"Struggle is the father of all things." I know this is-struggle.
Everyone lives in this world, but everyone has a different way of life. Some people are rich and some people are poor; Some people are happy, some people are sad; Some people are happy, while others are miserable. There may be human factors in these differences, but I believe that more are human factors.
Most people are born with nothing less than others, which shows that the starting point is the same. However, there are many gullies and many bumps on this vast and long runway of life. In the face of these, some people are very lax, while others have been struggling. Therefore, those who succeed at the finish line always stick to the end and struggle to the end. Therefore, it goes without saying that the key to success lies in whether we can persist in our struggle on this runway of life. As long as we fight to the end, success will fall behind, no matter how many setbacks, no matter how bad luck.
Henry Fok, a famous real estate tycoon in Hong Kong. But who knows, today, Mr. Fok Ying-tung came step by step by a coolie worth 70 cents? The poor family background in childhood and the bumpy and tormented life in adulthood have tempered Fok Ying-tung's perseverance and cultivated his struggle temperament of striving for strength and enterprising spirit. During World War II, Japan expanded its own airport, and he worked as a coolie. His daily salary is 70 cents and half a pound of rice. At that time, he only ate a bowl of porridge and a piece of rice cake every day, and he was dazzled by hunger. After the suspension, Henry fok devoted himself to the transportation industry. After the Korean War broke out, he developed the shipping industry, and his business was very prosperous. Henry fok was not satisfied with his achievements in the transportation industry, but also entered the real estate industry. Since then, real estate has become the basis of his fortune.
Henry Fok's performance can tell us that all external factors are secondary, and the main thing is whether he has the will to struggle. As long as he struggles to the end, he will succeed in the end, and his fate will naturally change with our success.
A person's life is invented by himself, a wonderful life needs to be built by himself, and his fate is in his own hands. Everyone is the master of his own future.
Stop complaining about God's injustice and parents' incompetence. Start from scratch, start your struggle, start your change, let your struggle change your life, and let your destiny shine from now on! Remember: you don't lack anything more than others. Only by struggling, you will have a life that others love to win and a career that others yearn for. Fate-it's up to you to change!
In fact, in the struggle of life, you have changed your luck.
"Struggle is the father of all things."
The Will to Struggle Part II I met a high school classmate by chance last year. She hasn't seen me for five years since she graduated from high school. In her words, "it's really a surprise."
I don't know why she was surprised. Because five years ago, I was a careless, screaming "Renlaifeng", a "little fat girl" with elephant legs and bucket waist and poor taste in clothes. I haven't read any books, and I get nervous every time I read a study report in front of the whole class, and the word "connotation" has never bypassed me.
Four years in college and one year as a graduate student finally paid off in her "surprise" and incredible eyes.
Hard work is not hard, but after all, it is by strict exercise day after day to maintain weight. I lost nearly 30 pounds in the first three months, and finally maintained a healthy and stable level after rebounding once. My friends love to ask me about my weight loss experience and partial weight loss's secret. I thought about it carefully, and every method can be called a secret. The key is to be hard on yourself. At that time, there were few college classes and amazing willpower. There was nothing to delay and nothing to be lazy about. Spring, summer, autumn and winter, at 6 o'clock in the morning, the plastic runway of the school walked round and round, and the vitality that rushed out from the bottom of my heart turned out to be a floor.
There are many nights when the campus is shrouded in noise. Everyone is either laughing their heads off watching entertainment programs or dating their boyfriends downstairs. Their corner can only be shrouded in silence. Sometimes I will do a long yoga "hero" action on the balcony or do a long "wall handstand" on the bed. Sometimes listening to music, sometimes reading, but more time is silent. But the change is going on bit by bit.
What losing weight taught me is actually a very simple thing, but how to become a better self. But at the same time, it is a very difficult thing, because it requires strong self-control and self-discipline without any external coercion. I realized that persistence is just repeating a small thing day after day. Running, yoga, and all the other little things. This little thing may not be as relaxing and enjoyable as coming to Taobao, nor as enjoyable as coming to Weibo, but as long as we persist and repeat it day after day, it is not a long process from quantitative change to qualitative change, as long as we have enough patience. Like, in the eyes of others, I will never lose weight. It only took me three months to succeed.
Later, I took the postgraduate entrance examination and chose an unattainable prestigious school. Other people's disbelief is similar to when they say, "Look at her fat, she doesn't even have a waist." When will she lose weight? "Later, I got up at six o'clock every day, sat in the deserted study room for a whole day, walked back to the dormitory at eleven o'clock, and read books in the all-night study room of the dormitory. Hundreds of late nights, the school path was empty. The doorman helped me illuminate a short circuit with a flashlight. He said, "Little girl, why are you not afraid of the dark alone?" I shook my head silently. I just wanted to say that I am not afraid of darkness, cold and long journey. I am afraid that I have wasted my time and wasted my years. Later, I met other people's expectations and was heartbroken with my dreams, but I was lucky enough. The second time I chose to adjust smoothly, and finally I got a good grade.
Looking back on that time, I am still grateful. Time flies, so no matter what the road ahead is, there is only one desperate and hearty effort, as if all my blood and tears have been exhausted. Those words written by my friend are still in my notebook. She said, "We use the best years of our lives as collateral to guarantee a dream that will be laughed at if we say it." That winter will never be forgotten, and it was dark in the middle of the night, but I think the road ahead is long, the future can be expected, and all my dreams are clear and bright. It seems that only this time, I feel that my gloomy and narrow heart is full of hope, and a whole magnificent world is waiting for me to look back eagerly.
Over the years, through reading practice and organizing community activities, many weaknesses have been gradually overcome. I won a small place in the math competition, instead of being frankly sent a message by the math teacher in high school, "How can I save you, your math!" " People who are afraid of math and death. Taking part in speeches, writing poems and reciting, I was finally able to speak calmly in front of thousands of people. Read more and write more, observe and ponder bit by bit, let yourself find a place outside soap operas and entertainment news, and accumulate spiritual thickness flatly. Planning a rehearsal program for the party, sitting in the audience waiting for the curtain call on New Year's Eve, when applause and laughter fluctuated around me, I thought, ah, I can do such a thing myself. Growth does take hours. Others strive to get what they can get, but the feeling of increasing abundance is so memorable, and it is also such a diary that can be written in a rich and practical way.
The will to struggle is inspirational. Article 3 Even if you can't see the future direction, people who run hard will dilute the fog around them.
I am a part-time real estate dispatcher with a friend during the Dragon Boat Festival. It's not that I'm hardworking and capable, but that I'm really short of money. I feel my pocket jingling with a few pieces of steel.
Our captain is a post-80s student in Grade Three. He wears a pair of black-rimmed glasses, a white shirt and short hair. He has a gentle personality and will give a good impression at first sight.
We strolled in front of a small supermarket with a stack of property leaflets, and there were very few people. My friends and I pretended to greet passers-by and held the mentality of playing soy sauce. So many times, two people crowded together, talking and laughing.
I looked at captain Chen. He and several colleagues sat under the old tree on the street enjoying the cool, their eyes blurred. May be often wooing customers here, captain Chen's face is purple and his skin is dark. The friend said, look, the captain is squatting, so he wants a bowl.
The captain is very nice and talkative, so we chat with Team Chen just to be lazy. I said, you are so bored every day, exposed to the wind and the sun, with low salary and so hard work. Team Chen said with a smile, yes, even if it is hard, we still have to stick to it, even if we can't see the direction ahead, we still have to work hard.
My college life with my friends is empty and depraved. I wake up naturally in the morning, play cards and games at night, and go to the snack street next to me to eat and drink from time to time. Therefore, even if you agree and recognize his efforts, you can't feel the same.
We all know that life is sad, but when we are young, we are all emotionally sad. What is the specific sad object, you can't tell. Send a selfie in the social circle, accompanied by two groans of plagiarism, I hope the whole world knows that I am very sad today, so sad, so sad, come and comfort me.
Obviously, we have heard a lot of sermons and witnessed a terrible life, but we just don't understand.
Team Chen said, it's not that I don't understand, it's because I'm too young and I have no experience. Without experience, I have no concept. Without concept, it is not enough to pose pressure and challenge to you.
Team Chen graduated for five years, studied marketing in a second-rate normal school, moved to several big cities and skipped several slots, but always felt that he had jumped out of a slot and jumped into a pit. A typical hard-working man, the house is a dark and narrow low-rent house, the car is a bus, and I feel distressed occasionally. My girlfriend is very realistic, saying that she can afford a house before considering getting married.
His real estate company has a small facade, no hope of promotion, and works overtime on holidays. The salary cost a month's rent and living expenses, and even buying a mask for my girlfriend is a luxury.
However, the team Chen is still working tirelessly. The clothes are wrinkled, but they are washed in vain, and the skin is purple, but the smile that often hangs on the corners of the mouth never gives in to life. You can't see the direction clearly in the future, but people who run hard will dilute the fog around them. If you go the wrong way, you can change it. You can't see the destination, but if you move out, you will be better than the one that stopped. It's not that you have to go, but that you are stuck in the same place and you will be lost forever.
Team Chen said that there was no future and hope in working in this small company, so he resigned one month later to find another way out. When he said this, his face was firm and calm, and he couldn't see any shabby and hopeless.
I can imagine that when team Chen just graduated, like most graduates, his chest was full of ideals and ambitions. But now, all the directions of team Chen's efforts are very simple, with their own house, car, wife and children.
I know that today's Chen team is not material and realistic, but great changes have taken place in his life. It will wear away the edges and corners of your body, or break an axe drastically, or make minor repairs, but it will certainly make you develop in a direction suitable for society.
Time will deconstruct many things, including love, including emotion, including the understanding and definition of everything. In the end, the person you become will definitely be a person who works harder, is better and knows the definition and meaning of struggle better than before.
The significance of struggle is not how much you will achieve, but that you will live a little better than yourself in ordinary days, so that you will have less compromise on life, so that you have the strength to protect everything you like and the ability to do everything beautiful.
More importantly, try to make you the best you can be in the most beautiful time.