In my sophomore year, I fell in love with the president of our guitar association. Although his name has been forgotten many years later, his handsome appearance and melancholy temperament when playing guitar are still fresh in his memory.
I have never been interested in music and musical instruments, so I bought a guitar and joined the Guitar Association. My friend was surprised at my sudden interest in music. Only I know, it's all because of him. He was a junior at that time, and I always called him a senior.
At that time, Thursday was what I was looking forward to most, because the senior came to give us a class, and only in this way could I get in close contact with him. Every time he guides me, I feel that he is particularly kind and patient, and even once I feel that he is very affectionate. After a semester of unrequited love, I confessed to him. As a result, he politely refused. The reason given to me is that he is not going to have a girlfriend during college.
Encouraged by the dormitory people and influenced by the youth idol drama, I thought that as long as I was kind to him, he would gradually be moved by me. Shortly after my blatant courtship, he invited me to the school tea restaurant for milk tea. I thought he was moved by me, but he was so angry with me. This time, without euphemism or foreshadowing, he told me straight away that I don't like fat girls. I don't want my girlfriend to be so fat that I can't hold her waist when shopping. If you lose weight, can I chase you? Then he left, leaving me puzzled and sitting for a long time.
One day, I saw a slim girl beside him. His hand is always around her slender waist, and everything is just right. And he, a little less melancholy temperament, a little more smile.
My guitar career has since given up halfway, just as I like him.
Although my first love died before it started, the words of my senior have always been in my ear: I don't want my girlfriend to be fat and I can't hug her waist for shopping.
Yes, look in the mirror. Where is your waist? From then on, I made up my mind to lose weight. As a result, I also had a real first love. Looking at all kinds of youth idol dramas, the heroine may not be smart, may not have a family background, may not have a degree, and may not even be beautiful, but she is definitely light and slim. Youth and love have always been associated with thin girls. You are fat, you have no youth.
When I brushed WeChat before going to bed, I saw photos of their family of three traveling in Thailand in my circle of friends. The fruit in the photo is graceful, radiant and full of happiness.
Three years ago, when I first met Guoer, my image was very different from now. We met in an outdoor group in the same city. At that time, she was still a fat girl of 160 kg, with a straightforward personality and was quite popular. But what makes her headache is that her personal problems have not been solved. Coupled with parents' urging, we date five days a week. In her words, she is either on a blind date or on her way.
Frequent blind dates have not received any substantial results. Many men who fall in her eyes often lose sight of each other once. A bald old man offered to get along with her, but she refused. When the old man left, he muttered something and didn't look in the mirror. He is as fat as a bucket and thinks I am old. I wish someone wanted it.
Perhaps the old man's words stimulated her, and she took part in outdoor activities more frequently. After half a year, I was completely transformed. I not only lost weight, but also put on makeup, and my clothes are no longer monotonous outdoor clothes as before.
After he became thinner, there were more suitors. Soon, he was with a Gao Fushuai man, who was also an outdoor group. She said that when the man confessed to her, she thought she was dreaming, but she really wanted them to be together. Now that I have a baby, my life is as happy as a fairy tale.
It's good to have lost weight. This gives me the confidence to keep saying no. If I had known that I had started to lose weight long ago, my best years would have been wasted for so many years.
For a naturally thin person, everything is taken for granted. But for a senior fat man, I can feel the pain of missing the people, things and things I love because of obesity.
When I was in primary school, I couldn't take part in the class dance competition because I was fat. The teacher said that I would slow down the class.
In middle school, physical education class often couldn't find a partner because he was fat. This classmate said that he didn't want a teammate like a pig.
When I was in college, because I was fat, I liked a boy for the first time and was rejected. The boy said, I don't like fat girls.
Then I lost weight, and everything was as smooth and natural as hanging up.
In the past, there was a very popular article on the Internet, "Body reflects a person's accomplishment". The fire must have written the voice of most people and confirmed many people's three views. To tell the truth, if you are lucky enough to be fat and thin, you must realize the great difference between the fat and thin worlds. Although love and fatness are not necessarily related, your life must be related to your figure.
In my twenties, when I saw beautiful clothes, I could only walk away silently with saliva in my mouth. If you meet love, you can only watch him leave. Then why are you young?
Dear girl, I don't want you to lose weight because I want you to compare your figure with others, but I hope you will have the right to choose what you love and what you love in the future, and talk about a close love. Instead of being forced to combine.