After 39 years of debut, Ding Yongdai has played nearly 100 roles, but everyone only remembers the roles and doesn't even know the names of the actors. But unlike his career, his love life attracted many people's onlookers. Ding Yongdai, known as "the cleanest actor in the entertainment circle", married her first love for 35 years without any scandal. He explained the highest state of love with practical actions. How many people know the love life behind Ding Yongdai?
The beginning of love at first sight
In fact, when I met my wife, Ding Yongdai had just graduated from Inner Mongolia Theatre Academy and was assigned to Inner Mongolia Repertory Theatre. At that time, Ding Yongdai's parents-in-law were also in the troupe, so they naturally lived in the family courtyard assigned by the troupe. By chance, Ding Yongdai met a girl wearing little red shoes in her yard. Clearly two people have passed by, but Ding Yongdai looked up and looked back at each other. Interestingly, the girl looked back at him.
Two people's eyes met, both shy and moved, but no one took the initiative to speak. Afterwards, Ding Yongdai became more and more regretful, so he asked around who the girl who came that day was. It turns out that she came to visit her parents. The girl is a teacher, four years younger than herself, and has no object.
After getting the news, Ding Yongdai took the initiative to find the girl. Maybe the girl has the same meaning, so when she saw Ding Yongdai show up at work and profess herself, she nodded shyly and agreed. As each other's first love, the unforgettable love time still feels beautiful and sweet.
At that time, Ding Yongdai was 28 years old. He must have got married in the late 1980s. At the urging of his parents and Ding Yongdai's own idea, he married himself. His parents-in-law who do the same job with him naturally know that his daughter is in love with him, and Ding Yongdai's character has been quietly investigated for more than a year. Therefore, when Ding Yongdai proposed marriage, they didn't object.
At that time, Ding Yongdai didn't work in the troupe for a long time and didn't earn much money, so their marriage was very simple. Only two parents and a few friends and classmates were invited, and everyone had a meal together, even if they were married. The girl didn't complain, so she followed Ding Yongdai and became his wife.
In fact, as a dramatic actor, Ding Yongdai's salary is not high. Occasionally, I have the opportunity to play the leading role, but most of the time I am a walk-on and play a supporting role, and my career has not improved. Shortly after their marriage, their wives had children. In order to take better care of the family, his wife became a full-time housewife, and the whole family lived on Ding Yongdai's salary.
Like most parents, they try to leave the best for their children, so their wives actually live frugally. At that time, Ding Yongdai, like his wife, always thought that the future life would probably be like this. But seven years later, Ding Yongdai's quiet career ushered in a new turn.
1993, Ding Yongdai was invited to participate in Pilgrim's Progress. After the play was broadcast, it won the Flying Award, the Five One Project and the first prize of the whole army at the same time, and Ding Yongdai, who participated in it, was naturally attracted by other directors. So he made a lot of film and television dramas in the 1990s, and they all won big prizes.
Since the 20th century, there have been more and more invitations for film and television dramas in Ding Yongdai. He has played many different roles for so many years, but he has always been in a phenomenon that plays are more popular than actors. Few people really know Ding Yongdai. It was not until 20 13 that I finally saw his acting skills. This work won him the most powerful actor award in the Canadian Film Festival of Beijing University Student Film Festival, which was his first personal award.
Although the road to fame is very difficult, as long as there is a movie, it is very satisfying for Ding Yongdai. As we all know, making movies and TV plays is far more profitable than acting in drama. Ding Yongdai's experience in filming movies and TV series for many years has also brought remarkable changes to his family life. At least now they don't have to live a tight life, and their wives can buy whatever they want.
Because of filming, Ding Yongdai often runs around with the crew and is always away from home. But his wife never complained, but encouraged him to work hard and pursue his dreams. After all, at this time, Ding Yongdai was over 500 years old. He was a real late bloomer and he was proud of it.
Although it has been a long time since I first starred in this TV series, Ding Yongdai still remembers his wife's pride when she saw herself on TV. Being a husband can make his wife proud of herself, which is enough for Ding Yongdai.
Don't forget the persistence of your original idea.
We have been married for 35 years. But Ding Yongdai is still like a new acquaintance. He can't say any sweet words. In The Venus Show, Venus regrets that Ding Yongdai didn't propose, but perhaps it is not important for his wife to talk about love and make promises. After all, life still depends on men's practical actions.
Although Ding Yongdai will inevitably have some intimate scenes in the filming, he knows how to grasp the discretion better. Acting is acting, and you will never bring the content of the script into your life and get too close to other actresses. I believe this is Ding Yongdai's attitude towards his wife.
Nirvana in Fire was broadcast on 20 15, and finally became popular through the role of "Emperor Liang". He vividly interpreted Emperor Liang's paranoia and made him shine among the actors. And "Emperor Jiajing" in "Under the Golden Clothes" last year. Ding Yongdai let more young people see his works.
This year, Ding Yongdai is still in the front line of actors. Ding Yongdai has become more and more popular with age, from Settled, which was broadcast at the beginning of the year, to Trident, which was very popular some time ago, to Crossing the Yalu River, which is being filmed now. However, regardless of his career or married life, he still maintained his initial intention and was praised by the media as "the cleanest actor in the entertainment circle".
In this life, Ding Yongdai has always adhered to his beliefs. Be a real actor, make a living by acting, and be worthy of the director and audience. A man who makes love is loyal to his partner and has a clean wife. Is there anything wrong with saying "clean" in Ding Yongdai like this?
Young couples are always together. Now 62-year-old Ding Yongdai believes that besides busy work, she must also enjoy the happiness of a happy family. My grown-up son went abroad to study, and his wife accompanied him to take care of himself. What's not satisfactory about such a life? Perhaps, as Ding Yongdai said, "Happiness comes at the right time".
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In fact, if you think about it carefully, life in Ding Yongdai is simple and smooth. From the beginning, I met that warm-hearted person and married her. Today, after 35 years of ups and downs, no one has let go of each other's hands. So has my career. I started from a young actor step by step, trying to shape every role, and I have achieved what I am now. The world always says that life should be "down-to-earth", and I think this is probably the case.