Whether for children's education or family happiness, fixed parent-child time is very meaningful for children and parents.
I have heard from many parents that children grow up at such a young age. In fact, they only depend on their parents for a few years. After that time, even if parents realize the importance of companionship to their children, children will not care so much about whether they are accompanied by their parents.
Therefore, when the child is still young, how to squeeze out some time to accompany the child, the parent-child time is guaranteed, and the relationship with the child will be closer.
I am a bloody example myself. When I was a child, my father had to go out to work, so he didn't go home until the Spring Festival one year later. I was brought up by my grandparents.
So many times when my father came back, I was very happy, but many times I didn't know how to get along with him, and I still felt more comfortable around my grandparents.
My sister is getting married on National Day. When I mentioned the follow-up event of giving birth, my future brother-in-law said that I could leave my child with my parents. My sister disagreed, saying that when you were young, your parents put you at your grandparents' house. Will you do this for the children in the future?
In fact, many parents are not unwilling to accompany their children, because there is really no such condition. Don't parents of those left-behind children want to stay at home and accompany their children to grow up? No, because they really have no choice.
It is helpless for other people's father and son to be separated, so we can squeeze out more time to spend with their parents. Why not spend more time with the children?
If you want to become more intimate with your child, you must first ensure the parent-child time. However, the situation of each family is different, so the choice is different when engaging in parent-child activities.
One of my university teachers mentioned earlier graduated from the University of Science and Technology with a master's degree, and now she is a lecturer at the university. Her husband is a doctor from the Chinese University of Science and Technology. I don't know what his occupation is, but it is also a highly educated family.
Children who grow up in such a family are destined to have a different parent-child time with their parents than other children.
Once I saw the teacher send a circle of friends with a photo of father and daughter sitting at the table quietly reading a book. It seems that the learning atmosphere is very strong.
But I was envious after reading it, because the children raised by such a family are likely to be knowledgeable in the future, and I directly ignored the possibility that two top students might give birth to a scum.
Of course, this practice of studying together as a parent-child activity is not the only activity I have ever seen. Naturally, I will often take my children out for activities to enhance my feelings.
For example, when I was in college, Dashushan was near my school. Whenever I have nothing to do on Saturday and Sunday, I will go climbing. There, you can often see pictures of parents climbing mountains with their children, and there are countless pictures.
This kind of parent-child activity is undoubtedly a very good activity in my opinion, which can not only enhance feelings, but also exercise.
Of course, there are many parent-child activities that are more suitable for the whole family, so I won't go into details here. As for the role of parent-child activities, in my original opinion, it is to enhance each other's feelings, to exercise and to cultivate a good habit of loving learning. Is that all?
Recently, I saw a video of cierre, the creator of watermelon video, which changed my view on parent-child activities. And the place where they started this parent-child activity was unexpectedly in the kitchen.
Why did I say that this video changed my mind?
After watching this video in Watermelon Video, the first thing that comes to mind is, why did few people choose to do this ingenious parent-child activity in the past?
Usually, when many parents choose parent-child activities, the theme is to give priority to companionship, give their children the companionship they deserve, and the family can enjoy parent-child time freely. One day is so happy.
What can children get from it after the past? There is almost nothing except the happiness brought by parents' company.
In Hile's video, although the protagonist has only one father and two sons, although the mother hardly participates in the whole process and just watches, this parent-child activity is very successful and has certain educational significance.
Parent-child relationship is indeed a way to make the relationship between parents and children closer, and both children and parents can gain full happiness during this time.
However, if we look at this question from a lofty point of view, can we use this parent-child time to realize a closer relationship with our children, and at the same time let them learn some life truths, not just temporary happiness?
As long as you want to teach, even in the kitchen, it is also a very good educational place, depending on how parents guide you.
Want to know how they carry out parent-child activities in the kitchen, you can go to the watermelon video search "cierre classmates", the parents of two little boys, and learn how to harvest knowledge together, learn how to harvest happiness in parent-child activities, and learn to understand at the same time.