I can't, I can learn;

I don't understand, please help me;

I was wrong, but I can change it.

These three sentences are like three magical spells, which can change you and make you thoroughly remould yourself.

The first sentence: I can't, I can learn;

This sentence is actually hard to say. Saying "I won't" is tantamount to admitting your ignorance; When some people say this sentence, there is obviously a kind of resentment and a little pride, but this state is not good, because it closes the door to their own change forever; People who realize that they can't change and are willing to keep an open mind are truly powerful people. They will learn and explore for themselves and demand themselves with higher standards. I can't. I can study. The short-term pain caused by study is like going to the gym to exercise. The tearing of muscles will make you strong. Dare to admit that you can't, keep a low profile, face the world with a welcome attitude, and be a growing person.

The second sentence: I don't understand, please help me;

Admitting that you don't understand is to admit that you have defects, expose your weaknesses, seek help from others, and complete cooperation through asking for help; Asking for help from others shows that you are highly motivated and eager to get help from others. Every time you ask for help, it is a connection. Asking for help is also a certain degree of self-exposure, exposing one's weaknesses. You trust each other's professional ability and goodwill.

"Please help me", asking for help is actually a very advanced skill. Learn to cooperate and build what you are good at into your core competitiveness. Then throw some ordinary things back to the market as soon as possible, and then connect and open through help.

The third sentence: I am wrong, but I can correct it;

It's even harder to admit mistakes. Some people think that letting him admit his mistake is simply humiliating him. They tend to be self-centered and desperately defend their correct ideas. People who can say this sentence are extremely modest and confident. The more successful they are, the more they know how to say this sentence.

My understanding is:

I can't, I can learn; It is a very effective guide for those who are willing to pursue self-growth. For those things that they don't understand, they will learn with an empty cup mentality and are not ashamed to ask questions, so that they can grow effectively.

I don't understand, please help me; Clearly know your own shortcomings, weaknesses and deficiencies, and you must know how to ask for help, so that it will be more efficient; People are not omnipotent, we just need to do what we are best at.

I was wrong, but I can correct it; People do have a variety of personalities, and it is difficult to force them; People who can admit their mistakes and are willing to correct them are open-minded and aboveboard, and they are also very excellent people.

These three sentences are encouragement to you who are eager to grow up!