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Sharing refers to sharing a house with others.
I recently saw a survey data.
This survey interviewed 1049 young readers, including post-80s, post-90s and post-90s.
Most people are cooperating or sharing.
The main reason why these respondents chose to share the rent is that sharing the rent is cheaper.
Therefore, the first-tier cities with higher housing prices have the largest number of renters.
Many people may have seen the American TV series Friends or the domestic ipartment.
In these plays, a group of people happily share a room.
The best friend is around, and the person you love the most lives opposite.
But in fact, in reality, more than half of people share a room with strangers.
When you share a room with a stranger, you actually feel more trouble than help each other.
And the schedule is different, so even if I live in a room, I have never really met.
I have a friend who stays in the bedroom at home because the time of going out is different from that of going home.
So he and his roommate often don't see each other for a month or two.
That's not bad, but it's even worse if there are contradictions between roommates.
In general,
Sharing is actually quite pit, far from being as beautiful as imagined.
Many people are forced to choose sharing just to save rent.
I came to Shenzhen for an internship in the summer vacation of my third year of college.
Because it was an internship and an informal job, the salary at that time was eight or nine thousand.
I came with a classmate, who is the goalkeeper of our football team.
At that time, in order to be closer to the company, I found a house near the company.
But because the company is located in Shekou, Shenzhen, which is an area with high housing prices,
We looked at the whole rental price,
Just want to live alone, you can rent a big single room or one room and one living room.
The rent will exceed 3500.
So, he and I chose to find a roommate,
Finally, I found a room on the free app.
That house is about 70-80 square meters, which has been decorated for free.
There are four bedrooms and a living room, a kitchen and a bathroom.
I rented a separate bedroom with him,
The bedroom is very simple, a bed, a table and a wardrobe are gone.
It looks like this:
The aisle is so narrow that you can't put the fitness yoga mat if you want to.
When you open the door, the chair must be under the table.
Otherwise it will block the way out.
For such a room of 8 or 9 square meters, our rent at that time was 2300 yuan a month.
Water, electricity and internet charges are calculated separately, adding up to about 200.
And it's a buy one get one free bet, that is, two months' rent will be paid as a deposit at the beginning.
So this is a small room, and the aisle must go sideways.
At first, they all paid nearly 7000 yuan, and then they spent about 2500 yuan a month.
Because the whole house has four bedrooms,
So besides me and my friends, there will be two strangers living in.
We have only lived in it for about two months, but it seems that several roommates have changed.
Roommates are male and female, but most of them have no contact.
My friends and I went out at 9 am and didn't go home until 1 1 in the evening.
When I got home, I stayed in my bedroom except going to the toilet.
Roommates seem to go out early and return late, and often don't see each other once a week or two.
There are many roommates, and my feeling is quite inconvenient.
Because there is only one toilet, there is always a queue.
And the bathroom and toilet are integrated, so the queue may be longer.
Sometimes at night 12, I want to go to the toilet before going to bed.
But there's a roommate using the bathroom,
One came out, the other went in again,
I probably won't be able to go back to sleep until around 1 am.
And it will be inconvenient for strange boys and girls to live together.
Although my friend is happy to have a female roommate,
But I feel that this inconvenience still affects my life.
Maybe it will be better if I am a boy. If I am a girl and live with a strange boy, I may feel more insecure.
I remember another time,
I heard two roommates quarreling at night.
My friends and I also went out to see what happened.
Interestingly,
I don't remember when there were four people in the living room except this quarrel.
The reason for their argument is that,
One person used another person's eggs,
Hurt,
So it is a property dispute.
Later, I graduated and came to Shenzhen, which is already a formal job.
My friend and I decided not to rent it, but I still live close to him.
Because I want to rent a single room, and I want to be cheaper.
It can only be solved by "distance".
We went to a village under the airport to choose a house.
It's a single room, small, but at least you can live alone.
Our daily commute time is about 130 minutes.
The total cost of renting a house every month is about 1800.
Because the room is really small,
So at that time, I would go to the company on weekends and feel more spacious.
Looking back at these rental experiences now, I feel that there are really many pits.
Young people who have just arrived in big cities,
It tends to get tangled up,
Live with others or alone?
How to balance working hours, room size and so on?
I want to give some advice, but I find I can't.
After all, everyone is different,
If you live near the company, you may have to share it.
If you live far away, it may be very painful to squeeze the subway to work.
So, this really can only be weighed by yourself.
If you've been through this,
I can only say that there is no way, most people will experience it.
In fact, in the final analysis, the root of these problems,
Or because of the money,
So don't think too much at this stage and make money.
Dissatisfaction with the status quo is often a good motivation.
Let's go
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