2, our fear of age, in fact, does not lie in the aging brought about by the growth of age, but the fear that with the growth of age, we still get nothing.
What many people in the world need is not practical advice, but warm echoes.
-Haruki Murakami
If you have a cold and don't want to take medicine or have an injection, don't say you feel sick.
Rain and thunder, no umbrella outside, run like hell.
If you want to be invincible, don't cry when you fall.
Those who say that their hearts love you, will they suffer for you when they are sick? When you are hungry, will I cook for you? Will the rain open an umbrella for you?
Comfort is just warm nonsense. You always want to grow up on others. Are you a loser?
5, there is no need to let everyone know the real you, or you don't have to tell others what kind of person I am all the time. Because it is invalid, people will only be willing to see what they want to see. I even think it's good that you hide your true self behind these misunderstandings.
-Chen Danqing's Fear and Love of Our Time
6. If you want to be willful, you must learn to endure first, and you can be willful only if you can bear the consequences.
If you want to be independent, you must learn to be strong before you can be independent.
If you want unbridled love, first learn to forget. Only by forgetting the pain of lovelorn can we boldly love.
You can do anything, but only if you can't feel sad about the result.
The real strength of a person is not what he can do, but what he can bear.
-Ishida Ichiro
7. I have been reminding myself of one thing all these years and never touch myself.
Most people seem to work hard, but in fact they are just stupid.
Why do you stay up reading until dawn, and only sleep for a few hours for several days? How long has it been since you had a holiday? If these things are also worth boasting about, then anyone on the Foxconn assembly line is harder than you.
It is inevitable that people will feel sorry for themselves. Only by staying awake at all times can we see the real value.
Yu Zhou
8. Our whole life is to get rid of other people's expectations and find our true self.
-"silent confession"
9. A man downstairs is dying of illness. The family next door sings the phonograph, and the opposite one leads the children.
There are two people upstairs laughing wildly; And the sound of playing cards
There is a woman crying for her dead mother on the boat in the river.
The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected. I just think they are noisy.
-Lu Xun
10, obscene words and deeds don't care about the heart, and the heart is endless. The word "filial piety" doesn't care about anything, and there is no filial son for ten thousand years.
1 1, naturally not suitable for communication. Most of the time, I either find the other person boring, or I am afraid that the other person will find me boring.
But I don't want to stand each other's boredom, and I don't want to look interesting. That's too tired.
I am the most relaxed when I am alone, because I won't feel bored. Even if it is boring, I will bear it myself, without involving others, and I will not feel uneasy. -Zhou
12, I don't care about other people's past, largely because I have a past myself.
I know everything, but I regret it.
-Khalid Husseini
13, you always want to rely on others. In the end, you will find that you have survived every most difficult moment in your life.
14, run if you don't want to run today. This is the way of thinking of long-distance runners.
-Haruki Murakami
15, if you want to criticize the surrounding scenery, you must climb the roof first.
-Goethe
16, listen to others easily, let taboos hinder your vision, set rules for yourself, and live a routine life. I call this a second-hand life.
Liao Yimei
17, sometimes, we live very tired, not because life is too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by other people's emotions.
Walking in the crowd, we always feel that there are countless pairs of eyes sweeping our hearts and lungs, and there are many rumors, which eventually confuse our minds and gradually bind us in a mess we weave.
-white
18, once people are fascinated by their weakness, they will be weak, and they will fall on the street and fall to the ground, lower than the ground under the gaze of everyone.
Milan Kundera
19, once people get used to the life of always wanting something, over time, they may even be confused about what they really need.
-Haruki Murakami
20. Except for sleep, a person's life is only over 10,000 days.
The difference between people is that you really lived for more than 10,000 days, or you only lived for one day and repeated it more than 10,000 times.
-Pessoa
2 1, there are no accidents in the world, just necessities of make-up and wearing masks.
-Qian Zhongshu
22. If you get angry as soon as you hear an opinion contrary to yours, it means that you have subconsciously felt that your opinion is not fully justified.
If someone insists that two plus two equals five, you will only feel pity instead of anger.
Bertrand Russell
23. It turns out that life is a waste from beginning to end. All you need to judge is whether this waste is "beautiful". Do you think it's beautiful to ask yourself everything you do later? If so, then do it. From here on, let's resist fate and enjoy life. Wu Xiaobo
24. When you see a rose, you say it looks good, and when you see a snake, you say it's disgusting. You don't know that roses and snakes are close friends in this world. At night, they transform into each other, the snake's cheeks are bright red, and the scales of roses shine.
Say cute when you see a rabbit, and scary when you see a lion. You don't know how they shed blood and fell in love on a stormy night.
Yukio Mishima
25. Take others' suspicious eyes as lanterns and boldly go your own way.
-Shi Tiesheng
What you have to overcome is your vanity, not your desire to show off. You have to deal with the cleverness you always want to show off.
27. When you are old and look back on your life, you will find that when you study abroad, when you decide on your first job, when you choose to fall in love alone, and when you get married, it is actually a great change of fate. It's just that you were standing at a fork in the road and saw the wind and clouds. The day you made your choice was quite dull and ordinary in your diary. At that time, you thought it was an ordinary day in your life.
-Tao Jie is the girl who killed quail.
28. There is a big misunderstanding that office white-collar workers think their performance is better than their parents.
In fact, this is just a misunderstanding caused by economic restructuring. There is no essential difference between the people who do PPT in the cubicle of the company now and the women workers who stepped on sewing machines in those days.
Similarly, in the past, parents bargained for one point and two points in the vegetable market, which is similar to grabbing red envelopes now; Parents used to put a plastic bag on the remote control, which is similar to the current mobile phone. Nowadays, people who brush Weibo and circle of friends every day are no different from those who squat on the wall in the sun and smash melon seeds. ......
29. I despised my soul seven times.
For the first time, when it could have made progress, it pretended to be humble;
The second time, when it is empty, it is full of love;
The third time, between difficulty and easy, it chose easy;
The fourth time, it made a mistake, but comforted itself with others' mistakes;
The fifth time, it is freedom and weakness, but it is regarded as the tenacity of life;
The sixth time, when it despised an ugly face, it didn't know it was one of its masks;
The seventh time, it leans in the mud of life, though unwilling, but timid.
Kahlil Gibran
30. Do you know what is the greatest weapon of mankind? Is the determination to throw caution to the wind
Kotaro Isaka