0 1, it is really important to make money hard. Money is really important. You can buy what you want, wear beautiful clothes, live the life you want and make yourself more confident and independent. Better to rely on yourself than to go to others for help. Don't mention how great it is to spend your hard-earned money. When you are financially independent, you find that when you look at a beautiful dress, it is so cool to buy it at buy buy without hesitation. When you want to honor your parents, how proud you are to buy a plane ticket to take your parents to play; Exquisitely dress yourself with the most expensive skin care products and buy lipsticks of various colors; When you work hard to make money and become financially independent, you will have the right to speak in life. You don't have to look at other people's faces all the time, but you can also go out for a delicious meal to treat yourself. After the age of 25, you don't have to be rich. At the very least, you have to support yourself and be independent of others. You can earn money slowly and enjoy the process of your struggle by making money. 02, a trip that says go. Some people say that traveling is the best investment in a woman's life, not just to see the scenery along the way, but to meet herself at the end of the world. To study in thousands of books, it is better to take Wan Li Road. Women who travel frequently see more scenery. Her appearance and speaking temperament bear the knowledge and shaping brought by travel, thus becoming more calm and calm. Many women around me always say that they envy who has gone where, but they have never stepped out of that cubicle. She always said that children are still young and need to be taken care of; I'm too tired to go out to play; When you want to make money, wait until you have money later; ..... there are always so many reasons. Actually, traveling is not as complicated as you think, and it needs so much money. You see, many penniless people don't go to the whole world. There used to be a saying: people never know how good they are unless they push themselves. Travel broadens your horizons, makes you more independent and reexamines your life. So, while you are young, go out more and don't leave a lifetime of regrets. 03. Read more books and cultivate your temperament. When your talent can't support your dreams, you need to read more books. Make a reading list for yourself, and then finish reading these books. Someone once asked such a question: Most of the books you read will eventually be forgotten, so what's the point of reading? As San Mao said: reading more books naturally changes your appearance. Many times, you may feel that many books you have read have become the past, and you can't remember them. In fact, they still have potential. In temperament, in words, in boundless bosom, of course, it may also be revealed in life and words. This is the best answer I have ever seen. Reading can't make you a perfect person, but it can help you improve yourself. 04. Insisting on physical exercise and reading is the lowest cost appreciation way in the world. Haruki Murakami once said: The body is everyone's temple. No matter what fashion is enshrined in it, we should keep it strong. Beautiful and clean. I have always admired those slim peers, so I secretly vowed to lose weight and exercise. However, I downloaded the slimming software, because I will never open it again when my period comes. Seeing delicious food, there is always reason to say that eating it will make you thin; Bought fitness equipment, used it once and left it in the corner; Exercise, just talk. How you live is how you live. Go to exercise and make yourself a healthy young man. Although you are very tired at first, when you stick to the end, you will get more pleasure: others praise you for becoming more beautiful and younger, your self-confidence is bursting, you have more friends, and you feel more energetic every day. 05, try a new hobby Hitchens said: The biggest sin of people is boredom. In life, you must have a hobby to kill your loneliness and boredom and make you an interesting person. This hobby can be reading, writing, guitar, dancing, food and writing ... yohji yamamoto said that there must be a hobby, including but not limited to running, fitness, reading and writing. Besides clothes, his biggest hobby is practicing karate. I got a black belt in five years and practiced for 20 years. Hobbies can make women less dependent on their families and have their own world. Women can't escape from love and family, but love and family are not the whole of life. When a woman is too devoted, she often loses herself and becomes dull. However, if you have your own hobbies, it's different. When you devote yourself wholeheartedly to what you really like, your concentration and sense of accomplishment are enough to polish the boredom and boredom caused by trivial daily life, and enough to make you not rely too much on family life and keep a small world of your own. Good-looking skins are the same, but hobbies are the background of your interesting soul, which makes you different and radiant. Have a good sleep. Why did you stay up late? Play mobile phone; Overtime; Get together with friends; Chat with your lover; In a bad mood ... how long has it been since you had a good sleep? I have read a sentence: to see how much a person loves himself and life depends on how he treats two things: one is eating and the other is sleeping. Sleeping, like eating, is the best respect for the body and life. You know, you have the courage to end a day before starting a new one. When you put down your mobile phone, read a pillow book for a while, and then sleep peacefully, it feels really happy. May you talk and laugh during the day and have a good sleep at night. Bi Shumin, who has a clear goal, wrote in an article: You may have lost all your property and all your relatives, but as long as your goal is still there and you have a complete system, you will not be lonely or desperate. When we go to school, we always set ourselves goals and how many points to get. When we go out to engage in social work, we should also set goals for ourselves, constantly compare our actions with our goals, and clearly know how far we are from our goals, so that we can go on more firmly. A life without an aim is like a muddled person. Don't set big goals, do what you can. We can start with small goals and guide our efforts step by step. 08. Try something crazy and natural. What are the five things you must do when you are 30? Chen Yihan's answers are: braiding, swimming naked, tattooing, jumping into the sea and kissing strangers. A bolder than a, a crazier than a.. Everything is a breakthrough, and everything is a new self. You're old if you're not crazy. 09. Take part in some volunteer activities. We accept the kindness of strangers every day. It's raining, and someone is holding an umbrella for you; You forgot your money when you took the bus, and someone threw you a coin. When you fall down while walking, someone will help you get up; Carrying a heavy suitcase, someone helps you walk ... There is a line in tennessee williams's famous drama A Streetcar Named Desire: "I always rely on the kindness of strangers." We volunteer and help others with our limited strength just to live up to the kindness and beauty we accept. As Hepburn left to the world: As you grow up, you will find that you have two hands, one for helping yourself and the other for helping others. 10, have a good talk about a love. "It's time to get married." "If there is no love now, just make do with it." "Marriage is a reality, and girls need to find a rich man." Cheating, cold war, breakup, divorce ... I have heard too many bad stories in love, so many people are full of distrust of love. Even if one day they meet someone who makes them excited, they dare not take that step, and then rush into the marriage hall because of age, money and other reasons. Why not be brave for yourself while you are young? Up to now, I like Xia Zixian's desperate courage for love, knowing that she will get hurt and she will pounce like a moth, no matter what the result is, at least once. For me, love is not a dish or a meal, nor is it a skin-to-skin relationship. It is a longing for eternal life and a heroic dream in ordinary life. If you meet someone you like, go for it boldly. If you like each other, work hard. If you are not careful, you may end up growing old together. If you are rejected, just pick up your mood and start over. No matter how it ends, at least there are no regrets, no regrets. What women should understand after they are 25 years old 2 1 Love is not important, what matters is love for yourself. Many people are urged to get married by their parents because of their age, and as a result, they feel that they can get along and get married hastily. After marriage, they found that this object was not very good and their life was not happy. But in fact, love is not important, and loving yourself is the most important thing. Even if you are not in love, as long as one person is happy, it is better than the bitter days of two people! There are also many people who are hurt by their feelings and want to save this relationship through self-harm, but themselves are the most important, and others may just be a passer-by in your life. Health is the most important thing. Have you ever stayed up late, worked overtime, or ate and drank? We all know it will harm our health, but why should we do it? You earn money by your body now, and you will support your body by money in the future, but is this really good? Life is capital. How can you live a good life without good health? So I hope everyone can take good care of themselves here. Although life is a bit bitter, you can't really make money hard. This is also the reason why people pay more and more attention to health preservation in this era. Parents should pay more attention to your hard work in the company, and your parents are old at home. How long has it been since you went home to see your parents? Your parents are getting old quickly. Maybe you will find yourself getting old soon. You can't spend less time with your family because you are busy with work. Parents need company, wives and husbands need company, and parents are old. I hope you can spend more time with your father and mother, who are getting old quickly. 4. Do a good job with your heart. When you grow up, many people still think this job is very casual, and you will change to a good job in the future. But if you have this idea, you can't find a better job. He who can't even do a small thing well can't do a big thing. Every job should be original. Only by doing a good job, you will definitely get a raise and promotion. 5. Learn how to manage money. When you get paid, you buy it in buy buy. By the end of the month, you can only eat dirt. Moonlight people also know the importance of saving money, but they are helpless and powerless. In fact, after experiencing the panic of the moonlight clan, it is not difficult to change their consumption habits, establish a reasonable savings plan and get rid of the "moonlight" dilemma. Therefore, we must learn to manage money. As long as you have savings, you will have the confidence to do more things.