There is a saying that "we can only allow ourselves to say that we are not good, and others can't say a word". For example, if your girlfriend says she is fat, you don't know how to break up if you agree at this time. How can a girlfriend say that she is fat correctly?

First, analyze the girlfriend's situation.

Girlfriend said she was fat. Before you answer, you have to analyze the reason why your girlfriend said so. Is your girlfriend really fat? According to your girlfriend. Generally speaking, girlfriends say that they are fat in the following types:

1: Really fat.

2. hate type

3: Size can't buy your own clothes.

4. Climb the peak type bravely

5: Injured type

Second, different situations have different answers.

1, if this girl is not fat at all (girls who are not fat say they are really fat, which really makes us fat girls angry)

Reply:

Your figure is very standard. Well, it may look a few pounds thinner than the average girl ... this is the legendary answer, thank you.

2. She is really fat.

I can't help it, but you don't have to agree with her that you are really fat. You can say that the present situation seems to make you very likable and turn to praise, but you must be realistic, otherwise you will look hypocritical and she will feel uncomfortable. The other one can say that she is excellent. If she can consistently lose weight, she must be a stunning beauty. That's even more worrying

She is just a little fat.

This kind of girl usually cares more about her appearance and what others think of her, so you can ask a big question at once, but there is no need to say that she is not fat in essence, but she just can't see the essence. Or if the opportunity is right, you can say: Have you lost weight in any way recently? I see that I am thinner than before. If she is more modest, you can say that I don't feel thin, but I feel a little plump. If she still says that she is fat wholeheartedly, I will also say that she is close to the standard figure, just try harder.

4. Best answer

Whether you are really fat or not, you can answer this way: your face is still so small, but your chest seems a little big.

This answer did not immediately respond to the girlfriend's question that she was fat, but only responded to the girl's question. Besides, my girlfriend has gained weight. Should we tell her? But even if your girlfriend shouts "I'm fat again" every day, she expects to hear things like "you're not fat" and "you have a good figure" from others. This response not only praised the girl, but also admitted that she had gained weight. Even if it is not an objective fact, the girl must be very happy to hear it. You grow an inch taller, and I love you an inch more. This is definitely true love. True love will not abandon each other, no matter what the other person's weight becomes, love will continue as always.