One year after the plane crash of the poet Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman insisted in several subsequent public responses that he and Weng Wurui had only feelings but no love, but this did not seem to be the case. The affection between Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui is far thicker than people think, and more complicated than Lu Xiaoman himself said.
Weng Wurui's strength is second only to Weng Wurui's. He is a famous family, good at painting and calligraphy, and can also sing Beijing Opera and Kunqu Opera. He also studied Chinese massage from the famous doctor Ding Fengshan. Ding Fengshan, who is familiar with modern history, knows that he is a disciple of Li Jianchen, the physician of Empress Dowager Cixi. With such an extraordinary background, Weng Wurui's medical skills are naturally excellent, and his most famous housekeeping skill is the legendary "One Finger Zen" kung fu. One finger Zen is said to take three years to practice.
The process of Weng's acquaintance with Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman; Weng met Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman precisely because of his superb Zen skills. Lu Xiaoman was born with birth defects. Her parents have been giving birth to nine children, only Lu Xiaoman survived. Lu Xiaoman, who survived by luck, is weaker than the average person. In this way, after she cheated on Xu Zhimo in marriage, she still left the root of the disease.
Lu Xiaoman, who was born deficient and injured the day after tomorrow, had a very irregular schedule. In this case, Lu Xiaoman's body soon appeared a big problem. With the aggravation of Lu Xiaoman's illness, "fainting" began to be often performed on Lu Xiaoman. In order to cure his wife's illness as soon as possible, Xu Zhimo had to ask a famous doctor to treat Lu Xiaoman. Weng Wurui entered the world of Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman under such circumstances.
Because Lu Xiaoman's spending power is too strong, Xu Zhimo had to teach in the north with the help of Hu Shi. Xu Zhimo's busy and frequent business trips naturally facilitated the communication between Weng Wurui and Lu Xiaoman, which Xu Zhimo thought and could not avoid. Things in the world are always strikingly similar. At first, Lu Xiaoman's ex-husband Wang Geng asked his friend Xu Zhimo to take care of Lu Xiaoman for work, and then they became attached for a long time. Now, in order to earn money, Xu Zhimo runs around and entrusts Weng Wurui to take care of Lu Xiaoman. Even if Lu Xiaoman has no intention, he can't stop Weng Wurui's affection.
Lu Xiaoman has always relied on Weng Wurui and Xu Zhimo, and tried to persuade his wife to go to the north with him and give up opium. And these two points are exactly what Lu Xiaoman can't do: she is used to the softness and comfort of Shanghai, and it is difficult to give up opium. On the other hand, an important reason for Lu Xiaoman's delay in going north with her husband is that she cannot leave Weng Wurui.
A woman can't live without a man, whether she wants to admit it or not, it is the beginning of love. As for how Weng Wurui made Lu Xiaoman inseparable, we should start with the high matching degree between Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui.
Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wu Rui are a good match. Although Lu Xiaoman received western education, he was born in China at heart, so he was not completely consistent with Xu Zhimo, who was over-westernized in ideas and concepts. For example, Lu Xiaoman likes playing mahjong, singing operas and painting landscape paintings, while Xu Zhimo is really interested in poetry and literature. Lu Xiaoman's hobby almost coincides with Weng Wurui's. Especially in the national drama, the two are simply bosom friends. Lu Xiaoman can sing Peking Opera and Kunqu Opera, and Weng studied with famous Peking Opera and Kunqu Opera artists in his early years.
As a noble family, Weng's artistic talent is not necessarily worse than Xu Zhimo's, but his interest in art is mostly with the mentality of a declining aristocrat. Weng Wurui's singing skills are mainly concentrated in Tsing Yi, but his own conditions are not good. Tsing Yi requires petite and exquisite, but Weng Wurui is a big man. In order to play Tsing Yi well and feel petite and exquisite on the stage, Weng Wurui actually put a copper coin between his knees and walked around the circus in his daily practice.
This kind of Weng Wurui, when meeting that kind of Lu Xiaoman, will naturally collide with sparks. Compared with Xu Zhimo, Weng Wurui is not good at sweet talk, but he obviously knows how to take care of Lu Xiaoman better than Xu Zhimo. Lu Xiaoman was ill, and he offered a legendary one-finger Zen; Lu Xiaoman was bored, so she opened her mouth and listened to her favorite opera. Lu Xiaoman is sad. He wants to tease and please with all kinds of tricks.
Weng's Economic Strength When Weng knew that the economic situation of Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo was very bad, he even offered to exchange antique calligraphy and painting for money. The calligraphy and painting brought by Xu Zhimo when the plane crashed was given to Xu Zhimo by Weng Wurui for sale. How many women can resist a man who understands women's hearts, is rich, talented, tall and handsome, and has so many advantages? Lu Xiaoman is more or less at a loss.
But there's no such thing as if. After quarreling with Lu Xiaoman, Xu Zhimo angrily went north and suffered an air crash on the way. Interestingly, before Xu Zhimo left, he entrusted Weng Wurui to take care of Lu Xiaoman for himself. After Xu Zhimo's plane crash, Lu Xiaoman's heart was shaken, but he "lived" as a monument in Lu Xiaoman's heart.
Weng Wurui's intimacy can be a monument, but it is only a monument after all. After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman and married Weng Wurui became de facto husband and wife. In the next few decades, Weng Wurui succeeded Xu Zhimo as the person who took care of Lu Xiaoman. Weng Wurui really didn't live up to Xu Zhimo's request. He took good care of Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman doesn't eat milk, but human milk, so Weng Wurui keeps a wet nurse in Lu Xiaoman's home and gives her chicken soup and other nutrients for every meal. The milk milked by the wet nurse is exclusively for Lu Xiaoman to drink.
Lu Xiaoman kept opium for her to eat at home, and she also kept all kinds of snacks she likes to eat, such as western snacks from Shanghai Harbin Food Factory and Laoda Factory, alcoholic chocolate, etc. In addition, honey is also a regular food in Lu Xiaoman's residence, but it is not used for eating, but is injected into the body with a syringe to promote gastrointestinal peristalsis.
Weng Wurui has always been responsive to Lu Xiaoman. He bought her a very high-grade purple camel fur coat, which is soft, slender, smooth and comfortable to the touch. Even Mrs. Weng Wurui's rose sauce and rose wine will be taken away and given to her. Even under extremely difficult economic conditions, Weng Wurui will never lack Lu Xiaoman's "one black and one white", with opium in the black and rice in the white. Weng Wurui has done all these things for decades, and few people in the world can do it!
Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui are warming up. While taking care of Lu Xiaoman, Weng Wurui has never forgotten to make Lu Xiaoman really happy. He personally made her scrambled eggs and prepared rose wine. After that, he deliberately brought the children to Lu Xiaoman to amuse her. Because he knows Lu Xiaoman and has good taste, Weng Wurui will do many things to make Lu Xiaoman happy. For example, on a snowy day, he will go outside to get a pile of snow and take out the cleanest part of the water to make "snow tea".
However, Lu Xiaoman's life is not as beautiful as it seems, because he was born in wartime and became a married "girlfriend". During the 30 years of living with Weng, Lu Xiaoman was not only controversial, but also under various pressures from Weng's family.
Weng's original match, Chen, is an old-fashioned woman. Because she has no viability, she is not resentful but afraid of Lu Xiaoman's existence. She knows better than anyone that if she cares about herself, then she is probably the one out. At that time, she could only suffer the most. So, she not only tried to be nice to Lu Xiaoman, but even let her children get back together with her.
On the surface, I know clearly that because of Lu Xiaoman's intervention, Weng's home is not like home, and his wife is not like his wife. She is like a strange spice mixed into Weng's family. As soon as she joined, Weng's family instantly became a hundred-flavor porridge: sweet and sour, spicy and salty, with all kinds of flavors. In this pot of porridge, there are men's helplessness, women's sighs, men's remorse for women, and children's resentment against third parties! Weng's children have no opinion of Lu Xiaoman. Naturally, they also gave her a lot of cold violence. Lu Xiaoman had no choice but to accept these cold violence against her.
Chen died at the age of 52. Weng Xiangguang, the eldest daughter of Weng Wurui, remembered her mother's injustice and rushed to Xiaoman's house to get angry with her father and Lu Xiaoman. She shouted at her father, "Why didn't you divorce your mother earlier? If she divorced early, she could still find a good man and live comfortably for a few years! " Lu Xiaoman tried to persuade her, but she also got a vicious roar: "Why are you clinging to my father?"? Why? Why? You say, you say! " That day, Lu Xiaoman and Weng Wurui both cried. Love is the warmest thing in the world, and it hurts the most. Who says not? Later, in order to comfort the Weng children, Lu Xiaoman personally prepared a table at home, but they were ungrateful.
Weng Wurui's empathy may be because he has never had a marriage certificate. In his later years, after Weng Wurui fell in love with their girl who was only 18 years old, Lu Xiaoman was completely indifferent. That incident caused an uproar in the city, but Lu Xiaoman remained silent. She just sighed afterwards: "The reason why I am not jealous at all is because I only have friends with Weng Wurui, and there is no love anymore."
But after living together for 30 years, can you really rest assured? In fact, Lu Xiaoman's words, like Xu Zhimo's arguments about love in those days, are just self-consolation. It was also after this that Lu Xiaoman finally walked out of her comfort zone in her later years and walked into the crowd. She got a job in Shanghai Literature and History Museum with low salary, but she can support herself.
Lu Xiaoman at this time is not as beautiful as it used to be. Because of opium, all her teeth fell out, and her face was full of wind and frost, loneliness and stubbornness. Lu Xiaoman here still keeps in touch with Weng Wurui. During Weng's severe lung disease, she often took food to Chinese and Western hospitals. The world noticed that every time he filled in a form to write about family members, Lu Xiaoman would fill in Weng Wurui in the column of family members.
Think about whether Lu Xiaoman has feelings for Weng Wurui, especially for her. Because of their deep affection for her, people even speculated that it might be a white lie when talking about Weng Wurui's empathy in his later years. He knew that time was running out and didn't want Lu Xiaoman to be too sad after his death.
The truth of the matter is unknown, but it is an indisputable fact that Weng Wurui was full of care for Lu Xiaoman from beginning to end. On his deathbed, Weng Wurui invited Zhao Qingge and Zhao Jiabi, shook his fist and said, "Please take care of Lu Xiaoman in the future. I am very grateful." After Weng's funeral, Lu Xiaoman dedicated Weng's ancestors and memorial tablets at home, and she often sat with Weng's photos.
After Weng Wurui died in Lu Xiaoman's later years, Lu Xiaoman lived alone for another five years without children and suitors. During this period, she was entrusted by Weng to visit frequently. Lu Xiaoman is lucky after all. Weng entrusted Lu Xiaoman with the greatest care. They were not only close friends, but also bosom friends, and she became the only comfort for Lu Xiaoman in his later years. Lu Xiaoman died in Shanghai Huadong Hospital. Quite unexpectedly, before she died, she offered to be buried with Xu Zhimo.
Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman were together for five years, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were together for five years, and Weng was with him for thirty years. Is his thirty years really not worth Xu Zhimo's five years? The answer to this question, perhaps only Lu Xiaoman can answer! Why did Lu Xiaoman choose Weng Wurui after Xu Zhimo's death? The answer lies in their daily life of living together for thirty years. Why did Lu Xiaoman choose Weng Wurui after Xu Zhimo's death? The answer is also in the daily life they have lived together for 30 years.
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