A few days ago, Huang Lei took a lot of recent photos and instantly went on a hot search.

Duoduo has grown into a big girl, more and more elegant and dignified. She surprised everyone in the photo and was a real lady.

From Huang Lei's Weibo, we know that the high-definition video version of the stage play "Book in the Water", which Duoduo participated in two years ago, will be released nationwide soon.

Huang Lei said, "I don't know whether it should be a movie or a drama, or a movie version of a drama, or a way for a movie to present a drama. In short, this is a very new art form, and I am very happy that she can participate in it. " Words are full of pride and pride, as well as affirmation of children.

As a parent, what moved me more was a passage written by Huang Lei, the "old father", to his daughter:

"In the past two years, she has grown up a lot and grown taller. She is already a high school student, and her childish face has the appearance of a girl. I was afraid to watch her premiere two years ago. I am nervous that she will go on stage alone, just like thinking that one day she will face the unknown world alone. Today, the weekend in Beijing is very congested. We traveled halfway across the city to attend the premiere of the HD video version of Book in the Water. Our mood is completely different from that of that year. We are full of joy and carefree. Two years ago, I thought I could sit with her and see her later. I cried and laughed, and I was very happy. "

From the troubles of the past to the joy of the present. "My children are not old" is the happiest thing for parents in the world.

You know, Huang Duoduo is "different" from other children, so it is controversial.

Huang Duoduo was once called scheming and naive by a wave of adults for being "mature and caring for children younger than her" in Where is Dad? Because English is easy to be said to show off, pretend to be X; Because I like puppies, I'm worried that puppies will be described as melodramatic ... I pierced her ears and dyed her hair at a young age, and some netizens said that she was so precocious at such a young age, and she didn't look like a child at all.

But many let these netizens down. She didn't grow up to be the rebellious and disobedient little sister they feared. On the contrary, under the influence and education of her parents, she is not only excellent in character and study, but also versatile. Both hands-on ability and aesthetics are excellent.

So many people are surprised: Huang Lei, how did you raise your daughter?

What parents can give their children is very limited. What really achieves their children is their high degree of self-discipline and strict requirements for themselves.

Many are quiet and gentle, just like a graceful girl, with very good temperament, and some are sour. "How can a child talk about temperament? It's just that his home is well packaged with money ... "

It is true that family is really important. After all, some people were born in Rome.

But money is not everything.

Zhu Ziwen, a farmer singer, needs no introduction, and everyone should know it.

Three years ago, a video of a big brother going to the bank to do business was exposed. The bank teller inadvertently said, "I earned160,000 a year", which exposed the annual income of Big Brother.

According to ordinary people's thinking, he has no worries about cleaning up his daughter.

But his daughter Xue Mei has never been to school since she graduated from junior high school.

As family conditions are getting better and better, Zhu is also unrestrained in diet. The thin little girl now weighs nearly 200 Jin. Obesity makes Xiaoxue's face squeezed and deformed, and no matter what she wears, she looks bloated.

Yao Ming is only in his early twenties and looks like an aunt in her forties.

Moreover, Zhu is very resistant to his work. She feels that working in the supermarket is too tiring and it is too much trouble to go to the health school to study as a nurse. She threatened, "Everything is fine at home. Why did she go out?" Just take the courier at home all day and buy sausages.

Big Brother also said in an interview that when his daughter 16 years old, she was cheated of a lot of money because her fans joined the MLM organization.

Become the laughing stock of others. Brother Tai is also helpless, talking about the future. "My daughter will find a closer husband's family, and it will be fine in the future."

The same is to adopt a daughter.

Sun Li once showed Huang Duoduo's fitness video titled "Little Fitness Expert".

In Sun Lifa's video, Huang Duoduo is full of energy, wearing vest shorts and ponytail.

Huang Duoduo, who is doing all kinds of fitness exercises, seems to be working hard. The tight lines of her arms and waist and long legs are particularly eye-catching, which makes her instantly become a beautiful girl in the physical education department.

It's amazing to be so self-disciplined at an early age.

Even more surprising is that:

Huang Duoduo wrote plays in English at the age of seven and translated three English novels at the age of eight.

/kloc-When he was 0/0 years old, he dubbed English animated films such as The Little Prince, Dreamcatcher and Ice Age 2. English communication with Spielberg on the same stage is barrier-free;

1 1 year-old, boarded the international runway;

Last year, he and He Jiong also participated in the drama "The Book in the Water" directed by Lai Shengchuan.

Parents' vision determines their children's future. After all, children should go their own way. Parental companionship is limited. It is better to cultivate children's ability than to give them the best.

In the letter to her daughter, choose a lifestyle that she likes. Huang Lei said: "Happiness is to choose a lifestyle that she likes."

Huang Lei's education for children is very important, and that is respect.

When Huang Lei's family went to Hong Kong for a visit on 20/0/4, 8-year-old Duo Duo was applying lipstick in front of the mirror and sticking nail stickers on his fingers.

Last June, 5438+ 10, Huang Duoduo got a hot search at the airport.

In the airport photo, she has blonde hair+top hat+sunglasses.

In recent years, Huang Duoduo dyed her hair and pierced her ears, learned to make up like an adult, and dressed up very maturely, which caused a heated discussion among netizens.

Huang Lei himself has always been very calm. His educational philosophy is never to treat her as a child. He thinks that Huang Duoduo is an independent individual, and he will not impose his own consciousness on his children, and he will get along with her like a friend.

When Huang Lei shared the "parenting classics" in an early interview, he once said:

When their children show curiosity about new things, as parents, they are more likely to let their children try and experience, respect their choices and follow the laws of their natural development.

However, this tolerance is not completely "let go", and the couple will still give positive guidance from it.

They allow children to have their ears pierced and their hair dyed, but they don't allow children to be lazy in their studies.

In fact, many people are often reluctant to practice on the way to learn the piano, so Sun Li severely "forced" her.

There are often parents on the Internet who are curious about the "careful machine" on their way to raising their children. Huang Lei revealed this way: "Many people have to finish reading a book every day. After getting up in the morning, they will hold books and read them before going to bed at night. "

Not only urge them to read more, but also accompany them to read.

After the birth of their second daughter and sister, they also insisted on it all the time.

Parents should not just ask their children, in fact, the role of children as role models can not be ignored.

Insisting on one thing is often difficult for children to do by themselves, and parents need to push hard behind them.

Huang Duoduo, 14 years old, speaks elegantly, and his erudition is mainly attributed to Huang Lei's educational philosophy.

0 1 Treat children as friends and bend down to communicate with them.

When his daughter came of age, he knew how to protect her secrets and thoughts and supported her puppy love.

He said: "If my daughter 15 is in love, I think it is normal. I don't think this is puppy love. Falling in love is the seed of ignorance and love in adolescence. I think it's beautiful. "

This shows how much Huang Lei respects his daughter.

The purpose of education is to cultivate independent children and let them solve their own problems as much as possible.

Let's remember this scene:

In the program "Where is Dad?", someone gave Duoduo a puppy, and Duoduo couldn't put it down.

Belle likes puppies, too, so she asks Huang Lei, can I play for a while?

Huang Lei didn't respond directly, but said: The dog belongs to Sister Duo. You should ask her.

After playing with the dog for a long time, Duo Duo was not at ease and ran to ask her father. Huang Lei told her daughter that you can solve the problem by yourself.

The last point is particularly important. If parents want their children to be excellent, they must first make themselves excellent.

Huang Duoduo's mother, Sun Li, is an actress now, but she used to be a dancer and studied dance at Beijing Dance Academy for seven years. It seems that now Huang Duoduo's physical coordination and good temperament also come from her mother.

Huang Lei himself is a teacher of the Beijing Film Academy, and Christina and Sebrina are his students, so many of our netizens have no more say in education than him.

Poet Yu Ge said:

"You can give your child anything, but you can't give your child anything about life experiences, joys and sorrows, successes and setbacks. Without these experiences, he would not have a sense of gain in life. 」

Huang Lei did a good job, respecting children's nature and guiding them correctly, but interfering with children more, encouraging them to try and let go at the right time. ...

Because parents' true and successful love is to get their children out of your life as an independent individual as soon as possible. The sooner this separation occurs, the more successful you will be.

So it is not surprising that there are many excellent ones.