? What about rebellious girls?
1, personality change. The most intuitive performance of rebellious girls is the change of personality. Began to resist the demands of parents and teachers and refused to obey. Impulsive and aggressive, vengeful, do not allow yourself to be bullied. Increase independence and self-awareness, pursue so-called freedom and equality, and don't want to be obedient children. From good children to disobedient children.
I don't like studying, I like dressing up, I like fashion, I like dressing like an adult, so I am proud of it. She doesn't want to study. She doesn't listen to the education of teachers and parents and studies hard. I began to pay attention to some fashionable things, and even began to like dressing up to attract the attention of other opposite sex. The mind has no learning at all. I have a negative attitude towards learning.
3. Be self-centered. More is the idea of "I'm not wrong". I am not controlled by my parents and like to indulge myself. I always have problems with my parents because of some small things. I have my own ideas and feel that my parents can't understand me. Even very disgusted with the communication between parents. Adolescent girls still have a lot of rebellious behaviors. Parents should give understanding and appropriate communication, and try to solve rebellious behavior.
I like to do things that have nothing to do with study. Girls in the rebellious period are full of energy and lack interest in learning, and their attention will be distracted by other things around them, such as reading novels or falling in love. When a school becomes popular, girls' attention will be quickly distracted, such as knitting towels and watching TV dramas, and girls will be immersed in it, and other things will be difficult to distract her.
5. Challenge the authority of rules and impact the bottom line. Girls in this period are rarely interested in things they don't like, and so are things their parents force them to do. They like to deliberately break the rules set before, and even put forward new requirements one after another, discuss conditions with their parents and bargain, and only do things that meet their own requirements. At the same time, it is also true at school. They are dissatisfied with the teacher's requirements and even encourage students to boycott and oppose the teacher.
6, began to pay attention to the opposite sex: such as good-looking boys, celebrities in the class. The opposite sex communication has gradually overcome the gang communication, and friendship has become more and more important in middle school life. For example, they will take the initiative to make friends in groups that have no contact in the past, or establish relationships with friends of the opposite sex.
7. Running away from home, playing truant, surfing the Internet and other serious bad behaviors.
She is a good girl in front of the teacher, but she is easy to be stingy at home, which makes people moody. They don't even want to communicate with their parents. They often feel indignant and angry at the criticism of adults. If her parents tell her the same thing over and over again, she will be angry.
Whose youth is not confused, I believe everyone has experienced a rebellious period, which is an indispensable part of the growth process. Therefore, when parents find their children in a rebellious period, don't worry, don't beat and scold, and let them listen to you. On the contrary, they should communicate more with their children, think more about their adolescent feelings and communicate more. It will be much better.