After writing the mind map of life goals, Xiao Ming began to be confused. The goal is to finish it, but what should I do? I want to think about it, but I still have no direction. Finally decided to consult the masters tomorrow! ? On Monday, I called Master Xiaomi early in the morning. ? Xiao Ming: "Hello, Master, good morning. I'm Xiaoming. I want to use the mind map you taught me to make my own goals in life, but I don't know what to do after drawing. Can you help me analyze it? " Xiaomi: "Hello, Xiao Ming, I'm glad to see you start to learn and use it flexibly, but mind mapping is just a tool after all, and it's not so easy to find your life goals." ?
Xiao Ming: "Yes, Master, my life goals are divided into three directions: work, life and study. I don't know what to do from these three directions. Xiaomi: "There is no problem with your direction, but the goal is the goal and the direction is the direction. You still have to think clearly about the specific goals. Tell you what, I'll stay with Mr. Pease, and you can have lunch with us. Let's talk about life goals and find a topic. " ? Xiao Ming: "Thank you, teacher. Where shall we eat at noon? " ? Micro-products Fair opposite Xiaomi Company, 1 1, see you at the gate. " ? Xiao Ming: "OK, thank you, teacher. See you at noon. " ?
On Monday morning, the work was extremely busy. Ming Ming finished the last job before leaving work last Friday. Why are there so many things on Monday? Xiao Ming is also very confused about this. ? In order to meet the teacher at noon, Xiaoming was full of chicken blood today, and the efficiency was super high all morning. It's only 10:30, and there's still half an hour left. I'm going to start walking to the Wei pin hui. Don't be late for your appointment with the teacher. ? Xiao Ming/Kloc-0: 0: 40 arrived at the Wei Pin Hui, and there are still 20 minutes to make an appointment with the teacher. Xiao Ming set a position and sent it to the teacher and waited. In the process of waiting, I also began to think about how to set goals, and Baidu also decided. ? 10:55, Xiaoming saw teacher Heping coming in with teacher Xiaomi, and Xiaoming called the teacher to sit down. ? Peace: "Xiao Ming, Xiaomi told me that you set yourself a goal in life with your mind map. Can you show it to me? " ?
Xiao Ming: Sure, please have a look?
Work: appreciation and salary increase to improve workplace competitiveness?
Life: get married and have children?
Study: study hard?
Teacher Heping frowned a little: Xiao Ming, I wish you could start thinking about your goals. Your life goals will change with your personal experience. What you wrote is not a goal in life, but a short-term goal at best. ? In terms of short-term goals, the idea is good, but it is not operable. The goal must conform to the SMART principle before it can be achieved. ?
Remarks: (SMART is the abbreviation of five words: concrete, concrete, measurable, achievable, relevant, time limit? Reach the specified time)?
Xiaoming: Thank you, teacher. I will modify it according to the SMART principle. ? Peace: Xiao Ming, I just want to teach you a new skill today, which may help you set your goals.
Xiao Ming: Teacher, what skills are they? ?
Xiaomi: Xiaoming, wait until you finish eating. ? Xiaoming: Sorry, Mr. Xiaomi, it's my fault. Let's eat first, then finish eating. ? After lunch, it was already 12 o'clock. Xiaomi's phone rang and he left in a hurry. ? Heping suggested going to a nearby cafe with Xiaoming to teach Xiaoming new skills. Xiaoming calmly ordered a cup of coffee and started a new conversation. ?
"Xiao Ming, we have a classic secret book in the sutra depository. I wonder if you saw it last time. Today, I'm going to teach you this secret book-from the end. " ?
"Teacher, what is beginning and end?" ?
"From the finish line, no matter what you do, you must think clearly about your goals and processes before you start to act."
"Why does it have to be like this?" ?
"Have you ever made an important speech, such as a year-end assessment or a blind date? Or a business negotiation with a partner, a game? Before these activities, did you paint such a scene in your mind in advance during the preparation process? " ?
"If so, you must have made full preparations, because you followed the principle of beginning to end. If not, it only means that you don't pay attention to it and are not fully prepared. At the most important moment, you are at a loss, full of mistakes, or something unexpected always interrupts your rhythm. This is the result of not making it clear, the goal and the process. " ?
"In a big way, the saddest thing in a person's life is to go to the end of his life and find that what he is chasing in this life is not what he wants to fly. If you hit the road without seeing the target in advance, you will never know where to go. Go with the flow and waste your life. When I die, I find my life is in vain?
"Everything we do is conceived in my mind and then put into practice. Beginning and ending are the first creation in the brain. Besides helping us to define our goals, this kind of creation has two other functions?
"The first is the law of attraction. People's attention can only be focused on one thing at a time. From the end, it is to focus your attention and start looking for the goal you created. And the information related to it seems to have increased. " ?
Teacher, what about the second one?
"The second is to eliminate interference. There are too many temptations in this world. If you don't want to know where the destination is, you won't have a firm direction in your heart. People say you should turn left, there is wine on the left, or if you see a beautiful woman on the right, you will start to turn. You will always remember where you are going. " ?
"Teacher, I understand that it is too important to start from the end. Everything I do in the future is done with the skill of "starting from scratch"
"Xiao Ming, you are making your own goals in life. I think you can try to extend your life to the end with what you learned today. Imagine if tomorrow is your funeral, what do you want your friends and family to say to you at the funeral? How to evaluate you? What achievements and contributions do you want them to recall? You can think quietly and then spend five minutes writing down everything you can think of. Be sure to have your goal in life. "
"By the way, in addition, the power of idols is very powerful. He inspires us, influences us and changes us. His today may be our tomorrow. It is also effective in setting goals in life. You can think about who your idol is. What excellent qualities are there in him that are worth learning? After thinking it over, find his head and print it out, and post it where you see it every day, so that his eyes can inspire you to make a little progress every day. If you don't have an idol, then choose an excellent person as your idol according to the result of your thinking and look up to him every day. "
"Well, thank you, teacher. I'll do as you say at once! " ?
Xiao Ming, come on?
"Well, thank you, Mr. Peace. Then I'll go back and write my life goals. Goodbye, "Xiao Ming went straight back to thinking about his life goals after buying the bill.