Under the comments, some people commented on how demanding the "older leftover women" are, how picky they are about men, and some "leftover women" laughed at their forced marriage at home. There are also many netizens laughing and joking below.
After watching a circle, a male netizen's words were very touching.
He replied, "It's not that men don't want to marry older women. The woman who most makes men afraid to provoke is an older girl! "
As a former member of the blind date brigade, he said that no one does not like elegant and mature "older women". What I am most afraid of is a woman who is over the age, but her mind is still in her teens and early twenties, full of "girlish hearts".
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"Older girls" do not have the wisdom and intellectuality equivalent to their age, but only the "girlish heart" that stirs people's hearts.
There is a male colleague in the company, who is nearly thirty years old and is urged by his family to go on a blind date every day.
Once, his mother introduced a colleague's daughter, who was two years older than him, but her family conditions were good, so she went for good advice.
I had a good impression at the first meeting and decided to be together. But after more than two months, at one o'clock in the middle of the night, a male colleague sent a message in a circle of friends, saying that he broke up.
The next day, we asked him what had happened, and he explained to us with a bad face: although she is thirty years old, her thoughts and behaviors are childish, and he really can't stand it.
She asked her colleagues to go to the gym, but they were all sweating. As soon as she turned around, she took a selfie in the mirror and looked at her circle of friends. The photo after beauty is accompanied by the words: the little fairy comes out to exercise (love).
They go out on dates, go to the movies, buy things for dinner, and their male colleagues pay the bill. At the end of the festival, male colleagues presented a lot of red envelopes and gifts and asked if they were ready. She replied: Where can a girl buy a gift for a boy? Isn't it right to give gifts to fairies?
I finally decided to break up because he worked overtime until nine o'clock yesterday and was called out by an emergency phone as soon as he got home, but he accompanied her to the mountains in the suburbs to see the stars. Of course, he paid for the car.
The male colleague said that he had lived for decades and knew for the first time that falling in love could be so tiring. He can't afford to keep such a "little fairy".
It can be said that many older women are not terrible. What is terrible is "older girls". With the growth of age, there are only crow's feet in the corner of my eyes, and my life experience and knowledge in my mind have not increased.
Many "older girls" have the same way of doing things and thinking logic as college students who have just left society, and they are young or naive, thinking that they will meet the only thrill one day.
But really mature and successful men are not very interested in this kind of woman full of unrealistic fantasies.
Just like a male colleague finally said to us:
"I'm looking for a leftover woman with a girl's heart. Why not just find a girl in her early twenties? "
02.
Women are mature, experienced and elegant according to their age, and there is no trouble of not being loved.
A sister I know in my hometown is a wise and elegant woman.
Shortly after graduating from college, she was betrayed by her boyfriend of three years. She broke up in sorrow and turned to her career. She has no mind to think about men and women. As soon as she turned her head, she missed the best age for marriage.
Now that she has a successful career and a house of her own, she is ready to continue to study and improve herself.
She was in no hurry, but her family was a little worried about her and arranged several blind dates for her. In order to reassure her family, she went to the appointment with the mentality of meeting friends. I didn't expect to meet the right person after two blind dates.
That man is two years older than her. He works in the IT industry. He not only has a high degree, but also has a high salary. After meeting several times, he found that he could chat with her and try to be together.
After they got together, they were amazingly in tune. Both of them like watching documentaries, raising flowers and keeping pets.
Now they have been married for almost a year and have a Corky. Last time we met, my sister told me with a happy face that she was ready to start getting pregnant and having children.
A woman of about 30 years old should have the experience she should have at this age, and she can have the corresponding elegance and intellectuality between her gestures. Such a woman has charm that girls don't have, and there are also many unloved people.
Older women are not terrible. In fact, there are many excellent women with planning and wisdom in this group. They are not only successful in their work, but also good wives who are suitable for staying at home if they get married.
As long as you have the strength to match your age, why worry about meeting inappropriate people?
What I am most afraid of is that I am old, wrinkled and demanding, and my ability is not yet in place.
03.
There is such a ridicule on the Internet to describe older women:
"College students are Zhao Min, undergraduates are Huang Rong, master students are Li Mochou, doctoral students are extinct teachers, and doctors are even more terrible, Dong Fangbubai!"
It is not difficult to see from here that the concept that women are virtuous and have no talent is deeply rooted in many people's hearts.
But times have changed. How a woman lives and how she gets happiness depends on herself.
The happiness you want depends on how you strive for it. If you want to meet excellent people, you must work hard on your own strength and make yourself an excellent and intelligent woman.
The world is so big that everyone will meet the right person. Happiness may be late, but never absent.
Make yourself shiny before you meet that shiny person.