In life, we often like to listen to good words. When we do something, we always want others to support it, but we don't want others to oppose it. We always think that opposition is against us or against us, and we hate opponents. We lack the necessary courtesy to our opponents.

Opposition is really a kind of resistance, which makes us passive everywhere and puts us in adversity. But it is a kind of wisdom to be kind to those opponents, find out their own shortcomings and constantly improve themselves.

The "slimming" of Beijing Olympic venues is a good example. It is said that Beijing originally planned to build 10 new competition venues, but now it has been reduced to five due to the opinions of opponents. The main stadium "Bird's Nest" also came up with a renovation plan in the midst of opposition. Only canceling the openable roof can reduce steel consumption by more than 1 10,000 tons, saving investment by 250 million yuan. Officials from the Beijing Olympic Economic Office said that the implementation of the whole "slimming" plan will save at least several billion yuan. This is the effectiveness of rational use of opponents' opinions.

Emperor Taizong and Wei Zhi are one of the few interesting combinations of monarch and minister in the history of China. At that time, Emperor Taizong wanted to promote someone and have an image project, but Wei Zhi always opposed it, which was not good, as if he were the master of the world. Emperor Taizong was very unhappy. He tried to abolish Wei Raul several times. However, the calm Emperor Taizong tolerated and adopted Wei Zhi's suggestion, and the Tang Dynasty prospered with their joint efforts. The rational thinking of the opponents made Emperor Taizong famous all over the world. Dare to be an opponent, but also achieved the reputation of a generation of loyal ministers.

Opposition allows us to constantly examine ourselves, reflect on ourselves and improve ourselves.

If there is no objection, we are easily intoxicated; If there is no objection, we can easily immerse ourselves in impeccable joy; If no one objects, we may never hear the real voice again!

Have you found that some of our image projects, because no one objected at the beginning, ended up as a pile of "tofu dregs" One of our major initiatives was full of loopholes as soon as it was introduced, that is, there was no objection before it was introduced; The reason why our state-owned assets have lost a lot is because there was no "disharmony" opposition during the restructuring! ……

Not opposing can certainly reduce a lot of trouble, but in the voice of approval, we also cover up many problems. The so-called "unanimous vote" is sometimes just a whitewash.

A person's tolerance lies in whether he can tolerate and accept opponents; Similarly, the degree of civilization of a nation depends on whether it can tolerate opposition. At all times and in all countries, countries that silently govern the world without any opposition have no democracy and will not have long-term rule.

Of course, the opponents we refer to here are not malicious opponents, but opponents based on doing things well and building the country well. Is a well-meaning opponent, not a malicious attacker! We should be full of respect for well-meaning opponents. We should understand those opponents who insist on loneliness!

If society wants to develop, it must be reformed, and if there is reform, it must be opposed. Opponents often look fierce, but as long as their starting point is to do things well and not harm the interests of our country and people, then we should be kind to them. If the opponent's opinion is unreasonable, we just have to laugh it off; If the opponents' opinions are valuable, we will listen to them and improve our actions.