Let's talk about this topic:
To like someone is to have a good impression on this person. For example, I like my parents, which can be understood as like their personality, like the way they get along, appreciate, admire and admire. I like my male colleagues. This is what you feel in your heart. You don't hate him at heart. You want to see him, talk to him.
From the perspective of love, if you compare love with love, you can like it unilaterally, as long as you like it. You may not know I exist, or you may not like me. But if you love each other, you must love each other to be together for a long time. This is the difference between liking and loving.
Speaking of liking this topic, let's talk about an emotional experience of mine:
After I joined the work, I was very busy in the first year of work and had no time to fall in love. Then, my parents asked my aunt to pay attention and introduce me to someone. In fact, I hate blind date, because in my bones, I always think that the first side of blind date is very important, that is, eye contact. If there is no eye contact, there is really no interest in continuing.
One day, my mother told me that my aunt found me a man she thought she liked very much. He is tall in Shuai Shuai and has a good job. Seeing him for the first time, there is no way to refuse.
To tell the truth, maybe my aunt is exaggerating. When I first met him, it was not as good as my aunt said, so I was not very active in chatting.
However, chatting, his communication skills are really great. I was not very active at first, but the atmosphere of chatting under his leadership was very pleasant. At this time, I also have a feeling of liking in my heart ... why did I like it when chatting? As I said before, liking is a kind of feeling, which is gradually produced in the process of communication. Perhaps an action, a word, the ability to do things, or a look, an expression of the other person can touch a point you like, thus generating love.
Therefore, loving someone must be based on liking. Without love, there is no love. And liking someone is at a certain point, and you gradually feel it. If you have a good impression, you can continue. Are you clear?