Marriage is the end of love and the starting point of home.

When two people who love each other come together because of their hearts and decide to get married because of love, it is to form a new family and prepare to be together for life.

But the reality is not as beautiful as imagined.

In this era, there is no need to get married for a lifetime, and children are not enough to be the bond of marriage.

So, should we get married slowly?

If you are like He Jie, will you be happy?

Recently, He Jie made a series of videos on his personal social platform.

The content of the video is to bring goods, but outside the theme, she also revealed that her family is perfect and her words are full of happiness. Finally, He Jie didn't forget to refute the rumor, revealing that he only had three children, not four as mentioned on the Internet.

Former singers are now surrounded by the topic of marriage and children, and it is inevitable that they will be embarrassed.

In the eyes of the public, He Jie has always been a lover, and her actions in love have always been crazy.

For the sake of love, she gave up her career, gave up her word of mouth, and lived in a way that the public did not understand. Obviously, she could develop better.

In 2005' s Super Girl, many talented singers were selected, and the singing skills of Jane Zhang and He were admirable.

He Jie is also one of many excellent singers.

With her gentle voice and sweet looks, He Jie successfully made her debut in the fourth place. Since then, I have been busy releasing albums, singing and being a professional musician.

Just when the audience expected He Jie to shine in the music world like Chris Lee and BiBi Zhou, she fell in love.

This love completely put my career behind me.

He Jie's first boyfriend was Ashton Chen. They were photographed in the same frame, and then they disappeared.

It wasn't long before He Jie burst into tears at the press conference because of the breakup.

I can see that it is really emotional and really hurts my heart.

However, this lovelorn love did not stop He Jie from yearning for love. Then, she met He.

He is a little-known actor, basically a supporting role. According to He Jie's fame at that time, there was a big gap between them in their careers.

But He Jie expressed his willingness to work with each other.

He Jie's immaterial side shows her bravery in love.

One year after the official announcement, He Jie happily entered the marriage hall. Then she gave birth to a son, a daughter and two children at the rate of one child a year.

The husband and wife are still showing their love in the variety show. The appearance of the two sprinkling sugar made the audience once fall into their sweet love.

Unfortunately, this sweetness only lasted for three years.

On October 2016165438+10, the divorce war between He Jie and He was officially staged.

He Jie first played a weak woman and pointed the finger at He.

When recording the program, He Jie said sadly, "I won't get married again.".

Just when the audience was angered by He Jie, she quickly married the drummer Diao Lei and gave birth to a daughter. The speed is amazing.

Divorced on 20 17, and gave birth to the third daughter on 20 19 June. He Jie's divorce and remarriage took only two years.

It stands to reason that a woman who is heartbroken by marriage and has two children will no longer believe in love easily.

But He Jie is different.

She can divorce her ex-husband and enter a new marriage at the same time.

When netizens didn't understand her behavior, He Jie explained that she met the right person at the wrong time, so she was not understood by the audience.

Even though the outside world is full of controversy, He Jie still loves him bravely.

Behind this loneliness, it is inevitable that there will be impulses.

In the rising period of her career, He Jie devoted all her energy to the process of marriage, having children, divorce and remarriage.

So that during that time, the topic about her was wrapped in family chores, and her reputation plummeted.

Sadly, there have been rumors of discord in the marriage between He Jie and Diao Lei.

The girl who used to be lively and love to sing always devoted her best time to love.

Q, is it worth it?

Even people in the entertainment circle think it's not worth it.

At the beginning of the year, He Jie participated in a program "Voice from Heaven". After the song was finished, her tutor Ding Taisheng pointed out that He Jie's voice was flawed and she was sorry for her performance.

When He Jie asked why he regretted it, Ding Taisheng directly said:

Looking back at the starting point of 15 years ago, what Ding Taisheng said is really reasonable. Jane Zhang of that session has made great achievements through experience.

He Jie, on the other hand, has a love-hate relationship, which makes many people forget that she is a singer.

However, He Jie dismissed Ding Taisheng's view, saying: I did what I should do at the right age, and I don't regret it.

Rational people choose their careers, while emotional people choose their families. I think He Jie should be the emotional person.

Maybe what she wants is never career achievement, but the happiness of being a mother and a wife. Therefore, she has faded out of the entertainment circle and unswervingly chose love in the criticism and questioning.

Everyone has his own choice in life, but the price of He Jie's choice is really heavy.

For the first marriage, she devoted all her energy to her family during the rising period of her career and realized her wish to hold them for three years.

For the second marriage, she caught herself in the cusp of public opinion. Although she has repeatedly explained her innocence, the comment area is still unsightly.

With these reproaches, He Jie, who is still firm to herself, is still too hasty to love.

The famous educator Daisaku Ikeda once wrote:

It is true that the purpose of love is to get to know each other and consider whether two people are really suitable for a lifetime.

Obviously, in these two marriages, He Jie was so devoted, fell in love and got married quickly, and then gave birth to children non-stop.

Regardless of the transition period of love and the running-in period of marriage, He Jie just fell in love and had children.

Marriage should be based on a lifetime together, and children should also be the crystallization of love.

Every happy marriage is inseparable from a rational thinking.

People who are too emotional tend to fall in love with their brains and pay an unworthy price more easily.

In any case, life is your own choice, not seeking mistakes, but seeking no regrets.

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