We are all eager for success, but when people are alive, it is inevitable that everything will go well, and even you and I will grow up in setbacks all our lives. Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. Please allow yourself to fail, admit it and face it squarely. You can be discouraged, but please don't blame yourself too much. Life lacks discipline, and it is difficult to achieve permanent success. After all, you will encounter some setbacks and blows, and remind yourself to improve and enrich yourself. Proper remorse will make you feel ashamed, glorious and shameful, inspiring and eager to be strong. Too much remorse will only dampen your enthusiasm and deny yourself. Besides, it's no use
2. Allow failure, not collapse.
A leaf is full of spring and autumn, and the mood is also high and low. Every mortal will be lost, and his mood has a cycle. Accept it. I failed in the three exams, and I can't stop losing. Although I know it's useless to lose, it will only make my mood worse and worse, and it won't help to comfort my friends who learn driving together. The original plan was suddenly disrupted, and the heart of the code word was gone. I just want to take a shower and go to bed. We often become dejected and despondent because of a little failure. Don't try to be brave when you fail, give yourself some space and time to digest. Sleep is a friend with healing function. When you are sad, you might as well lie down and sleep.
3. divert attention and enrich yourself
There are too many tests in my life. Maybe they are all what you and I need, but they are not what I want. I wanted to go straight to sleep when I came home after the exam, but I was still tied up by the task and promised others that I hadn't finished it yet. I can't help it I just crustily skin of head and suddenly found myself in no mood when I was doing it. Being involved in a new job can greatly reduce my frustration caused by some things. In Ode to Joy, after being abandoned by Bai, love is gone and work is gone. What really puts him in the shadow is to make up for the next job opportunities. Listening to music, running, reading and exercising are all good ways to divert attention. Instead of being immersed in failure, it is better to get busy and actively meet the next challenge.
4: Should I accept my fate?
Looking back on more than 20 years, I really want to write a successful experience, but there is really no need to share it. I can only sum up my own failures, reflect on myself, and point out some thunder pools for friends who have never experienced it. The exam failed, and the driving school students said that the exam often depends on luck. It is true that there are good and bad cars assigned to each exam, and it is easy to be nervous and lead to failure if it is not suitable for a while. However, is it really time to accept my fate? Ask yourself, I failed this exam, except that there was something wrong with the clutch of the distribution car, and I adapted to the test car at the expense of losing an opportunity. There was no hand brake at the second traffic light, which caused the car to slip. The driving school is flat when practicing. When you pass the traffic lights, you only need to step on the brakes, but the place to take the test is the ramp. If you are not careful, you will slip away. In the final analysis, I still don't have enough skills and encounter too few situations. I don't know how to deal with special circumstances in the exam. As the saying goes, man proposes, God disposes, just try your best. But many times, we put too much emphasis on the latter and forget our efforts. Besides, it is not enough to try your best in everything. Only by doing your best can you be qualified to say: just try your best!
5. Analysis of failure results
There are also big and small failures, small ones will make you sad, depressed, big failures, people will be devastated and even choose to commit suicide. Everyone divides the size of failure differently. Some people think that being lovelorn is like the end of the world, while others just think that it is the withering of a love. There are too many subjective factors, so take out a piece of paper and write down the real consequences that failure can bring to yourself. For example, if you fail in subject three, the consequence is nothing more than taking the exam again, paying the 75 yuan make-up exam fee and tossing it over again. After writing it down, I suddenly found that it was just so, and it was still within my tolerance. Many failures are not as terrible as we thought, so it is clear to write the results.
6. learn to vent.
If you are in a bad mood, besides sleeping, you should also channel and vent in time. If you feel uncomfortable, cry out loud. To some extent, crying for a short time is the best way to release bad emotions, or you can shout and run at once. Emotions are like pipes, and bad emotions are like stains. If they accumulate too much, they will be blocked, and timely cleaning can ensure the smooth flow of the pipeline.
Summary: In the face of setbacks and failures, it is useless to blame yourself blindly. Don't dwell on the past and don't be afraid of the future. This is our most positive attitude towards setbacks and failures. May you and I both grow up from failure and become better ourselves from failure.
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