Answer directly, I can accept the title of "middle age".
First, China has an optimistic "middle-aged man" like me, which proves that the country is thriving. It sounds like "middle age" is a heavy word, with old and young, work and family, and great pressure. It should be a gray life.
But my daily life is full of vitality, not only me, but also most of my peers around me are full of hope for life. Although I am getting old, I never feel old. It can be said that the age of middle-aged people and the vitality of teenagers.
Second, I'm just in time. Compared with college, I am more satisfied with myself at this stage: I have a clearer understanding of the world, a clearer positioning of myself, the ability to protect my family and the ability to help my friends.
I am grown up, strong and mature. I can understand the world but I can't understand it. I can stick to my own principles appropriately for people and things, and everything is running in an orderly way. Don't be crushed by life, and strive to realize your dreams. This is the best appearance of "middle-aged people".
Third, life is still long, so there is no need to be sentimental. Seeing the comments of some netizens, I found that although everyone was a little depressed, their mentality was still good. It can be seen that everyone is still very rational: the growth of age is a natural law. If you can follow the law and accumulate your own advantages step by step, you are worthy of your age.
The next life is still so long. It is better to welcome the future than to cherish the past. To borrow a netizen's words: @ Bian Yidao: A generation has a generation's mission, and a generation also has a generation's destiny. As romain rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth."
Bless all post-80s!