When she was training under the guidance of personal fitness education, a passing mother used it as a negative textbook to educate her daughter-a girl who wants personal fitness education is a bitch.
The girl's spit attracted more malicious comments.
Some people who claim to stand at the highest moral point scold the coach's dark psychology to the students' inferiority and inferiority, and earn a lot of scolding.
Actor Sun Li unfortunately put down his gun.
As we all know, Sun Li is a fitness enthusiast, and she was once keen on taking such photos.
She did not escape some people's malicious speculation and humiliation by taking a positive photo.
In human history, language often plays a more intense role than any heavy weapon.
Sun Li never took similar photos again.
A star like Sun Li, who insisted on fitness after childbirth and recovered her glamorous image early, was attacked by public opinion because of her fitness methods.
So, can a star who is content with the image of an ordinary mother tolerate it?
Zhang Xinyi, who was still nursing, visited her husband and was photographed eating in a small restaurant.
I saw her wrapped in a robe-style dress, her legs crossed and she sat casually.
When I got up, I could still see at a glance through the baggy skirt: she had not had time to get rid of the fat after childbirth.
This is the homely image of the most familiar novice mother in the streets, with a kind of warmth of human fireworks.
However, there are also many bad comments: she dresses untidily, pays no attention to her image, and even uses "loose waist and hip breadth" to evaluate her figure, and her words are extremely unfriendly.
Zhang Xinyi, who has always been outspoken, bravely spoke for himself:
"My body has not fully recovered, because I have been breastfeeding and didn't sleep all night. There is no way to lose weight by dieting. I just want to be a quiet mother. Is it so important to be out of shape? "
Coincidentally, there is also a famous novice mother in the west, who has also been ridiculed by her peers in Zhang Xinyi.
July 10 is the Royal Charity Polo Day, and Prince William and Prince Harry meet to play polo on this day. Their wives and children all appeared as spectators at the game.
Next to Princess Kate, who is slim, wearing a pink skirt and taking care of her baby, the novice mother Megan looks more casual and strange.
Megan's photo was quickly spread to foreign social networks, and the comment area was filled in an instant.
Someone attacked Megan for not holding a baby, and made a very serious appeal: "Please teach her how to hold a baby."
Someone gave her a bad review that day. "Is she wearing a tent?" "Did she pack a potato bag?"
Megan has been criticized for her every move since she married in England. From addressing her nieces and nephews to decorating her house, from dressing up to talking and behaving ... she has been living under an infinitely magnified lens.
These endless harsh criticisms, even some of her American compatriots can't stand it anymore, shouting at her: "If Britain doesn't welcome you so much, come back to the United States!"
Megan, an aggressive American actor in the past, may have deeply realized the meaning of the word "awesome" under the pressure of such public opinion.
Megan, who has always been very picky about clothes, shows off with a loose nightgown, which is not necessarily like Kate, her sister-in-law.
Yes, Kate, a native of Britain, has been criticized by everyone.
From three days after the birth of the first child to just a few hours after the birth of the third child, it appeared in front of the world at an amazing speed. More importantly, Kate's first appearance after childbirth was perfect, with a relaxed and comfortable trademark smile on her face and even her hair was not messy.
It's hard to imagine how she did it.
As a result, celebrities, such as the famous actor Natalie Portman, began to attack openly.
Natalie lashed out at Kate in a speech, saying that her anti-human behavior made women all over the world feel great pressure. I believe that with the careful help of the professional image team, she has covered up all the hardships faced by women after childbirth.
Jane Garvey, a famous British host, launched a massive online activity to take real postpartum photos, and the interviewees gathered.
Kate at that time was like being roasted on charcoal fire, and she became the target of public criticism for a time.
Sister-in-law Megan kept her sister-in-law's experience in mind, thinking that she was doing the opposite, and showing her mother's true appearance after childbirth would not cause bad comments from public opinion, so she had this "simple sack photo".
Unexpectedly, she was mercilessly ridiculed.
And everyone is innocent, and their tongues are sharper than knives, but they don't know it.
Postpartum obesity is wrong, and fitness is also wrong; Charm is hidden, and being true and strange is a sin.
Since when does society demand so much from mothers?
In the past, women were as soft as silk and as beautiful as crystal at the request of men.
Today's women, under the requirements of society, still have to be as soft as silk, but as hard as metal; I still hope to be as crystal clear as crystal, but not as fragile as glass. Women can't be weak, but are they really strong?
This is a question that has been in my heart for a long time.
Times have changed. Today, when women have more freedom and power, they will certainly bear more.
However, no matter in any era, there is a group that cannot and should not be desecrated. This group of people is mom.
I know that breast-feeding is higher than death, therefore, breast-feeding women cannot be sentenced to death. The law is also lenient, in the face of children's hunger.
I also know that it is harder to live than to die.
Want to stay at home for a year? No, it means being laid off, unemployed, losing powder, and losing money to give children milk powder bags.
Breast milk and heart are both chest pains.
I dare not say how harsh life is.
And people are mammals, both men and women.
What comes to mind silently is an irrelevant old poem: I advise you not to shoot birds in the third spring, and your son will wait in the nest for his mother to return.
The bright jubilation in the mother's eyes and the kindness and gentleness in her voice will be the warmest memories in the child's life and the beginning of all peace and love.
Those unbearable pressures at that time, after more than ten years or even longer, are just a memory behind the years.
Moreover, there is always so much warmth and kindness in the world. We should know that every mother is an angel who landed on the earth and deserves our careful protection.
Just like Zhang Xinyi returned to work after being ridiculed by everyone, when she passed the security check at the airport, the beautiful security check lady smiled and told her, "I don't think you are fat at all."
Mothers, please be tolerant and happy in this demanding world. The malice imposed on you will eventually be compensated by its gentleness.