Why can't I cry in confinement? People in the older generation said that after a few years of confinement and crying, there would be moon disease.

Don't let your mother-in-law cook a meal without appetite and want to cry if you don't cry;

Husband speaks a little louder and wants to cry;

I want to cry when I see the news that the child has been abducted.

Colleagues send WeChat greetings and want to cry without tears;

In short, women who are confinement often cry, and there is a saying that confinement without crying is not confinement.

Why do you always want to cry in the month? What happened to those crying mothers? Why can't I cry in confinement:

First, it is not conducive to the recovery of the maternal body. One of the hazards of confinement crying is that it will affect the normal recovery of maternal body. The confinement period is a critical period for maternal physical recovery. If the parturient is depressed for a long time during confinement and often cries, it will also adversely affect the recovery of the postpartum body of the parturient.

Second, it affects milk secretion, and crying in confinement also affects the harm of milk secretion. It is understood that the new mother's mood will affect the normal secretion of milk during confinement. When the mother is depressed, it is easy to cause the phenomenon of returning to milk, and even affect the nutritional composition of breast milk. Therefore, crying during confinement will seriously affect milk secretion, thus affecting the healthy development of newborns.

Third, it hurts the eyes of pregnant women. The harm of tears during confinement is to seriously affect the new mother's eye health. Does the mother who is crying in confinement feel that her eyes are tired and her eyesight will be affected? This is because tears during confinement will affect blood circulation, thus aggravating eye fatigue and even endangering maternal eye health, so you can't cry during confinement.

Nonsense, bad eyes. It's not good for your eyes to watch mobile phone, computer and TV now. Crying in confinement won't hurt your eyes. I have been there before. It is difficult to have the first child. I can't stand the inside thread. I cried day and night for eleven days, and I couldn't even straighten my waist. Later, the doctor removed the thread inside, and the pain stopped. My eyes lit up, no problem. I had three children in four years. thank you

Looking at this title reminds me of that horrible time more than ten years ago. People who have never walked, maybe you will never feel the feeling of lovelessness.

June 5438 +2006 10, my son was born. My husband, three brothers and sister-in-law just gave birth to a son in the same month. She is the second child. I am the first child. At first, I had a fear of children. I don't know how to bring it, I cry every day, I don't know how to coax it! There is no one around, and I take care of the children all day and night. Sister-in-law, on the contrary, mother-in-law has been helping them with it.

When I was pregnant, I didn't want to have children at all because I felt young. My mother-in-law vowed to bring it to me as soon as I was born and let me go out to work. That's why I had a baby. I thought I had no savings, and I would be reborn in a few years. They do ideological work.

As a result, I gave birth, and I brought it.

And my husband! I just want to play every day.

Looking at an innocent husband, a young child. No one cares about themselves, always full of grievances, and it is very wronged to think about it. Cry a lot. Tears always wet the pillow at night.

Not long after, I got hyperplasia of mammary glands. After all these years, it still hurts occasionally ... hey! Advise young people today to relax, but think more about their babies and don't get angry.

Hello, I'm Xiaoli, and I'm glad to answer your question. Your question is, why can't you cry after confinement? What happened to those crying mothers?

Let me talk about this problem. Young people are arrogant, and neither of them is convinced, so they are often angry. Just married, how can they not be angry? The food is delicious and difficult to cook. So they are afraid that women will be angry in the next month. Anger is not good for women at all, but it hurts the health everywhere. My cousin's sister-in-law is the root of the disease left by the next month, which leads to serious illness everywhere.

This is the case with the aunt next door. When she first got married, no one could fathom her temper. She was often angry. However, my sister-in-law unexpectedly got pregnant early. I don't think she will be angry anymore, but they are still the same. When it's time to make a move, my sister-in-law often cries and is still angry after several months of pregnancy.

We all advised my sister-in-law not to be angry because the baby is coming soon. Time flies for children. We are all very happy. My sister-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy for us, and my brother was very happy. But after two days, the two men began to get angry again, and my sister-in-law cried very sadly. We all say that my brother and sister-in-law can't cry after confinement. Well, we can't help it.

Alas, in my sister-in-law's confinement, I still often fight. The child didn't have milk for half a month, and the sister-in-law was angry. She cried every day for a month, washing clothes for the children alone, looking after the children alone, and my brother was looking for another job. Alas, it's hard to be a woman. My sister-in-law doesn't want to have children in the second month, and she doesn't do anything. She didn't eat chicken, fish or pig's trotters when she was confined.

But with the arrival of time, my sister-in-law is now in her fifties and has been praised for her health. The root cause of her illness every day is a severe headache, and she cries when she has a headache. Now she can't see clearly. She can't see the wind every day, and she keeps crying, and her clothes are cold in the month. But now my fingers are deformed, my back hurts and my arms hurt, and eating by myself is a problem. Alas.

This is the root cause of confinement. My sister-in-law is not very good at seeing a doctor, but she can't see it well. My sister-in-law is so sad in her life. My brother is not good to her, so my family is not good to her. All the dirty work was done by my sister-in-law. My sister-in-law gave birth to three children and takes care of herself every month. So now the child is old and in poor health. We all advised my sister-in-law not to get out of bed and lie down, but she wouldn't listen, so now.

The above are the roots of the disease left over from the next month, and now they have been shown one by one.

I am the mother of two children. I cried twice a month when I gave birth to my younger brother.

( 1)

The second day after my brother was born, he was found to have excessive jaundice. The doctor in rounds told me a bunch of possible situations, which scared my husband and me half to death. Agree to treat the child.

The doctor also said that this maternity hospital has no beds for children and needs to be transferred. Transfer to a very good hospital. We agreed in fear.

Usually, doctors and nurses can answer questions in ten minutes, but this time it's very fast. After the doctor said 10 minutes, the ambulance came, the nurse left with the child in her arms, and my husband quickly followed.

I couldn't help crying as soon as they left.

Mother said, "Don't cry, crying next month is easy to get sick."

But how can I control it?

(2)

My brother stayed in the hospital for seven days and finally went home, but he couldn't breastfeed.

During his hospitalization, I specially asked my husband to buy a breast pump to suck milk on time to ensure the milk quantity.

Natural delivery and pure breast milk are the goals I set for myself when I was pregnant.

We practiced for nearly a week when our son was discharged from the hospital.

Once, my son and I were lying down and practicing. He cried and ate, and when he couldn't eat, he continued to cry and wanted to eat ... By the time I realized it, two hours had passed.

For two hours, my son didn't give up trying. He kept crying and tried to restrain himself.

I am very distressed. I immediately took out the breast milk stored in the refrigerator and gave it to him while it was hot, and he fell asleep safely.

He woke up in the middle of the night and was hungry. I tried for a few minutes, but it still didn't work, so I asked my husband to take the breast milk out of the refrigerator. The husband said, "Try again, maybe it will be fine after a while."

I suddenly collapsed and cried and said, "Do you know that our son practiced for two hours today? I am very tired, he is also very tired, and I feel uncomfortable ... "

When my husband saw it, he didn't say anything anymore. He quickly warmed the milk and coaxed me.

Fortunately, after this night, the next morning, he will be nursing.

At that time, I also shed tears, which were tears of joy.

I always thought he was a little warm man and suddenly ate until I knew that my mother was sad and distressed.

Now my brother is ten years old.

It's been ten years, and I haven't found any sequelae yet.

Moreover, my myopia has not risen, but has dropped by 25 degrees, and now it is 325 degrees.

There is no discomfort in the eyes at ordinary times.

The above is for reference only.

I really can't cry when I'm confined. It's not superstition, but the true feelings of a person who has experienced it.

When my best friend gave birth to her first child on confinement, her husband went to work nine days after giving birth because his husband's family was poor. She has been in Lacrimosa all day. In-laws are old again, and old ideas are at work. Eating a meal for a month left the root of the disease. Now I'm in my forties, I have stomach trouble, I don't know how hungry I am, I don't want to eat all day, and my eyes are failing. Double vision and decreased vision, dry eyes and tears, dry and itchy eyes, ... many eye diseases made her suffer. It's no use remembering to scold her husband. The disease that fell in the second month is difficult to treat and very painful. It is not superstition that young women of childbearing age are advised not to cry in confinement. It's too late to regret when their physical function deteriorates and they get sick.

1, the hormone level in the newly pregnant body has not returned to normal. At this time, excessive sadness will lead to vasoconstriction and lochia discharge.

2. At the same time, crying and depression in the second month will also affect the endocrine changes of hypothalamus, pituitary and ovary, and affect the production of prolactin. Some women will resume breastfeeding. Needless to say, the importance of breast milk to the baby, so for the healthy growth of the baby, the mother needs to maintain a peaceful attitude.

3. There are many mothers with postpartum depression, all of which are caused by long-term depression. If you have any questions, don't hold back, don't be too busy crying, communicate with your family and friends and ask for their help.

Crying is a way to relieve stress and adjust mood.

If you are in a particularly bad mood for the next month, there is no harm in crying once in a while, but it is not good to hold it in your heart. Especially postpartum depression should be paid more attention to!

It is normal for postpartum estrogen and progesterone to drop rapidly, causing mood swings and Ma Bao sensitivity.

For example, the mother-in-law is not good at cooking, no one helps to wash clothes, the house is in a mess, no one cleans up, the husband talks heavily, the child always cries, can't sleep well at night, and the baby is sick and has a fever, which may cause the postpartum mother to cry.

Therefore, it is wrong not to cry for the next month. It is ok to cry occasionally to relieve mental stress!

Of course, everything turned out to be the opposite, and I often wanted to cry the next month. I should consider seeing a doctor. To rule out the possibility of postpartum depression, as a husband and mother-in-law, we should also spend more time with our daughter-in-law, chat with her and obey her temper. Most postpartum depression will disappear automatically within 3-6 months after delivery.

Why can't you cry in confinement?

Excessive exertion during childbirth can lead to high intraocular pressure, especially for mothers with high myopia, which is easy to cause retinal detachment.

Therefore, postpartum mothers should pay attention to rest, watch less TV, play less mobile phones, and pay attention to protecting their eyes. Some mothers may have blurred vision, so we should pay more attention.

Stimulating adrenaline to rise in the process of crying will make the heart beat faster, pupils dilate and blood vessels contract, which will cause blood pressure to rise. All these will do harm to Ma Bao's eyes and cardiovascular system, and will also affect the normal secretion of breast milk.

In short, it is ok to cry occasionally in confinement to release bad emotions, but don't cry often.

If you can't laugh as you like, crying is not necessarily a bad thing. Trouble with tears in the past, you are still strong after crying.

Wish you all the best!

The first child, twins, should be happy, but cried for a whole month.

Premature birth, rain in the country and power failure all happened together. My younger brother and sister were born pitifully, because they were young and ignorant. Midwives say they can't live to term. Grandma and mom hugged one, and held it in the incubator all night, but the last one couldn't stay. Later, experienced people can last for seven months, and they are freezing to death.

I thought I was frozen and cried. Cry at the thought, fall asleep, and cry when you wake up. I cried for a month.

After many years, I can't cry now. I have a headache and my eyes are not good. Although I won't cry in the wind, my eyes will be blurred and I can't see clearly in the wind, so I try not to be angry and cry now.