First, what are the routines for couples to enhance their feelings? 1. If two people are in a long-distance relationship, and then one of them is busy at work, you can write a love letter to express your love to the other party. If you get off work late, it is recommended not to disturb each other's rest. You can send it to each other the next morning, and then you will be happy when you see the love letter written early in the morning. 2, be sure to remember each other's birthdays, choose gifts for each other before the birthday, whether it is a long-distance relationship or not, accompany each other on their birthdays, and then give the gifts prepared in advance to each other. I believe it will be full of emotions and enhance the feelings between the two. 3. Couples sometimes don't need too many sweet words, just care and companionship for each other, so when they are free, they can sit together and talk about life and work, communicate and solve problems together, and also warm up their feelings. The above methods are related to the routine for couples to enhance their feelings introduced by Bian Xiao, and these methods can be used together. Second, how do couples spend the cold period 1? If couples are in the cold period, don't worry and don't think about it. I suggest you calm down, do exercise or go shopping with your good friends. It is normal to have a cold period. After all, everyone is an independent individual, and it is normal to think differently. Don't run away at this time. You should choose to face it. If you have time, I suggest that two people sit down and have a good communication and solve the problem. Of course, when communicating with each other, don't lecture each other with a strong attitude, but be gentle. Be careful not to use cold violence in cold season. This method can't completely solve the problem. If it is a cold season, you can do something to relive your feelings, such as going out for a trip. Couples enhance their feelings. 2. The first small danger stimulates the heartbeat. When people engage in some intense or risky activities, their physical and mental reactions are very similar to those when they are in love. In addition to playing roller coasters and watching thrillers, Epstein also taught everyone a little game in which two people alternately leaned back and the other caught behind them. The second one is getting closer. Being close to water helps to build a good impression between people. If two people consciously approach each other and deliberately let each other into their personal space, they will soon become close. In practice, two people stand about 1 m apart, and then get closer every 10 second until they are about to meet. The third kind imitates each other. People are more likely to become lovers with people with similar intelligence level, background and personal charm, and sometimes just imitating each other can enhance their feelings. Practice method Two people stand or sit close together and move their hands and feet at will, but at the same time imitate each other's movements, so that both of them feel free and consistent. Fourth, prepare some jokes. In a lasting and happy relationship, lovers can always make each other laugh. Other studies show that women are more likely to fall in love with men who can make them laugh. The fifth is to do things that have not been done together. People's memories are classified and stored. If you are the first person to think of each other's memories, then you have truly achieved that I have you and you have me. Sixth, relax the psychological defense. Relaxing vigilance is helpful to the cultivation of feelings, but it is not a good idea to paralyze the nerves with alcohol. You can gently hug each other, try to feel each other's breathing, and gradually synchronize your breathing with it. After a few minutes, the two will feel integrated. Seventh, accommodate each other appropriately. Making some good changes for each other, such as quitting smoking and drinking, will make your status soar. The eighth kind is often touched. Simple touching can make people feel warm and comfortable, and stroking each other's back is amazing, especially for women. Ninth, share secrets. Write down what you are thinking on paper, and then use a few minutes to convey your thoughts to the other party through ways other than language, so that the other party can guess. The tenth is wholehearted. Half-hearted people often doubt their partner's behavior and lack trust. In the long run, it will cause fatal damage to the relationship between the two sides. When two people start to fall in love, they really know each other. They constantly enhance their feelings and let each other know the real you, so as to achieve empathy and become each other's soul mates. Therefore, communication and emotional exchange after love is more important than the rhetoric when chasing girls, because you can't lie and coax girls at this time.