We have been longing for and asking, what is people living for? Different people will have different answers. The same person has different ideas and interpretations at different times. This proposition may never have only one answer. But in my limited career, looking at some of my life experiences and countless things in the world, I want to say that life is an experience.
Everyone has desires, always dissatisfied with their present situation, hoping to get more things, especially what they don't have. I long for warmth when I am cold, friendship when I am lonely, wealth when I am poor, nobility when I am humble, happiness when I am in pain, richness when I am poor, passion when I am ordinary, and success when I am mediocre. ...
Life needs some desires and needs to constantly show yourself. Without desire, there is no brand-new experience, just like a stagnant pool, which can't arouse any ripples. Although a rich life is not necessarily a kind of luck, a plain life is undoubtedly a kind of cowardice, and a poor life is undoubtedly a kind of sorrow.
Everyone wants to enrich their life experience and make their limited life more exciting. In today's pluralistic society, it is almost a fashion to experience things that you have never experienced. Everyone chooses his own life experience within his own ability.
Everyone has a restless heart. When I was young, I was obsessed with national defense green, and I always dreamed that one day I could stand guard for my motherland with a gun. However, when I really became a soldier, I had a little regret. Some directors are also thinking about opening a drink shop on the beach one day and living a carefree life; Farmers hope to be able to sit in the position of director, master power and give orders. For example, traveling is to let yourself go to more places, see more things and know more about the world; Rural people come to work in cities to see the world, and people who have lived in downtown areas for a long time begin to buy villas in the countryside to experience the pastoral scenery; Rich American businessmen are willing to spend 20 million dollars to experience space travel, while ordinary people are willing to spend 10 dollars to experience the feeling of roller coaster. Xiaogang Feng's film "A Party and A Party" tells such a life experience, and everyone comes up with some strange experiences to please themselves. Indeed, if a person only engages in one occupation in his life, he will only have one life experience; And if a person engages in ten occupations in his life, he will have ten life experiences. Compared with the last one, he lived ten times.
Some life experiences are chosen by oneself, while others are forced. Usually, a person will unfortunately encounter all kinds of setbacks in life, such as dropping out of school because of poor family, failing in the college entrance examination, falling in love, failing to meet his talents, being suppressed, suffering a major blow to his career, and even committing crimes. If you believe that life is actually an experience, you may not have to worry about these setbacks in life, or even go to extremes. If you have a broad mind, you will even appreciate these unexpected changes, because it enriches your life experience and gives you a deeper understanding of life and life.
As the saying goes: how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain; Without the pain of failure, how can we appreciate the joy of success?
In fact, there is no ultimate goal in life, only process, and process is experience.
I also fantasized about my life experience plan: being a farmer for one year, planting rice fields in my hometown into a blue sea and enjoying golden harvest in a beautiful autumn; Do a business, travel all over the north and south, see the ice and snow in Yandong, Harbin, and blow the sea breeze with Hainan smell; Then take part in a war, experience the heaviness of soldiers in the flames of war and smoke, and write two lines of tearful poems between dusk and dawn ... If so, how rich my life experience should be!
The problem of life is indeed an old and young topic. Everyone will inevitably think from birth. When he has enough experience and realized a little truth, it is time to say "goodbye" to the world, leaving only a few words to "warn" future generations, but later people just don't believe these things and have to experience them personally, so they repeat the practices of their predecessors. Generation after generation is endlessly repeating. Perhaps this is the charm of life itself. Only when people are always full of curiosity and inquiry about the world will they have the motivation to live. If one day mankind reveals all the mysteries of this world at a glance, it will probably come to an end.
But in any case, taking life as an experience, I think it is a very neutral explanation, stripping the limitations of outlook on life and world view, and looking at life with a very open mind. Life is an experience, and feeling is a contrast. People who fall into the wealth nest at birth will not feel happy, and people who fall into the poverty heap at birth will not feel particularly unfortunate. The most tragic thing is to go from rich to poor, and the happiest thing is to go from poor to rich. If we regard all the happiness and pain, joy and sadness, success and failure, pride and frustration, success and frustration in life as a rare life experience, how can we give up and despair for a temporary setback?
Think of Martin Weaver, a Catholic nun who started playing sports many years ago-she is 55 years old. Later, she won 44 gold medals, silver medals and bronze medals in various sports, including 5000-foot race, snow boots race, speed and figure skating, and basketball free throw line jumper.
At the age when most people began to compete for gold medals, Sister Martin was already a member of the Evergreen Mine Competition in Los Angeles and the National Evergreen Olympic Games.
"People become weak," she said. "I don't just mean physically. Everyone doesn't want to do anything beyond the limit. But unless you try, nothing will come of it. Age is by no means a stumbling block to dedication and love of life. The most important thing is to enjoy all the richness and sweetness of life. Do things for others, do things with others, never be afraid of your own limits, choose to win in life! "
It is undoubtedly a wonderful feeling to experience happiness, but isn't it also a kind of richness of life to experience suffering?
I remember in an American movie, the heroine once touched me deeply with a sentence: "Life is suffering". Although there are some religious colors, when we look at life with an experiential attitude, isn't it suddenly enlightened?
On the big stage of life, the key lies in self-expression.
Shakespeare said, "Life is like dancing."
This sentence is simple and true.
Life is a big stage and you are a dancer. Whether life is wonderful or not depends on your performance.
Day by day, life is expanding.
There are always some things that make you proud, causing ripples in the long river of our lives and breaking the waves. This kind of happiness is long or short, more or less, which can always leave some bright marks and some beautiful memories in our lives.
In class, we took courage for a long time, raised our hands, spoke the words that had been brewing for a long time, and won the teacher's satisfied smile and affirmative eyes. In a favorite magazine, you find that you actually published what you wrote six months ago or a year ago, but you hide your inner joy and put the magazine in your schoolbag and hold it on your chest. Only you know that there is a beautiful spring in your arms, and there is a reason to keep you awake all night with excitement. One day, you find that the lofty girl at your desk gave you a kind smile. It seems that the meaning of a smile also includes something that only you know. Therefore, in the contrast between giving you a gentle smile and being indifferent to others, you feel the sweetness of being concerned and the brilliance of the sun.
There are always some things that make us feel embarrassed, helpless and heartbroken. Your mood is always gloomy, unpleasant things are always played in your mind, the sky is always so gloomy, and the spiritual distance between parents, teachers, classmates and friends is always so far away. So, you have the idea of running away.
In fact, life is like this, a hodgepodge, a five-flavored bottle. If you are optimistic, you will think that life is colorful and interesting.
If you are pessimistic, the situation will be different. A gloomy sky, depressed mood, depressed life. ...
Shakespeare said, "Life is like a stage."
This sentence is simple and true.
Life is a big stage and you are a dancer.
There are good times and failures. There is a front desk and a back desk.
Whether life is wonderful or not, your performance is the most important.
At the front desk, in order to be wonderful, to be more wonderful, and to make the audience burst into applause, we BLACKPINK came out, made great efforts, put on makeup, dressed, prepared lines, posed, adjusted our breath, strolled out step by step, and tried our best. What to sing, singing five tones is not chaotic; What should be said is clear and clear; What should be played, played incisively and vividly. So he won a full house and was full of joy.
However, there are always times when I return to the background, I take off my costume and makeup to show my tired eyes. Maybe you don't have a friend waiting to tell you the truth, thank you for your hard work, or exchange a wink silently.
In this hot and cold process, our life continues.
In fact, sometimes, since you have won a lot of applause, recognition, success or at least partial success, you should have the courage to face all kinds of failures behind success. A life of eternal success is the ideal wish of many people, but in fact it has never been like this.
Therefore, when you enjoy success, you have to face the reality: failure and depression are also approaching you.
Life gives you a lot of happiness, and at the same time, it constantly makes you accept all kinds of tempering.
I often think that time, like a plow blade, will leave many marks in our life sooner or later. What we will become under the dance of time plough depends on our performance.
In our every move, perhaps we accept happiness, live a quiet or warm, dull or exciting life, experience the beauty of life in the tunnel of time, and appreciate our sculptures in constant growth. At the same time, we are also suffering from all kinds of hardships, complaining about the unfairness of heaven, and at the same time admiring the good fate of others, we have also deepened our harm.
Some happiness can be grasped. As long as we sincerely get it, the process may sometimes be costly, but we finally get it. Some things are vague. If the method is right, you will get it. This is your ability. Sometimes the method is not as good as you think, at least not as good as you think. Maybe you will lose it. Some things are not yours, and you can't get them no matter how hard you try, but as long as you work hard, why should we insist?
Satisfaction with reality is a sign of optimism.
Dissatisfaction with reality is the internal driving force for progress.
If we all think so, maybe our life will gradually become more active (or more active) and our world will be more colorful. We will not become bitter because of some unpleasantness in a certain period of time, nor will we be devastated because of some occasional failures. It is not impossible to see the fiery red sun and breathe fresh air every day, but after all, some days the sun is buried in the clouds, and the air is not so fresh, sometimes with a little dust, and there are sandstorms in the north in spring. We still have to face such days. This is life.
You want applause from the audience, and you want your daily life to be unforgettable and wonderful. Then, you should behave well: adjust your mood and clear your mind. Even if the sky is cloudy, just imagine it as a cloudless sunny day in Wan Li, and it will still be a beautiful and comfortable day.
The key to all this is to show it yourself.
-Quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House "Communication is actually very simple"