Let's take a look inside first. What's inside? Our connotation, manners, habits, qualities and thoughts. If you want to become more temperamental, you should start from these aspects.
First of all, we should communicate with people more. A person's connotation and vision are not only obtained through study, but also through communication. Communicate with celebrities, high-level people or interesting people more, so as to better improve your knowledge and see the diversity of the world.
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The second is to read more books. Reading is the most desirable way for a person when he is helpless, because books will not pick people and refuse them. Reading more, studying hard and studying hard can improve a person's cultivation. Even if you can't achieve the eloquent effect, you can quote a sentence or two at an appropriate time, and the level and temperament of the whole person will be revealed.
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There is also good habits and self-cultivation. Our usual subtle movements and expressions may affect our daily performance. Good habits and qualities can reflect a person's family education and living environment, which will naturally affect people around you and make them feel your manners and temperament.
Now look outside. Now it can be said that it is an era of looking at faces, and those who look good can often win people's first impression points. But looks can be congenital, but also cosmetic, temperament is not. The external temperament is reflected in our behavior, which is what we usually call the aura. ?
First of all, be confident. If you are not confident, nothing will happen. Self-confidence can make people more self-controlled, at least in the eyes of others.
Secondly, we should have a good standing posture, sitting posture and walking posture. Our ordinary actions can better reflect our temperament. No one will admit that a person who usually sits and is willing to walk around with his back bent is temperamental.
Then, dress, read more magazines or materials, learn how to match people with similar height and size, don't always think about the price, and adjust your style appropriately, which can better improve your taste and thus your temperament.
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Therefore, to improve a person's temperament, we need to look at it from both internal and external aspects. On the one hand, it is not comprehensive, giving people the impression that it may be either superficial or just reading, which will make people misunderstand a lot. Therefore, if you really want to improve your temperament, you should start from the inside out, leave a good impression on people in all aspects and show your unique temperament.