In fact, no matter how old you are, you must learn to love yourself. Throw away these five things and make the rest of your life better.
First, dependence
By the age of nearly 50, the children have grown up and have their own careers. You should learn to let go and let your children go outside to find their own world.
At this age, women should learn to be independent in thought and money.
Money independence will make you feel more at ease. If you are independent, you will understand what you want.
Don't be a mother who can't live without her children, and don't live by men. Lose dependence and you will live more freely.
Second, inferiority complex.
At this age, women tend to be sad in front of the mirror because they are old. No longer slim figure, a wrinkled face will make you feel inferior, feel that your state is getting worse and worse, and wonder if your husband no longer loves you.
In fact, we should understand that everyone will get old one day. Learning to face and accept calmly will make your mind more peaceful.
Understand that women have their own different beauty at every age. Don't feel old, ugly and inferior.
Age is just a number. It is not terrible to get old on the outside, but to feel inferior on the inside. It is also a kind of beauty to live with a positive and optimistic attitude, lose inferiority and grow old gracefully.
Third, stingy
When people reach middle age, they should learn to be kind to themselves. Don't be reluctant to part with what you like. Eat better and dress better.
Have money to live a good life, have no money to live a good life, and happiness is the most important thing.
At this age, you should learn to be open-minded. Don't haggle over some things, don't be stingy, don't complain, be tolerant and generous.
When your mind is broadened, many things will become much simpler and happier.
Fourth, resentment
People should live happily all their lives.
You don't have to be wronged for others. You keep making concessions and compromising, and the last thing that hurts you is yourself.
You always think of others. Have others considered your feelings?
Women should love themselves more, love themselves well, throw away people and things that make them wronged, and live more chic.
Verbs (short for verb) are tricky.
I've been here for almost half a century and have had many life experiences. Some things need to be more open.
Don't be bound by your own stubbornness, learn to accept and change new things. When the mentality changes, the mentality changes.
Don't cling to the wrong feelings. Don't feel sorry for unworthy people, and don't waste time on unworthy feelings.
The rest of your life is over half, so you should learn to make yourself happy. Throw away stubbornness and you will get a new life.
Women should learn to let go of the first half of their lives, whether it is good or bad.
The later you live, the more you have to learn to do subtraction. Throw away bad things, the burden will be less and less, and life will be easier and easier.
No matter how old you are, women should learn to love themselves.
Spend the rest of your life with an optimistic and positive attitude, calm, calm, happy and open-minded.
May every woman be kind to herself, have the grace to live high, and always have her own spring in her heart.