? The word "future" sounds familiar. From primary school, even earlier, perhaps in kindergarten and childhood, parents and teachers can't stop talking about the future to their children and students, and at the same time, they can't help but interpret it as an ideal. Although children and pupils don't know much about it, the expectations of adults are getting higher and higher. They can't wait for their children to get pregnant in their mother's womb and start prenatal education, instilling in them ideas about the future, although some of them.

A former colleague told me that when she was just pregnant, her husband put a small tape recorder on her belly and gave it to Beethoven every day, hoping that he or she would be born smart and have a bright future. Although it's been a long time, it's still unclear whether the child has musical talent and hopes to become a grass-roots singer like Po, but I still remember my parents' expectations and even the expectant mother's serious expression at that time. I can't help but say, poor inheritance, how they are willing to imagine and do is not too much.

Another mother told me: My daughter went out for graduate school and returned to China. She stood out in the interview of the competitive job-hunting army. After two or three rounds, she was hired by a well-known company to do data analysis. As a newcomer, her salary income is still optimistic in first-tier cities, which is envied by many young people. That's it. It's hard to find a job. Speaking of Chinese New Year, it has faded in her eyes. Recently, she is actually preparing to resign. Reason: "Can't see the future." I asked my friend what was going on. She said that what her daughter saw was not how much money the company gave her now, but that several departments were facing a rapid decline in performance and dissolution in the depressed market environment, and the company had a trend of weakening from strong to weak. Seeing that the company has "several offices in one", she couldn't wait for the boat to turn over and try to swim ashore.

I asked my friend: "In the cold winter, the company is tightening, some people want to leave, but some people will stay." Weight loss companies, or the last stop, will make a comeback. If your daughter has no more suitable place to go, she might as well stay first. After all, it is not too little to get money now. " But she said her daughter was different from herself. What the child thinks is that although the company can pay her rich labor remuneration for the time being, no one can last long.

? What I heard from my friends means that young people are concerned about the "future" now, not the short-term "money way", but the company's vision and personal promotion space, rather than the company's superficial "money". They are afraid that the sun will be muddy and "sinking" after three days.

? Hearing this, I applauded her daughter. Now that she has made such a choice, she is confident and not afraid of being screened again. It is not a bad thing that young people give their lives and throw themselves into the wind and waves.

? In contrast, mothers who retreat before the storm, adventure islands, and soft dolls who retreat to their homes because of difficulties, that is, lie flat, are not more worthy of encouragement and support than friends' daughters and those who are as good as her daughters.