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But can the country really let bachelors marry by rectifying the sky-high bride price? Not necessarily. Afu, a 45-year-old bachelor in the village, danced with joy and shouted, "I can finally get rid of the bill." "Alfred has never worked. He is lazy. He only has two low-rise bungalows left by his parents. The hardest job he ever did was picking longan from the tree. Idling around all day, primary school culture and daily life depend on the relief of two married sisters. Enthusiasts in the village helped Ah Fu find a job as a janitor. Ah Fu's eyes widened. "I don't help people. I don't want to suffer, but the salary is still low. "Ah Fu doesn't have a rich life, but he has a rich problem. Since then, no one has helped him find a job.
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Older rural bachelors like Ah Fu are generally uneducated, unattractive, low-quality, lazy and have no car or house. This kind of bachelor can't get a wife even if he is given a bride price. If you don't give the bride price, why should a woman marry you? Figure Your home is ventilated and leaking? Don't you take a shower? Is the northwest wind in your home sweeter than that in other homes? Of course, the starting point of the eight departments to rectify the sky-high bride price is good, which reduces the problem that it is difficult for boys to marry. In some areas, the bride price is ridiculously high, with hundreds of thousands and millions of bride prices at every turn, allowing a small number of soul mates to fly away in front of the high bride price. Since then, Xiao Lang has been a passer-by. If the bride price of the woman's parents is not so important, it is also a beautiful thing for lovers to get married. But the bride price is a tradition handed down from China for thousands of years, and its existence is reasonable. Personally, I think it is reasonable to give some bride price money within the acceptable range of the man. After all, the daughter did not grow up drinking the northwest wind from birth to marriage, and the woman's parents also paid countless efforts and money, which must be admitted. Daughters spend money at their parents' home, such as getting sick, studying and so on. I finally graduated from college and earned money from work, but I got married again, earning money at my husband's house and spending little time with my parents. Therefore, giving a reasonable bride price money is a respect for the woman and a reward for parents to raise their wives. Excellent boys don't worry about not getting a wife at all, and there is even a phenomenon that several men in a family ask for help. There is a boy in the village named Amin, whose family is average, but the young man is filial to his parents and hardworking. Since childhood, he has been a top student, with good looks and figure. When I was a freshman, a female classmate secretly promised his heart. They secretly talked about love. The school is worried that puppy love will affect learning, so parents are invited to talk at school. The woman's father is the director of a city bureau. He is clever and capable. Seeing Amin as a "potential stock", there is a high probability of a straight rise. Such an excellent boy will be taken away by other girls if he doesn't decide early, so he happily praises his daughter for her vision to find a boyfriend. Amin's mother saw that the woman was smart, docile and beautiful, and also acquiesced in the late daughter-in-law. So the parents of both sides seem to agree with the teacher's opinion, but they don't agree with their children's puppy love. Instead, they secretly look at each other and call them "in-laws" with a smile.
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After the college entrance examination, Amin was admitted to a 985 university in Wuhan. Four years later, she graduated and worked in a company in Tencent, Shenzhen, with various bonuses and salaries, with an annual salary of one million. Many girls like Amin. When you meet him, you need a micro signal. Several matchmakers found his mother and said they would introduce Amin to his girlfriend, but the woman didn't want a bride price. But Amin only loved his female classmates in high school from beginning to end. After ten years of long-distance love, their girlfriend graduated from Hong Kong University and got a marriage certificate this year. Therefore, excellent boys don't worry about not getting a wife at all, and their mother-in-law doesn't dare to charge exorbitant prices. Some even don't want a bride price, but instead pay a dowry. Of course, there are 35 million men and 35 million women in China, and there are always some people who can't get married. Those bachelors have the following characteristics: not handsome, poor family conditions, no job, no room and no speech. The existence of bride price may make some poor women feel wronged for money and marry men who are not satisfied with them. Once the bride price is not allowed, these men lose the only capital that can attract women.
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We reject the sky-high bride price, but bachelors should not fantasize that the state will crack down on bride price so that they can get a wife without spending money. Understand the situation clearly, there are more men than women in China. It is necessary to reflect: why can others get a wife but not themselves? What is the reason? Only by finding the root of the problem can we treat both the symptoms and the root causes, strive to become strong, strive to become excellent while the iron is hot, and strive to get married and have children as soon as possible.