But in addition to the office and car, many men often find various reasons and excuses to ask for leave with their families after work, and then invite friends to this kind of entertainment, not out of occupation or interest, but simply to find like-minded friends to drown their sorrows. Although some of us will think this way is decadent and negative, for these men, they are in their careers and in their lives. Many times, these pressures borne by families cannot be told to family members and colleagues. These pressures can only be digested and decomposed by themselves, but they cannot be effectively released. At this time, they choose to drink with friends to drown their sorrows, which is a rare relaxation and will really make their mood empty. Perhaps this is also a rare happy time for these adult men.