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You don't love him as much as you think.
"Congratulations, you are one year older." Lin said to himself.

It has been seven years since Lin graduated. After work, she was urged to get married by her parents every day. In order to listen to his parents' nagging less, Lin simply set up an annual card in the gym near his unit.

No gym. I don't know. There are so many energetic people. There are girls with super A figure and small fresh meat with eight abdominal muscles. Lin Xi thought, "It's good to be young." Lin has been in the gym for a month in pursuit of a good figure, but the final result has too many deviations from expectations. But this is not a loss, because Lin made a new discovery in the gym. A handsome, tall, eight-pack small fresh meat. Lin sunseeker looked at his stomach in regret and thought forget it. Why does he have a crush on me?

You never know what will happen next. So is Lin.

A few days later, the boy actually took the initiative to find Lin to familiarize himself with the equipment. How did this happen to me? Lin twisted herself. It hurts! I don't think this is a dream. Lin, who has not been moved for a long time, has a feeling of being moved again. I can't believe he likes me, too. Is there anyone in the world who likes you more than you?

Lin began to go out on a date. He will naturally hold Lin's hand on the road. When eating, he will wash the spicy chicken with water and give it to Lin. When passing by the doll machine, he will ask Lin if he wants to play. When he leaves, he will take Lin to buy a lot of snacks to let Lin go, although Lin has always said no, stressing that eating it will make him fat.

"You are not fat, which is good." He said to Lin.

Happy days always pass quickly. It was quickly discovered by parents. After all, I call every day.

Parents will inevitably ask him what job he has, how old he is, and how his education is. In fact, he is younger than Lin, with only a high school education and no job. Parents can't agree that they are together. Because Lin is an intellectual family. Perhaps because he was a good girl since childhood, Lin was attracted by his free and easy humor. Education is not important. There are so many college students now that they are worthless. Young is nothing, energetic. It doesn't matter if you don't have a job You can find another job. He is still young. Lin comforted himself like this and comforted his parents like this.

My best friend also said not to be together, and my colleagues also said to reconsider.

"Marriage is a great event in life. He has no job now. How are you going to live in the future? We are all for your own good and will not harm you. "

"Mom and dad are really good people for you. Seeing that person feels unreliable, so be careful. "

But all his friends said, "Yo, I've never seen you care so much about anyone." He is also really good to Lin.

Take care of Lin first when eating, want to take care of Lin when you are sick, and want Lin to be inside when crossing the road. In order to make Lin's family recognize him, he worked hard to find a job and insisted on attending classes every day to reassure Lin. To love someone is to make changes for her, isn't it?

"I like him. I want to talk about a vigorous love, regardless of the outcome. " Lin said to himself.

"You are 29 years old now. Do you think it is still the age to fall in love? It's not the time to go to college. It's time to consider getting married. You are over the age of only falling in love. "

Am I unworthy of love at the age of 29? Can you just meet someone just right and spend the rest of your life together? Lin is very sad. But I decided to give up. After all, it is first love. Love at the age of 29 is not love at the age of 19. I can be desperate and have no hesitation. 29-year-old love will have many other concerns, not to mention the first love, it will be more difficult to take that step.

But he still calls Lin Xixi from time to time, but he doesn't call every day as before. Lin's blind date invitation was also rejected.

That night, Lin and he completely ended. It's over before it starts.

In the evening 17:45:48, he called.

"What are you doing? Long time no see. "

"Prepare for the meeting."

"I fell in love with a girl."

"ah? If you like it, go after it. " Lin Xixi's heart was shaking so fast.

"But that girl ignored me, didn't see me, and didn't go to the gym. Now we are so close but we can't meet each other. What should I do? "

"I don't know." I really don't know how to answer. I like you, but we can't be together

In fact, Lin guessed that the girl was herself.

At this time, the phone rang and it was my colleague. Lin chose to hang up his phone. This choice also let the boy know Lin's choice. He chose to let go. Since you don't love, why bother?

He told Lin on WeChat that the girl was her.

See Lin didn't reply to him, the in the mind is really mixed. The next step is the meeting.

I made a long phone call to him in the evening, and this line appeared: The other party has started friend verification, and you are not his friend, please send it to Friend Request.

This is his last dignity.

Sadly, I can't tell you what it feels like. It's like a stone on Lin Xixi, and I can't breathe.

Thank you for your company these days, for liking me, for not giving up on me, and for feeling sorry for me. I have thought about our future many times, but there is no chance anymore.

"You are 29 years old. College is not the time to fall in love casually. Now is the time to get married. "

Can't you fall in love at the age of 29? The answer is yes. You can fall in love at any time and get ready to get married at any time. No one can make a decision for you, you just hesitate. In fact, the fact is that you are not satisfied with him, have no confidence in your future, and don't trust him enough. Just choose to let others tell their truth.

If you love him enough, will you ask your best friends and colleagues for advice? If you love him enough, will you refuse him if his parents don't agree? If you love him enough, will you hang up on him when you make other unimportant calls?

If you love him enough, you won't.

You don't love him as much as you think.