As usual, I vaguely touched the mobile phone beside the pillow, turned off the flight form, and heard one vibration prompt after another from time to time, trying to open my eyes. The message I saw was: Godfrey Tsao fainted while recording a program. Then I closed my eyes and woke up, still thinking: what goes around comes around.

About half an hour later, I woke up and received a terrible news about Godfrey Tsao's sudden death. Only when I turned to the news and saw the photos did I know that Godfrey Tsao was the sunshine boy who played alex wong, not the dirty liar Gavin Gao. Godfrey Tsao's cognition stays in an unnamed movie. He co-starred with Lin Chi-ling, which is a perfect match of talent and beauty on the screen. In an ideal world, Lexus's sister is married and full of happiness, but Godfrey Tsao is unexpectedly isolated.

It is often said that we never know which comes first, accident or tomorrow. Therefore, living in the present has become everyone's attitude towards life. However, many people just say so, but they can't do it. Because most of our efforts today are for the happiness of tomorrow. So we work overtime, stay up late, and spend our whole lives in exchange for tomorrow's happiness.

Some people say this is stupid; However, you can see which winner didn't get glory through hard work day and night. Behind every legend, there is unknown sadness and sweat. We are always struggling with contradictions and comforting ourselves. Everyone's life is not easy. You were brilliant before you saw others, but you were exhausted after you didn't know others.

I don't know much about Gavin Gao, so I went online to search for information about him. My heart ached when I saw "Godfrey Tsao decided to marry his 22-year-old girlfriend this year".

One person's accident may change the life track of several people. The more we grow up, the more we realize that life is never an independent individual. Because every life is related to other lives, with our loved ones, relatives, family members, close friends and so on. As we all know, the story of Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya met a bosom friend, and after his death, Boya broke the piano and never played it again. So, what will happen if she loses Gavin Gao?

The piano is broken and can be bought again; My heart is broken. How can I mend it? About Godfrey Tsao's accident, netizens pointed their sharp edge at the program group: 1. The intensity of the program is too great for the actors to have a good rest; 2. The rescue measures of the program group are not thorough. After Godfrey Tsao fainted, he didn't go to the hospital immediately, and missed the best rescue time. When Godfrey Tsao read "I can't do it, I can't do it" from time to time, no one cares; At the scene, Godfrey Tsao's heartbeat stopped for 3 minutes, during which a girl cried and shouted "No heartbeat", and a male guest was so anxious that he swore. Johnny once broke up and shouted "doctor", and Xuanyi also cried. After the ambulance stopped CPR 15 minutes, Godfrey Tsao recovered his heartbeat, and then he was rushed to the hospital by ambulance. It was already 2: 30 when he got into the ambulance, so netizens were indignant at the untimely rescue.

When we discuss these problems again, it doesn't make much sense. For Godfrey Tsao and his family who have left, even if the program group is finally given all the obligations, the lost life can't come back.

The 35-year-old man has reached the golden age. Whether in the entertainment circle or other circles, he has become mature and has the obligation to start to want to get married and have children. Maybe Godfrey Tsao is planning the next wonderful life, but the beginning is marked as the end in a program. Some people say: physical quality is high. The audience who are familiar with him know that Uncle 195 loves fitness and often participates in basketball activities. Can such a handsome man not be fit?

On the question of obligation, I think there will be results in the end. However, at present, overnight recording in the entertainment circle has become a practice. In the past, we cursed small fresh meat, had no acting skills, and used our bodies to body double and take pictures; However, in some reality shows, some stars began to "make money desperately". The former is doing nothing with high salary, while the latter is doing its best to become popular. Neither extreme is desirable.

Here we don't discuss the matter itself, but how to deal with the next life as a 35-year-old man. "Old people don't need bones and muscles for energy" is a common saying. The meaning is simple. When you are old, you can't show off in this respect. We need sports, and we can love sports. If we don't engage in professional sports, then we can't do high-load sports.

Both men and women should think about how to spend their middle-aged life when they are close to 40 years old. Many female stars will choose to get married, film and quit the entertainment circle; Some male stars will learn to transform, from desperate to acting. Of course, now I think that Jackie Chan, 60, is still making difficult oriental works, and I can't help but respect him.

The ancients said: stand at thirty, but don't be confused at forty. At different stages of life, we should shoulder different obligations; At the age of twenty, we can run and jump after rainbows. After thirty, we should slow down and see different scenery in the world.

We all know the word "midlife crisis". But I don't know why people must be in crisis when they reach middle age. In fact, "middle-aged crisis" and "gray middle-aged" refer to people aged 35-50, who may experience various obstacles and crises such as career, well-being and family in their life stage. According to an article in Harvard Business Review, people's life satisfaction shows a gentle U-shaped curve, which will reach the bottom at the age of 45.

No one's life is easy or straightforward. Everyone's life is extraordinary, full of ups and downs.

So why is middle age described as the darkest moment? Many people are still burdened with financial pressures such as mortgage and car loan, because they have to support their parents in the world and raise their children in the future. Under such heavy pressure, even if it seems a lot of trouble, they are always on tenterhooks and feel extremely anxious in life. Zhang Ailing once described the loneliness of middle-aged men like this: "People often feel lonely after middle age, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one to rely on."

Loneliness is the normal state of life, especially for excellent men. Writer Han Han once said: The more you know, the more you feel like an orphan in this world. Because you can't find anyone to talk to and communicate with. Let's give a simple example. You have seen spaceships and talked to aliens, but you can't talk to others about it, because you know that if you say something that others don't understand, they will definitely regard you as "crazy or crazy".

When people reach middle age, they should learn to do subtraction. This is the experience of many successful people. Because the good times we have left are running out. Everyone wants to stay young forever, but the years are ruthless, and who can do anything about it?

When people are 35-40 years old, under normal circumstances, it is the beginning of generate's midlife crisis and the peak of people's life income. Your strength, intelligence and spirit have not obviously declined, but your work experience, contacts and social resources are enough to crush other teenagers. At this stage, whether starting a business or working, your rate is the focus of my inner circle.

Many people think that this time we should make great achievements and soar to the sky. However, the closer you get to the peak, the more you have to be afraid, because after the peak, there must be a landing and a trough.

You should know clearly that this feeling of being at the peak of your life is not your normal state. As you get older, you should use all your strength to ensure that you will not be abandoned by society in the next ten years. In the next ten years, parents' pension, children's education and family expenses will gradually eat away at everything you have now: wealth, spirit, time and, of course, feelings. At this time, what men can do is to slowly and steadily, and not to reach the limit.

In the recording of Chasing Me, Johnny was born in 1992, and Godfrey Tsao was an old uncle born in 1984. Even if you cherish yourself and love sports, your heart and lung function will be weakened with age. Of course, this is not to assist Jiangsu Satellite TV in whitewashing. It is an indisputable fact that the treatment equipment of the program group is incomplete and there is no matching professional medical staff. But from the perspective of age alone, we should understand: what can and can't be done. The so-called 40-year-old is not confused, that's what it means. When people reach middle age, they should have the wisdom to distinguish "what can and can't be done".

Accidents are regrettable and some accidents can be prevented. Of course, if it is not all kinds of "negligence", then the accident is not called "accident". After the incident, many stars in the entertainment circle spontaneously began to mourn Godfrey Tsao. Mark Chao, a good friend of Godfrey Tsao, uttered a sad pronunciation. He could not accept such a thing. Vega also expressed his condolences at the first time and wished him all the best in heaven. Roy,,,, Wang, Mao Bu,, Xu Zongheng, Song Jia and many other stars also expressed their condolences on social platforms.

We feel sorry for the death of our old friend; To prevent similar tragedies from happening again. Life is always full of ups and downs, but in any case, you can meet good things when you are alive, even if it is short-lived. May the dead rest in peace and the living be safe. I know that the words that warm my heart are pale at this moment. However, the world is still turning, and we still have to live hard and live well.