If I were a wife, I wouldn't spend this leisure time playing cheating games with him. Now that the man's infidelity has been discovered, there is no point in continuing this marriage. He is unhappy, and neither is that woman. Having children is even worse, and the marital status of separation between the two places is extremely unfavorable to the growth of children. Because I grew up in a broken family environment, I can personally understand how much the emotional discord between my parents hurts my children.
Therefore, in the case of the man's infidelity, the woman should take the time to collect the evidence of the man's infidelity to the family, instead of feeling sorry for herself and retaliating against the man. You might as well try to find some other documents that are legally beneficial to you. If not, create opportunities according to how much damage the other party has caused you.
At this time, it is the most foolish for a woman to find a man and a woman to satisfy her momentary desire for revenge. It is not good for fighting for child custody and marital property in the future.
Besides, cheating in marriage is disgusting. The other person is very disgusted with you. You can't turn yourself into a person like him and then go back sick. You may feel happy for a short time, but you will regret it after a long time. Because people who hate it from the bottom of their hearts are unwilling to go along with it. And this, whether it is a man or a woman who cheated, applies to the one who stayed.
What's more, you should consider your own personal safety anyway. A man who cheated on him, he didn't love his wife, and at this time she gave him a green hat. People are dual goals, and it is difficult to guarantee that they will not become angry from embarrassment. An irrational person can do anything. Life is too short to risk your life for one or two scum. Why don't you hire a good lawyer and share more property, and take care of the children or live by yourself in the future?