When chatting with girls and others, I believe everyone will encounter a problem, that is, there is no topic to talk about, which makes the atmosphere between them awkward, especially when talking about something special. The following is the topic of chatting with girls.

Chatting with girls 1 First of all, pay attention to the relationship when chatting.

If you drive and chat with a girl you just met, or the other person is not interested in you, you will only be considered a hooligan.

For example, a friend introduced you to a girl, and you've only known her for one day, so you asked people on WeChat, "What size boys do you like ..."

"Rogue."

Girls are disgusted that men they don't like come to chat with her and say something ambiguous and obscene.

Only when you and a girl meet the following conditions can you compete in a chat:

1, girls are interested in you (this must be);

2. When girls reply to you, they are very enthusiastic. They don't take every sentence seriously, or they only reply to you for half a day.

3. Girls have exposed privacy to you, such as height, weight and age, especially their love history.

Of course, even if girls meet these conditions, you can't drive fast and ask people directly, "How many ex-boyfriends have you had?" "How many poses have you unlocked?"

Second, chat should go from shallow to deep, and guide slowly.

Therefore, before, we can start with some common topics, grasp the direction of the topic by ourselves, pave the way step by step, and finally lead the topic to our ultimate goal.

For example:

We know that this girl is working out recently, which can be said from the topic of fitness.

For example, what fitness methods are better for body shaping, and how to eat and drink to keep the fitness effect.

When the girl's emotions are mentioned by you, you can prepare to test her acceptance!

In fact, at this time, no matter how she answers, whether there are muscular men like clouds or only some people have muscles, we can all say that she has a vision.

For example, "Gee, few students have muscles, but all coaches have muscles."

"That's not bad. Finally, there is something to feast your eyes on. Let me ask you a question. "

"What's the problem?"

"Have you tried to pinch the coach's muscles?" At the beginning of the exam, how the girl answers is the key, and her answer determines the balance in her heart. )

If a girl says, "I dare not." "How did this happen?" She is more inclined to resist dirty topics and then change the subject and go no further.

If it is very bold, for example, "Haha, there is a thief's heart but no thief's courage." "I tried. It's not funny at all." If this is the answer, it doesn't matter.

Some brothers may want to ask, if the girl says, "It's all a compost house, I don't see any muscles." What if she doesn't play by the rules?

It's simple: "It seems that the coaches there are not as good as me. Let me show you my fitness results. " Use this as an excuse to show off your muscles and the problem will be solved.

From this example, we can see how important the ability to guide the topic is! With this ability, girls can follow your rhythm step by step. Be good at controlling the direction of the topic, even if the girls don't follow the routine, we can still break the topic back to our intended purpose.

If you want to talk to your sister better, this ability is essential for your brothers.

In addition, humorous men will also take a big advantage. If you know humor, it will be more natural and interesting in topic promotion. If you are not good at humor, your topic change will be much more blunt.

Third, chatting can be a big adventure with truth.

Yes, in addition to the pure chat above, there is an excellent way: truth or dare.

For example, playing truth or dare in bars and KTV, everyone should agree that it is very easy to lead the atmosphere to ambiguity in this environment.

So what exactly should we do?

First of all, you'd better not play this game alone with her, which will make your purpose appear too strong. Getting together with some friends is the best plan.

Secondly, before playing, we should make clear the scale of the game: "Everyone here is young, and young people should have the passion of young people, so if you want to play, play bigger!" Everyone should be mentally prepared. "

Finally, we and our wingman friends will answer some wide-ranging questions first and raise the rhythm of the game, so that when it's a girl's turn, she will be psychologically prepared to avoid being rejected. (If she loses first, please ask her some mild questions first, or wait for us to "deepen" the questions for the girls. )

In fact, WeChat and QQ can also play a sieve. Everyone should know that if you lose, you have to tell the truth, but this game requires you to establish a deeper relationship with girls.

Fourth, matters needing attention in chatting with girls

Although chatting with girls can attract girls, you should also be careful to roll over. Therefore, there are two points to note:

The first thing is that after we get into such a topic, the girl who may be chatting suddenly shows rejection.

This is because the girl herself is reserved, perhaps because our leader has a temporary submissive psychology to chat with us, and when she reacts, she finds that she can't accept such a topic.

At this time, you must end the topic. If you feel that you are not finished, don't pester her to continue chatting.

It is not your loss, but your gain to actively end the dirty topic when you see that the girl is in a wrong mood. Girls see that you know how to advance and retreat, and respect her. Such a man is a gentleman with emotional intelligence!

The second thing, don't think that after talking to a girl, she will definitely accept your intimate relationship, and then touch her when you meet her. Don't do such a thing easily!

It's one thing for a girl to talk to you about this, but it's another thing in reality. There is a big difference between the two. After all, a girl who is willing to talk to you about some ambiguous things can only prove that she has a good impression on you and is willing to have sex with you instead of treating you as an outsider. This can only be after she completely accepts all of you.

Chatting with girls 2 1, food

As the saying goes, "Food is the most important thing for the people". Nowadays, many girls are foodies. Talking about food directly with girls will definitely open the channel between you and make you familiar with girls quickly.

Step 2 be healthy

With the rapid development of society, people's requirements for life are getting higher and higher, so now many post-zero people have joined the health care team. In fact, the best way to keep fit is exercise, so when chatting with girls, it is better to talk about your recent fitness plan. If girls are also fitness enthusiasts, maybe I can give you some advice.

Step 3 gossip

Almost all women like gossip, so when an honest man doesn't know what to talk to a girl, talk to her about the entertainment gossip you heard recently. The girl will definitely be very interested and will take the initiative to share the version she heard with you.

4. Make up

Since Li Jiaqi was on fire, many girls who love makeup have fallen madly in love with this devil. In fact, it is very common for boys to make up now. When you can't find a topic to chat with girls, you can talk about your views on makeup, or ask girls which skin care products to use. Girls will definitely be happy to recommend it to you.

5. Childhood

Everyone has a different childhood. There are many interesting things in childhood, which makes people linger. Therefore, talking about each other's childhood with the girls you like can quickly bring the relationship between the two people closer and make you feel like "meeting each other for a long time".

6. Interest

Chatting with the girl you like, you can talk about your hobbies, and you can also talk about women's hobbies. See what she is interested in and what her hobbies are. If her hobbies happen to be the same as yours, maybe she can hit it off and finish something she has always wanted to do but hasn't started yet. In the process of sorting out, your relationship will become more and more intimate and ambiguous.

7. pets

Female students always have maternal instinct in their hearts, so they will have a whim when they meet the animals they like, and the maternal instinct will overflow, and then they will love the animals they like. So when you don't know what to talk about with girls, you can start the topic according to pets, which can not only show your caring side temporarily, but also get familiar with girls quickly.

8. Shopping

In today's society, there is no girl who doesn't like what buy buy bought. Women are natural shopaholics and always have some hidden shopping desires. So if you talk to a girl about shopping, she will definitely talk to you endlessly.

9. Dream

The topic of dreams depends on your actual relationship. After all, when the relationship is not particularly good, girls will not casually talk to you about these topics, so if you want to talk to girls about their dreams, you must first upgrade your relationship and let girls put down their guard against you.

10, tourism

Poor travel is particularly popular now. It doesn't matter whether you are happy or not. The important thing is whether you can walk away. It is said that a person must travel once anyway, because only by going out will you know the beauty and colorful of this world. So when chatting with the girl you like, you can share some of your travel experiences with her, and the girl will be interested.

Chatting with girls 3 first talk about interest

If you drag a girl to talk about a topic that only interests you, you will probably get perfunctory answers such as "hmm", "ah", "oh", "really" and "great".

When talking about interest, girls should be given more opportunities to express themselves. If she has the desire to express, just chat.

So what is the starting point of talking about interest?

I think the best way is to share a video related to your interests, invite girls to watch it, and then tell her your interests. Then ask her and let her talk about her interests.

This kind of prologue is better than a straightforward speech, and it won't make girls feel embarrassed to introduce themselves. Remember to choose videos with a sense of humor.

Second, look forward to a bright future.

Whenever possible, topics related to the future can attract each other's attention. The future is uncertain, so it is full of topics. Everyone has his own views and ideas about the future, and also has his own direction in life, and girls are no exception.

If you want to go further and get closer to the girl you like, you need to know her plans for your future. People with the same goal are more likely to be together.

After understanding the girl's future, boys can join their own views on the future, check and fill the gaps in the girl's future, and be her solid backing. Imagine a girl who doesn't want to have such a boy around her.

Third, eat, which is a woman's nature.

There are no people who don't like food, especially women. It is natural that women like to eat, so more and more women are born. Seize this opportunity, go out and find some delicious places around you, remember to taste them first to see if they are really delicious, because women are delicate women, and what she wants must be good. Talk to her about food in the next WeChat chat.

Fourth, movies, the latest.

Women do not always stay at home. After a week's hard work, women's recreation is not only bought in the buy buy, but also in the cinema, which is a magical existence. No matter what kind of movie, women can always forget all their unhappiness. Because it's beautiful, it's better than a movie. If it's not good, then scold it, and Jennifer will naturally feel better. So, looking for the latest movie, WeChat "Is there a new movie, do you have time?"