Because of this, I have been afraid to have a second child. I'm not afraid of pregnancy, morning sickness, getting fat, childbirth pain and confinement. I didn't take a rest during pregnancy, and didn't go back to my hometown until 10 days before the due date.
When I was pregnant with a second child, I was still hesitating to want it. I'm really scared. Originally, a person I met in the city hospital wanted to go directly to the toilet. As a result, my mother-in-law insisted on giving birth in the town health center. Good thing she didn't listen to her. When the second child was well, she almost died. All the doctors in obstetrics and gynecology went to the rescue. As a result, the next day, she said that both of them were bleeding and were born in the village. I have no strength to speak.
Then I washed my bleeding clothes myself. Live directly upstairs and use diapers directly for the next month. The children took a bath, washed their asses and changed clothes. I washed my clothes and my children's clothes myself. My husband stayed at home for about 10 days. After he left, I ate three meals a day. My mother-in-law went upstairs at 8-65,438+00 a day and said that she was exhausted from serving me. Just three meals a day. In about 20 days, I went downstairs to eat with my child in my arms. Boil eggs upstairs in the middle of the night with a sterilizer and put some brown sugar. In the morning, I also want to eat something. I always say it's bad for my teeth and easy to get angry. I'm often hungry in the second month, and sometimes I'm hungry without milk, so let the supermarket across the street deliver something to eat. The most painful thing is that I have severe constipation. The toilet is on the first floor, and no one is holding the baby when going to the toilet, so I lose weight directly 1 10 kg, and 135 kg in the third trimester. Back in Xinzheng, my sister saw me and asked how I had a baby. I am so thin because of massive bleeding, severe anemia and pale face. I gained weight directly from all kinds of delicious food and stews 10 kg.
By the way, my daughter's clothes, shoes and hats were bought by her grandmother and aunt. It was originally said that grandma could make two small quilts. She told me that cotton is unnecessary, but it should be washable. It turns out that the fabric bought is inferior, and the lining is still cotton. Why do I know it's cotton? Because it hasn't dried for three days, I asked people if cotton is good. The key is that it can't be washed by machine. What if I wash it? number
Angelababy (Angelababy) was discharged from the hospital the day after delivery. This is a photo taken with my husband Huang Xiaoming at the gate of the hospital. Angelababy in the photo is still beautiful and slim. Wearing fashionable sunglasses, hard-soled leather boots, and even showing a sweet leg … Oh, my God! With such a figure and such a dress, can you tell that she just gave birth to a baby?
After giving birth, we covered our heads and faces, just like stealing a child from the hospital. My mother told me right after giving birth: wearing a hat and sleeping at night is no exception. Sleeves must cover your wrist, wear soft-soled shoes and wrap your heels ... otherwise, you will fall behind the disease. Under her strict supervision, although I resisted, I still held the idea that "mom is still good for me" and did it carefully. However, when sleeping at night, my hat slipped and my forehead was cold. Even in sweaty summer, I always feel a piece of ice on my forehead.
"Losing weight during lactation is a taboo!" I don't know if this is the voice of many new postpartum mothers, but it is a reflection of the lack of correct understanding of postpartum recovery methods. In order to ensure the quality of baby rations, many mothers have to put up with losing weight. In fact, it is possible to slim down and restore your body after childbirth and breastfeed your baby normally. The key is that mothers should take care of their own meals.
Take care of the baby at home, day and night, keep feeding and eating. After confinement, I gained weight 10 kg, exactly 140 kg. I have become a big fat man, especially with more and more fat on my stomach. The ugliness of my double chin makes me unwilling to look in the mirror! My arms and thighs are too thick for me to wear those beautiful clothes before. This gap really makes me almost collapse!
I just want to lose weight, but my family is determined not to let me, because I have to breast-feed my baby and look at the baggy swimming ring on my stomach, so I can't get dressed normally. The diet is still the same as the second month, 6 meals a day, but I am reluctant to go online all day and ask my mother how to lose weight. Fortunately, a mother recommended me a bra and clothes to wear, saying that I could lose weight. I'm beginning to doubt it. I have been wearing it since I received it. After more than two months, I lost weight 15kg, and I can put on my old clothes. The excitement can only be experienced by precious mothers, and my stomach is gradually flat. The whole person has lost a big circle than before!
Practice: 1, peel the crucian carp, cut it open and clean it, and then wash it thoroughly for later use. Add half a teaspoon of salt to boiling water, boil tofu for 1 min, and then cut into small pieces. 2. Put oil in the pot, add ginger slices after a little heat, and fry the fish on both sides until golden brown. 3. Add about 2/3 water to the soup pot. After the fire boils, pour the fried fish together with ginger slices, and keep the fire burning. 4. When the soup turns white, add the tofu pieces and continue to cook for 10 minutes. 5. When the soup is completely as white as milk, turn off the fire and add salt and coriander.
Ingredients: lettuce 1, prawn with knife amount 32, garlic 2, ginger 2, green pepper 1, raw flour 1 teaspoon, appropriate amount of oil and salt: 1, prawn with knife amount peeled, marinated with cooking wine, salt and raw flour for a while. 2. Sit in the pot, fry the shrimps (as soon as the shrimps change color in the pot, turn off the fire immediately to ensure that the shrimps are fresh and tender) and serve. 3. Leave the bottom oil in the pot, add garlic and ginger and stir fry, then add diced lettuce and stir fry. 4. Then stir the green and red peppers evenly, wait for the diced lettuce in the pot to turn dark green, season with salt and turn off the fire. 5. Finally, add the shrimps and combine the two flavors by the residual temperature in the pot.
Ingredients: 400g adzuki bean, proper amount of milk, 800g of water, 50g of crystal sugar, and a little condensed milk: 1. Wash adzuki bean and soak it in water one night in advance. 2. Put water into the enamel pot, water: red beans = 2: 1, cook over high fire for 40 minutes, pour in crystal sugar and cook for 20 minutes, then open the lid and stir slowly with a spoon until the crystal sugar melts to avoid burning the pot. 3. Turn off the fire and let it cool, then sieve, remove the bean skin and put it in the refrigerator. 4. Put the red bean paste and milk into the pot according to the ratio of 2: 1, and heat and mix well. 5, according to personal taste, adjust the sweetness with condensed milk.
Postpartum depression, I tried to jump off a building with my child in my arms several times, fearing that the floor was too low to die (the third floor of my house), and finally I got my life back.
After giving birth, the mother-in-law said, "I don't know what you want to eat?" So, I have no food to eat. Later, I was so hungry. I want to drink some porridge for three days. On the first day, my mother-in-law gave me a small bowl I'm still hungry after drinking it. My mother-in-law said, "I did it on purpose! I just want to starve you, who told you not to eat well during pregnancy and starved my grandson! " Well, my mother-in-law thinks I have to eat three bowls of rice every meal, and less than three bowls is equivalent to not eating. The next two days were sent by my father-in-law, and it didn't taste right. Later, my father-in-law accidentally let it slip and learned that the next two days were all cooked in the hospital cafeteria, fearing that I would be sad and didn't tell me.
My parents' seven aunts and eight aunts, including my 80-year-old grandfather, sent me chickens and eggs, 8-9- 10! My mother-in-law felt that there was no place to raise them, so she gave them to her colleagues (her colleagues gave birth to a second child a week later than me), and I drank two bowls of soup for the rest. At the end of the month, my mother-in-law said, "I don't want to eat chicken anymore." I'm scared. " I have gained several pounds this month. "
Before giving birth, my mother-in-law said every day, "I was watering vegetables a few days before giving birth!" " No one cooks for me after giving birth, and my mother-in-law doesn't care about me. "Later, she really left me alone, but by the way, she stopped her son from taking care of me: she didn't help me wash clothes. It's okay. I bought a small washing machine in advance and didn't let my husband wash it. Well, I have my own washing machine.
I didn't cook for me, but I ate the rice my parents brought me. It's okay. I cooked the eggs myself (she also complained, "Why are the eggs gone again?"? I clearly remember 40 ")
The child cried, and she blamed me for not breastfeeding, which made the child hungry. At night, when the child cried for milk, she knocked at the door, and all the sleeping children were scared to cry by her. Sometimes they forget to lock the door. She directly punched me, scolded me for not taking care of my children, and directed my husband: "You can't help here, you still can't sleep well, go to the guest room!" Then, the mother and son parted ways.
The most amazing thing is that during the period when I gave birth to my baby in the hospital, my mother-in-law took 15 days off, and left me alone for a day. She came to see the baby at 9 o'clock every day and left after reading it. I asked my husband, "Where's mom?" "Sleeping at home, she said she couldn't sleep well when you were at home."
Then, on the day of discharge, she kicked our mother and son out of the ward and packed things by herself, saying that fear of dust was not good for our mother and son, and I was particularly grateful. But my mother-in-law ordered the family to get on the bus and leave, leaving, leaving, a five-minute drive, and I waited for half an hour without waiting for anyone. Later, my colleague who came to see me sent me home, and then I couldn't enter the house because I didn't bring my key. They are eating out.
Actually, I really don't think my mother-in-law needs to be nice to me. After all, I have nothing to do with her except a man. I just hope she doesn't make trouble and don't treat me like an imaginary enemy. If she thinks her daughter-in-law is here to rob her son, then she should be with her son. Why should she let her son get married?
I did a lot of good things in my last life, so I met a good mother-in-law, who cooked me four meals a day, washed my children's diapers, washed my clothes and underwear, and the month was not clean. If it weren't for the milk, my mother-in-law wouldn't let me go out of the bedroom door in the morning, and brought the washbasin in to wash it and buy me kaisai dew, because there is no toilet at home and the toilet is not at home, so I can't go out every time I shit. My husband went to Shanxi for confinement 100 days, and I was confined to Henan for 30 days. They said that Shanxi was different from Henan, so they gave me millet porridge for fear that I would choke on hard food. I went out for 42 days, and everyone here said I didn't have a confinement. I really can't hold back and don't want to finish it at home. I'm only 2 1 year old. As soon as I went out, I heard people say how I got out. It was put on in less than 100 day, because confinement is in April, and it is not cold. My mother-in-law said I didn't want to say I was unhappy. I want to do my best. After all, it's all scientific confinement now. It's good for me and the baby. It's mutual. He is good to me, and I am good to him. I spent more than 2000 on her confinement. She bought a gold ring, and before she got married, her mobile phone broke down. I bought her a mobile phone, clothes and shoes for her birthday. Although I bought her a mobile phone, she gave me her sister-in-law ring the next day. I didn't bring it for two days. After all, that's her own daughter. I don't care. I just tried my best. Finally, I attach a photo and wish you all a nice day.
I have been pregnant three times in my life. My three children have just entered my in-laws' house, and their thoughts are very simple. I think if I am kind to others, others will be kind to me. My mother-in-law took care of me for the first time, cooking in one pot, that is, three meals a day and a bowl, all eggs, brown sugar, millet, stir-fry, and I haven't seen animal oil or fruit on trees for a month. Later, I told my mother-in-law that frying some animal oil would smell a little fishy, and the children would have milk to eat. His old man said that milk should be chewed, so let the children chew it hard. It hurts when you chew your nipples. Later, I said, you can't get oil. Chop it up and put it in the dish. She replied, I don't care about the moon, and I never did. My tears can't stop flowing like a broken bead. People get angry when the moon is over. I will let my husband do nothing, at least I can eat something hot and not get angry. After so many years of marriage, not to mention my clothes and children's clothes, my mother-in-law has never touched her hand. How can I remember her benefits? Sometimes I convince myself that she can't live without her mother-in-law? This is my real mother-in-law, but when she met everyone outside, she said that I took my daughter-in-law as my daughter-in-law, but my heart was crying and bleeding. I don't want to be picky in front of outsiders, but I am silent. I know the taste through my own experience.
In the second month, because I didn't stew the last meal, I had acute gastroenteritis, so my grandmother watched the children all night and was hospitalized. That night, my grandfather smashed the house! Grandma said it was hard for her to die. The next morning, she pulled out the infusion bag or bottle and hurried home! Less than two hours after returning home, her husband's seven aunts and eight aunts came to vent their anger on her grandparents, saying that they would either live a personal life or break up with the old one! On the afternoon of the last breath, my husband bought milk powder for his children by bike and fell down on the way! Lie in bed! The incision I gave birth to has not healed for more than two months! The knife has been running, then coaxed the child and waited on her husband in bed! No one helped the supreme leader. At that time, his heart was dead and he wanted to cut his family to pieces! Now the child is one and a half years old and has been taking care of himself! Left a disease! Hmm. How interesting
I've been grounded twice. The first time I was 27 years old. At that time, my mother had been taking care of me, and my mother-in-law came to see me twice the next month because of her busy business.
It's really hard to miss my mother now. Besides breastfeeding, I won't be allowed to hold my baby at other times, so I can rest more. And the baby is not very good in the second month. He never sleeps well at night. He slept soundly in his arms and woke up by the bed. As a result, my mother held him almost every night. Now that I think about it, I think of the picture of my mother sitting on a small stool with her baby leaning against the wall (because I slept shallowly, she didn't sit on the bed in order to let me have a good rest).
During the day, the baby began to sleep well, and she was still busy cooking for me, cooking for the whole family, washing clothes for me and my baby, and doing housework ... A month later, my mother lost nearly 20 pounds.