First: Master of Psychology never understands human nature. Psychology is a discipline that studies the psychological state of all human behavior activities, and it describes psychology. Although it is to discuss the problem at the level of human nature, it is not to study human nature. This must be distinguished. People's psychological model is different from human nature model. There are only two points in human nature, that is, Laozi's "nature is good at the beginning of life" and Xunzi's "inherent vice at the beginning of life". These two views of human nature belong to the category of Confucianism in Chinese studies, not psychology.
Second: I think what you are asking is the concept of human heart. People's psychological activities have certain rules to follow in a large and representative category, which makes it unnecessary for us to explore what kind of state people's psychology is, and we can get similar answers by direct classification. Take chestnut as an example. With regard to the classification of information processing between the left brain and the right brain of human beings, the conclusion drawn through the brain division experiment is that the left brain of human beings has the ability of logical thinking and the right brain has the ability of emotional thinking. After feature extraction of people with developed left and right brains, such as our left-handed habits, experimental research shows that people with developed left brains are right-handed, while people with developed right brains are left-handed, so we usually know that people who see left-handed people have delicate emotions and better perceptual processing ability than ordinary people. These are the conclusions and arguments from the experiment, which can be used directly.
Third: there are special circumstances that require social experience. For example, some people are acquired right-handed, but in fact the right brain is developed. At this time, it is difficult for us to explain it with the knowledge in books, nor can we say that there are mistakes in books. Then we can only consider what kind of personality characteristics this person has from his various behavior habits, which requires us to have enough social experience. It is said that reading thousands of books is better than reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is better than reading countless people. Through theoretical study and acquired practice, it is the reason why psychologists understand people's hearts.
Fourth: don't put psychological myths. Because we all have our own privacy, we all like to keep secrets in our minds. As soon as we listen to psychology, we are so tall. Even if you have friends who study psychology, don't be afraid, because they may not reach the level of psychologists at all, so even guessing may fool people. In fact, psychology does not teach you to see through people's hearts, but expounds the laws of people's psychological activities.
I hope my answer can help you, thank you.
Thank you for inviting me. The following is my humble opinion.
First of all, there is a systematic theoretical knowledge as the basis. Theoretical knowledge is the experience summarized by predecessors through practice. No foundation, just like a blank sheet of paper, is impossible to talk about.
Second, practice a lot. By observing people's clothes, facial expressions, behaviors, language expressions, etc. Combined with the theoretical knowledge learned, we can judge their personality characteristics and real thoughts.
For example:
There is such a plot in the American drama "Don't Lie to me", knowing lies.
Expert Gillian is in charge of investigating a congressman. When Gillian asked the senator, "How did you spend last Friday night?" In order to cover up the fact that he frequented the club, the congressman began to fabricate the so-called "alibi". He said, "I went to the gym in Congress to swim, and then I went home to read the documents. After dinner, I took part in a social activity. " The congressman's statement is very calm and natural, and there seems to be no flaw. However, Gillian asked him to describe it backwards again, starting with the last thing he did. The congressman immediately showed anxiety and panic, and he began to talk incoherently, which was completely inconsistent with the situation described before.
This is because it is difficult for a person to describe a lie in reverse order, because the situation he made up earlier is not a real memory. Although the liar will prepare his answers in advance, he hardly wants to prepare them again in reverse order, so he will appear panicked and expose himself immediately.
This is the application of psychology in practice.
In short, the master also comes from ordinary people, and the systematic theory and a lot of practice have been integrated over time.
I am not a psychology major, and the following is just my humble opinion.
It seems to be known from TV that psychologists are endowed with a mysterious ability to understand people's hearts, which is often used in criminal investigations and crimes. For example, Darkness, Stuffing Beauty and Mind-reading Detective.
The basic routine is that psychologists guess each other's psychological activities and emotions at the moment through their actions, tone and even micro-expressions, and then find out the real murderer and solve the case perfectly.
However, in real life. The so-called psychological master is a professional state of psychological counselor or psychologist. They don't have the ability to read each other's minds at a glance, and they don't have the legendary story of solving crimes easily through some guessed crime profiles.
They are just ordinary people who work as hard as we do. Various scales are commonly used in work, and what needs to be improved most is the ability of language communication and expression of desire.
All their judgments come from objective scale result data and the real expression of the other party. Psychologists' theory of seeing through people's hearts is a misunderstanding brought by exaggerated visual art and a deification of psychology.
First of all, understanding human nature is not the patent of psychologists, and many experts can understand human nature.
If we only talk about psychologists, generally speaking, understanding human nature will go through the following levels:
1. Professional knowledge and technology of applied psychology. For example: subconscious, resistance, dreams, empathy, micro-expression, consultation and so on in psychoanalysis. Insight from the perspective of psychological laws.
2. Psychologists' own strong intuition can gain insight into each other's subtle psychological changes.
3. Rich life experience helps psychologists to understand human nature more deeply, and empathy will also play a role. Human nature has many advantages and disadvantages.
General psychology studies the psychological activities of normal people; Social psychology studies the psychological activities of normal people in social relations; Developmental psychology studies the psychological activities of normal people at various stages of development; Abnormal psychology studies the psychological activities of abnormal people. These are the rules to be followed. Counseling skills and psychological diagnosis are the summaries of the laws of psychological activities by several generations of psychologists, and the counseling skills of various orientations are the crystallization of psychologists all over the world in the past 100 years. The so-called insight into people's hearts is not that the psychological counselor is powerful, but that every visitor's thinking mode and behavior process will leave traces, and the psychological counselor just follows the traces to see the essence behind his words and deeds.
First, I am not a master;
Second, I am not a psychology major;
But I have been teaching myself psychology-related courses recently, because I find it a very interesting process to apply what I have learned.
First of all, through learning, I know that psychology studies behavior and the thinking mode behind it, thus producing emotion and reaching the level of relationship. Namely: behavior-thinking-emotion-relationship.
Then, you will sum up your experience through a lot of studies and cases, and let you infer his thinking mode through his reaction to an event. According to his thinking mode, it is inferred that his emotional response to this thinking mode is what time he has experienced and what kind of influence it will have on his various relationships.
In fact, many times the counselor will not give you specific advice. His main content is listening, and then guiding you to face up to your heart by asking questions.
Masters also need a lot of learning and experience accumulation. In many cases, there is no right or wrong knowledge, but the difference is caused by the different scope of use. It is the truth that "it is better to believe in books than to have no books".
Summarized a lot of planning and practical experience. Observe and think about the logic and essence behind personal behavior and social phenomena.
Learn the most basic knowledge of sociology and psychology accurately.
Judge the behavior of society and individuals, so as to understand the essence behind it more deeply.
Make corresponding actions according to people's preferences and tendencies, such as speaking, moving, and eyes, observe people's reactions, make judgments, and match the knowledge that should be done.
To put it simply, I have psychological knowledge and analyze people's reactions through a series of behavioral tests. Make a judgment and then give feedback.
Usually we will understand the subconscious part of people in the following ways:
First, I have gained a lot of consulting experience. People's subconscious is also traceable. Unconscious actions and language both contain some information. The technical predecessor of NLP is to find out the reproduced language pattern through the consulting mode of the master and develop a set of reproducible consulting technology.
Secondly, make a logical analysis. In consultation, we tend to block the judgmental language spoken by the speaker and pay more attention to what happened. Facts and judgments are often quite different. Starting from facts and phenomena, it is more valuable to understand a person by paying attention to what the other person is doing rather than what the other person is thinking.
Third, the acquisition of intuitive feelings. Communication between people is not limited to language. Humans can communicate without words. Therefore, intuitive feeling is also a way of information exchange. It's just that we need to do some restorative training, so that we can judge whether it's what we think or what our bodies feel intuitively.
Thank you for asking!
First of all, children are not fish. Do you know the happiness of fish? I am not a master, and I dare not talk nonsense for him!
Secondly, according to my clinical experience of nearly 30 years and my experience of training Eriksson in hypnosis for 10 years, sometimes it is not necessarily the "master" who knows people's hearts, but the title of "master" that hypnotizes visitors who are susceptible to suggestion. Perhaps this is also the interesting place of psychology. what do you think?
Once again, the so-called: you who don't want to be masters are not good questioners. You can think that the master is not pointing out ordinary people!
I wish you love thinking: I think so I am! Always think about being new!