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Zhao Benshan is famous for a 22-year-old girl who was popular all over the country. However, after the fire, she chose to abandon her husband and children. Now that so many years have passed, how is she doing? Haven't you regretted abandoning your husband and children? Do you still get along well?
In 2009, Ya Dan sang "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau", which became popular in the Spring Festival Evening of 2009. Zhao Benshan made two people angry, one was Xiao Shenyang and the other was Ya Dan. Ya Dan sang "Qinghai-Tibet Plateau" in the Spring Festival Evening, which made many people see the strength of the two-person actor.
Ya Dan's real name is Lv Pin, and later she changed her name to Lv Shiyi. However, her real name is hard to remember, so she used the stage name Mao Mao when performing the duet. It was not until after the fire that the stage name was officially called Ya Dan. Although slightly rustic, it is very grounded and easy to catch fire.
In fact, Zhao Benshan is really good to Ya Dan. After all, as far as Ya Dan is concerned, it is almost out of the Spring Festival Evening. If she hadn't met Zhao Benshan, she might never have met her talent. Of course, after becoming popular, Zhao Benshan also praised Ya Dan for nearly ten years, who was a true Bole and mentor.
Ya Dan became popular in 2009 and married Zhao Benshan's apprentice in the same year. This is also a beautiful marriage witnessed by the teacher. But unfortunately, Ya Dan's ex-husband Wang Jinlong has been tepid.
Wang Jinlong was born in 1984, three years older than Ya Dan, and still tolerates Ya Dan in his life. Unfortunately, when it comes to career development, it is not as good as Ya Dan. Wang Jinlong's only representative works are I'm going to the Spring Festival Evening and Superstar, both of which are just ordinary characters.
What about Ya Dan? Although she participated in many film and television works, the effect was not great, but at least the Spring Festival Evening in 2009 opened her popularity. Even now, many people think of Ya Dan when they see the big flower coat and ponytail in Northeast China. Theoretically, the role of the Spring Festival Gala is indispensable.
After eight years of marriage, she finally got divorced. How is Ya Dan now? But Ya Dan didn't immediately abandon her husband and children because of her popularity. Her marriage to Wang Jinlong lasted eight years. In such a long time, people will be very clear after drinking water. If it is really because of Ya Dan's popularity that he chose to divorce, surely Zhao Benshan will not agree, nor will he hold Ya Dan for ten years?
In Ya Dan, the word "abandoning husband and children" is a bit exaggerated. After all, in marriage, none of us can assert that people around us are lifelong people and people will change. Only Rainbow Jinlong and Ya Dan, the development of Ya Dan has lagged far behind Wang Jinlong. Not evenly matched, lacking a long-term and stable emotional foundation. Divorce is also obvious, isn't it?
After the divorce, Ya Dan took the children alone and started his own company, which developed very well. Although you can hardly see it on the big screen, in real life, it is still very good in private. Even the face value is several grades higher than that of that year, and the feeling of white and self-confidence is very obvious.
Audiences always like to supplement the private lives of actors and artists. Ya Dan got divorced. There are currently two versions. One is that after she became famous, her feelings were not harmonious, and she chose to divorce, leaving her husband and children. Another version is that Ya Dan is down-to-earth, but her ex-husband Wang Jinlong failed to keep her promise of marriage and betrayed her marriage, so Ya Dan chose to divorce. As for which of these two versions is true, it depends on which side the balance in everyone's mind is more biased.
However, it is not necessary for everyone to fill in the private lives of actors and artists. Many people think that what actors look like on the screen must be what they look like in private. This idea is wrong.
Just like Ya Dan, there is a silly girl on the stage. Is it necessary for the audience to do the same? Wang Jinlong also plays ugly on the stage to make the audience laugh. Will it be the same off stage? Instead of speculating about other people's marriages, it is better to live your own life and entertainment circle. To put it bluntly, it is entertainment, and having fun is enough.
Is it really important to be evenly matched in marriage? If the truth of Ya Dan's divorce is that she chose to abandon her husband and children because she was not as good as before, does this prove that it is really important to be evenly matched in marriage? Isn't the right person not qualified to fall in love and get married? In this matter, I believe it must be fair and reasonable. Neither side can convince the other.
Although from the most rational point of view, a close match is indeed the best, after all, the binding of interests is stronger than the so-called love, which is like a legally binding contract in black and white, and it is definitely more effective than verbal commitment.
But supporting each other, helping each other, or even paying unilaterally can't be said to be not the best marital status. But the premise of all this is that both sides have the will to spend their lives together and are unwilling to leave each other. And Ya Dan and Wang Jinlong, can only say that under the arrangement of fate, drifting away.
How to balance the relationship between the two parties in marriage? Only by learning to balance the relationship in marriage, I believe many people will ask, how to balance the relationship between each other? There is actually no answer. Because everyone is a different individual, the experience of others is of little reference value.
The only way to balance the relationship in marriage is that both parties are grateful and willing to understand each other's empathy. Don't depend on each other, cherish the present, but can everyone really do it? Sorry, I can't do it! Few people can always treat their marriage and themselves fairly.
When income, values and hobbies are constantly being widened, it is meaningless for either party to rely on the goodwill of the other to maintain marriage. More is to balance your mind and try to change yourself. If you fail in your efforts, your marriage may not fail, but if you don't work hard, it's hard not to fail unless the other person is a saint.
If you don't believe me, please refer to Ya Dan and Wang Jinlong. Please don't think that in a marriage, a woman is better than a man, and finally the divorce ends. It must be that the woman dislikes and abandons her husband and children. Are you a worm in someone else's stomach? Why make such a wild guess?
From the family level, home is the refuge, and money is not the most important thing in the refuge, so don't judge whether women are strong or men are weak from the aspect of money. Please judge from the nature of life and marriage.
If you were Ya Dan, would you choose to divorce Wang Jinlong? I believe the answer to this question must be different for married people and unmarried people. Even happy people and unhappy people must have different answers. If you don't believe me, let's discuss it together. Here will definitely help you find the answer you want.