So, I started idolizing again. There is nothing wrong with having idols. Idol represents an ideal state of dreams. Simply put, there is a learning goal. The object of my study now is Ms. Yu. Although this benchmark is a bit high, it is precisely because of this that it is more instructive. So, what can we learn from Ms Yu?
First of all, I will get dressed.
If you want people to feel textured, you must wear texture first. First, become a 3+2 fundamentalist believer of "black, white and gray" and "grass+cowboy orchid", study the color theory of the four seasons, and find out the most suitable color lightness as the main color of the wardrobe. You must not wear more than three colors, two colors are the safest, and the same color is ok, but it is best not to be black. Second, leopard print, throwing, lace, throwing, short exposure, throwing. Don't believe the so-called fashion lies, we mortals can't control it. Clothes must fit, and texture is as important as tailoring. You don't have to wear famous brands, but try to buy better ones within your power. Remember that a good dress is better than 10 Taobao explosion. Third, shoes and bags are not expensive, so we must take care of them. Do not wear more than 2 accessories, including sunglasses, bracelets, rings, earrings, scarves, etc. Refuse to be a Christmas tree with a bright whole body.
Second, stay healthy.
What can reveal a woman's age better than her face? Picture, picture, picture, and important events are said three times. For example, the hot Japanese drama Love of the Sage, if it is really not an intellectual female editor with a graceful figure like a girl, but an intellectual female editor with a broad figure and a fat figure, I believe that if she has any more scheming, she will definitely respect her as her own mother. This ethical drama is directly GAME OVER (it is said that online voting was conducted some time ago. Assuming that the China version of "Love of Sages" starts shooting, which stars can be selected as the leading role, as expected, Ms. Yu has the highest voice to play the real reason. And we mortals, even if we don't have thin waist and beautiful legs, don't be reduced to Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. People who are in good shape don't need to spend a lot of money and time, cook more by themselves, have less salt and oil, and the natural heat is not easy to exceed the standard; If you have no money or time to go to the gym, you can walk more. In short, don't make excuses for your laziness.
Third, refuse to be bored.
What is more terrible than ugliness is boredom. And how to be interesting? The first is curiosity. Only elderly people like to give people a qualitative view of things and always measure all social affairs with their own experience. Curiosity is to accept all possibilities with an open mind and keep the enthusiasm for exploring unknown answers.
Secondly, read more books. From Mr. Jiang Yang's golden sentence "Your problem lies in reading too much and thinking too much", you will understand how meaningful and correct this sentence is. And if "reading" doesn't become interesting, it means you haven't read enough, or you haven't read the right book.
Again, stop complaining. Bored middle-aged women had better identify, open their mouths to their children, keep their mouths shut to their mother-in-law, plus vicious speculation about all the good women around them. What is more frightening than boring middle-aged women is that a group of boring middle-aged women get together and their parents are short. If there is a problem, try to solve it. You really want to pour something out, and how do you learn to write it? From my own experience, writing is a better way to sort out my inner thoughts and emotions. After all, writing is much more cautious than speaking. When the relationship is not good, write down the annoying things and calm down unconsciously.
In short, it is terrible to be a vulgar aunt when you are old. Hope can also be refined, not getting old, but growing up in mature years.