Hello, I can understand your distress. Every man wants a gentle and virtuous lover to support him. But after married life, many things are counterproductive and not as good as expected. This requires the running-in of both husband and wife to achieve mutual tolerance. To love someone is to cherish and protect them and love them. First of all, determine whether you love and spoil your wife very much. On the other hand, whether your wife really loves you is the key to the problem, and the landlord is worth thinking about. If you love your wife, she loves you very much. Then, the purpose of love is dedication! Would you like to dedicate yourself to your wife? Love him, tolerate her, change for him, and let him change for you. If there is anything, two people should discuss it together, but remember, don't speak in a command, command or educational tone. Because respect the other half, you are equal. Then, it depends on what you think is wrong, and your wife will make mistakes. Sometimes right or wrong depends on your perspective. If it is something that can be solved by many methods, but he doesn't handle it according to your way of thinking, then he can't be said to be wrong, but he didn't do it or handle it according to your way. Everyone has different ways of thinking and thinking when dealing with affairs. Trying to understand other people's thoughts is necessary after marriage, because when you know what he wants, you can accurately define right and wrong. But don't force your thoughts on your wife without understanding, because no one likes and rejects this feeling. Try to understand and tolerate her, consider from both sides, and let him learn to handle things from each other's perspective. If so, at least your family is warm. At the same time, your work and life will progress comfortably. However, if it is obviously wrong, such as involving the most basic moral issues, such as disrespect for parents, or the principle of marriage (as you know), then you should behave yourself, be reasonable and not neglect it. One is one, two is two, there is nothing to discuss. If this is the case, the landlord will try his best to communicate and let him change for you. I think if you love him, you are willing to devote your life to him, and vice versa! As a friend, let me tell you the truth. Women are naughty, but only women and so-and-so are difficult to raise. But I don't think it can be solved. A man should be generous and give her the freedom to do small things. At the critical moment, it is the person who should care about my principled decision-making power. Finally, I wish you a happy life!