When talking to people, there must always be a proper address. Some people don't think so. Just an address. Everything is code name. This indifferent attitude may lead him to become an indifferent person in the eyes of others. A seemingly small address may make you warm the hearts of others in an instant, or it may make your face elongate in an instant.
Although Yang Guang doesn't like talking in the office very much, he is very popular. Basically, every colleague praised him. One of the important reasons is that his name can make the girls in the office feel warm. In his mouth, Cui became "Dandan". Liu Ba became "Eiko". Boys also like him very much, because when Yang Guang calls them, he will also remove their surnames and call them by their first names. Such a simple detail has greatly improved everyone's goodwill towards him, and he himself is very enthusiastic. So he became the most attractive person in the office.
Newcomers, if colleagues are all young people of similar age, can adopt Yang Guang's method, give up their surnames and call them by their first names, just like family members. Of course, if colleagues are mature and steady, the safest way is to call them teachers. Although the names of Mr. Wang and Mr. Gao are not friendly enough, they at least convey an idea of mutual respect and hope to have the opportunity to learn from each other. It is best to use the title of "surname+position" when dealing with bosses who are higher in rank than themselves, such as Manager Wang and Manager Zhang. If the company you work for is a foreign company or a foreign company, it will be much easier. Just calling each other by English names is a bit unfamiliar and embarrassing. In short, the address in the workplace should be determined according to the corporate culture, so as to do as the Romans do.
On more formal occasions, women can be called Mrs. or Mrs., and men can be called brothers and gentlemen. The most traditional way of calling an unmarried lady miss is best not to use it, because this word is often associated with women who have lost their feet and been abandoned. The word beauty can also be used on some occasions, but because it means something frivolous, it is sometimes easy to make people feel glib. Most women, whether she is 16 or 60, have girlish complex. I hope I can be young and beautiful. Even if years take away my face, I hope I won't be seen by others. Therefore, you should address a lady in a smaller way. An unknown woman. If you are younger or similar in age or even slightly older than yourself. You can call your sister, girl; A lady who is obviously older than herself but not more than a teenager can be called elder sister or elder sister; There are already some elderly ladies, no matter how young we are, we should call her aunt, but if she looks much older than her mother, it is obviously inappropriate to call her aunt again. Wang Qian wants to buy a set of fitness equipment in the supermarket. It seems that she has been hesitating between the two brands. At this time, the shopping guide came over and asked, "Sister, do you need help?"
At first, Wang Qian didn't realize that the shopping guide was asking herself, because she was only 30 years old and still in the ladies' room, so the elder sister in the shopping guide's mouth must be someone else. Seeing that she didn't answer, the shopping guide came forward and said, "Elder sister, do you want me to introduce you to the performance of this machine?"
Wang Qian looked at the shopping guide in surprise, and then he found that there was really no one else around him. He immediately widened his eyes with anger and said angrily, "No, I'm still young and can't stand the name Big Sister. You'd better introduce this machine to a real big sister! " The name of the shopping guide ruined a business. So, if you don't want to offend a woman, you'd better ask her to be younger.
Be careful when addressing the person you want to associate with. Similarly, those who may have no intention or chance to associate with you should be careful when addressing them. No matter whether the other person is a waiter or a cleaner, you should be respectful when addressing. If a large table of people get together, in addition to the waiter's address, you can also call each other a little girl, a little brother and so on. This will not only make waiters more willing to provide services for us, but also leave a strong affinity for people around them.