborn. This is actually a subconscious self-protection mechanism.
When you make a mistake or even cheat, you will always protect yourself for the first time and constantly push the fault to external factors. Obviously, you are cheating, betraying your family, betraying your wife and violating the moral bottom line. It's that you blindly shirk your responsibility, keep quarreling, say that the other party seduced him, say that his wife is not gentle enough, know that you are wrong, or keep quarreling, and don't want to face the reality.
3. I have a shallow understanding of emotions.
Many men have a superficial understanding of love and think that being recognized and understood is love. Therefore, the reason why many men cheat is the temporary recognition, understanding and care of their extramarital partners, thinking that they have met true love, want to keep it, and even feel that their love is vigorous, and then ignore moral public opinion or even separate in pursuit of so-called love.
True love is based on morality. It needs responsibility and responsibility, and it is obligatory. Those extramarital affairs broke the moral boundary, and there was no responsibility or obligation. After all, they are illusory, unrealistic and can't last long. Such a man is actually living in his own fantasy, self-righteous and blind and stupid.
4, prodigal mentality
Also known as "Casanova syndrome", it means that men want to enjoy the experience of polygamy.
They gain freshness and excitement by cheating different women. Maybe they don't know what kind of woman they like. Anyway, all kinds of women want to try to enjoy this life, and they are completely prodigal and greedy.
I don't want the red flag at home to fall, and I hope that the colorful flags outside will always float. I will keep trying new feelings, new types and extreme greed.
5. An avoidance mentality of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages.
Many men regard extramarital affairs as an outlet for internal contradictions in marriage to avoid marital problems.
To put it bluntly, in marriage, there are many contradictions between husband and wife, which have not been solved, and they are unhappy, even miserable and depressed, and even have a lot of negative emotions, resentment and anger towards their wives, and they cannot communicate well.
So he vented these negative emotions and psychology on other women in an attempt to get their comfort, understanding and recognition. When the other party meets his needs, he will easily rely on the other party and gradually form an ambiguous relationship. This is an escape mentality, refusing to solve the problem, but dealing with it in a way that hurts marriage, which ultimately hurts others and themselves.
The above five factors are some psychological States and incentives for men to cheat. To solve the problem of men's cheating and maintain family harmony, we must first solve these factors before we can break the affair.
If we can accurately judge the behavior and state of two people, we can effectively avoid some problems.